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MY NAME iS TiFFANY . . iM`A 16/F/FL AND Y0U CAN SAY i`M THE TYPE 0F FEMALE WH0 HAS BEEN THR0UGH MY 0WN UPS N D0WNS iN LiFE..ESPECiALLY WHEN iT CAME T0 RELATiONSHiPS. GETTiNG PREGNATE , FEELiNG AL0NE, GETTiNG DUMPED, AND STUPiD EN0UGH T0 GET UP N G0 THR0UGH iT AGAiN. i WANT T0 HELP 0THER PE0PLE AV0iD MAKiNG THE SAME MiSTAKES i HAVE. i HATE ASKiN PE0PLE F0R ADViCE THAT D0N`T KN0W WHAT THE HELL THEY TALKiN` ABOUT WHERE ALL THEY CAN SAY iS -"iT`LL BE O.K. KEEP YOU`RE HEAD UP.." THAT`S N0T ADViCE. Y0U CAN C0UNT 0N ME T0 TELL YA ASS STRAiGHT UP WHAT T0 D0 THAT WiLL B BEST! HiT ME UP!
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If you're an advicenators columnist then maybe you've see this question. It was about this girl who is 2-1/2 months pregnant with this guys baby and she claims to want him alot. I wrote to this person that no guy is worth it no matter what his excuses are. (this is assuming the girl is still in high school you understand) I gave her information on where to get more help and advice, including a website and phone number. Was that the right thing to do?? I'm really lost and unsure. (link)
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okay for u immature people with immature anwers-you probably dont even know 1/2 of what that girl is going through. I think you did the right thing sweety..giving her advice. Not itting there and telling her she's stupid like that other dumbass. You're right and i think u did the right thing =)
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ok, so i have this really personal problem, i am a 16 year old girl, but i was born with male genatiles. I dont know what to do becuase i have a steady boyfriend, we have been seeing eachother for about 3 months. We have gone to third base( but i gave him pleasure not the other way around)and he told me taht he wants to do the smae for me. Im afraid that if he sees my 'down there area' that he will be grossed out. But i really really love him. Help me, how can i tell him?!
-worried (link)
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Girl..I`ve never heard nOthin like this befOre..if he really cares abOut yOu asz much as yOu do fOr him...then he shOuld understand...but dOn`t get me wrOng because nO One wOuld take that well at all....umm-can`t u get ir surgically remOved? i knOw yOu have thOuqht abOut it but yOu shOuld really gO intO that. yOu shOuldn`t have tO live with this humiliatiOn
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hey um this is kind of awkward, but i'm in 7th grade and i belive i have met "the one" and me and him want to go all the way (sex), and i am totally comfortable with it, but my parents arn't. should i do it with protection, or listen to my parents and not do it at all, but my dad is the one whos conserned my mom doesn't care. i've already talk to them about it, r u still a virgin? if not then how old were you wen you lost your viginity, please.... im so CONFUSED! i'll rate! (link)
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Umm..if yOu believe yOu`ve fOund the One..then yOu need tO think it Over..i`m nOt sayinq..he isn`t but i made the misTake..i LosT my virqinity in 8th with a bOy in my neiqhbOrhOod that wuhz in 7th..i Loved hiim..aCtually-i stiLL dO. iF yOu believe he REALLY feeLsz the same way for yOu then-oKay..bUt keep in mind-thaTsz what i thOught..and Once yOu lOse it-yOu`ll NEVER EVER qet it back. i lOst my guy of cOurse,but i`ll never be abLe tO chanqe whaT happEned..weLL think abOut it aS lOnq as pOssibLe ok!?
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My bf is 15 and his penis is almost 6 inches long is that about average? Also he wants me to give him a blow job should he wear a condom? (link)
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uhmM..wOw...6 inchesz..i`m quessinq datsz how it isz hard lOl..well i dunno his race..i queSs for whitesz it isz but fOr me its abOut 7.5 to 9...*bt they 16* weLL..he shOuld wear a cOndOm if it`sz like his first/2nd timE bt otherwisze prObly dOnt qotta worry bOut dat!
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Okay, I'm gonna obviously make my own decision about this, but I'm curious as to what y'all think. I'm 16/f, if you wanna know.
My boyfriend and I have been...experimenting lately. In the beginning of the relationship, we'd both said that we weren't into oral, but all of a sudden he wants to...y'know, give it a try. I mean, he wants to try it on me. I originally refused because I thought it would kind of obligate me to give it to him, but he said that wasn't the case. (I'm really, honestly not into it, and I always feel like he does more for me than I do for him.)
Also, the thought of kissing him afterwards kind of...bothers me...
Should I let him or not? I mean, it's kind of an...interesting...idea, but nngh - I dunno. What d'you think? (link)
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weLL yOu dOn`t wanna really have ORAL sex with him sO i dOn`t think yOu shOuld..i mean..mOst the quyszi knO wOuld NEVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR qive a girl oraL sex..lOl..but yet-they want it themseLvesz..i think iF he really wants tO dO it..and yOu dOn`t think it`sz a qOod idea..then yOu shOuldn`t..i`m nOt intO oraL sex either..it kinda sucks..i meanthe thought of kissing them duz suck i kno but..i mean its YOUR stuff...as lonq as he never did it tO anOther qirl..it`sz all qood..but the thouqht of sOme bOy's HEAD between my leqsz is uHhHhH no! lOl..but dO what ya want and whatever just fLows becuz if yOu let him dO it..yOu kinda do "Owe him One" BuH bYeSZ!
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I'm 15 n I love my boyfriend with allll my heart n we've been together for a long time n we really want a baby. It might sound crazy but. Dont call me a slut or anything, cuz im not. I wouldnt just want a baby with any guy. I love my boyfriend n he loves me n we feel we're ready to take care of a kid. We'd be able to raise it no problem, we have money n stuff. I just dont kno what people would think. My boyfriend promises he'll never leave me, n I kno he will be there to support me in anything...what do you think.. (link)
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i think iT`sz sweet hOw yOu andyOur bOyfriend really care abOut each Other...but a baby!??! uhh yOu`re 15..whUt wOuld yOur parents think if yOu had a baby with this guy and u havent even graduated??bUt iT`sz yOur chOice..if yOu really think yOur ready then qO ahead. i`m nOt callinq yOu a sLut..i wOuldnt!i miqht b havinq a baby and the dad duznt want NOTHINq tO dowith it..actually he dOesn`t knO..but anyway! i tHink yOu shOuld really think abOut this siuatiOn and ifyOu think yOur ready tO handLe the consequences qO ahead..cuz Yeah-yOur friendsz are qOnna think sOme bad thinqsz..alonq with many Other peOple..but iT`sz yOur baby nOt theresz! hOpe i heLped =) -Tiffany
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okay well i feel really stupid asking this but okay here i go.. i have done everything with a guy besides suck dick/blowjob w/e.. okay and its not that i dont want to bc i do but im scared! What if i dont do it right or sumthing?! Do you have any advice on how to do it or step by step or anything?! If so thanx! i really appreciate it!
-Desperate girl- (link)
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HeY ..weLL i`ve onLy dOne it like 3 tiMesz...nOt exactLy by chOice...weLL it dependsz On hOw yOu do it..if it`sz wrOnq Or riqht..lOl wath the movie boat trip...that qirl qivEsz GREAT advice on hOw tO dO it! lmaO
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Help, Sorry it's a bit long.
We're doing an anonymous survey in health class, and it's to be done and brought into class by friday. I'm not asking your opinions on anything, I'm just confused on a question it asks me to answer.
It asks me If I'm a virgin. Well I don't want the teacher to know it's me, so I don't want to ask the teacher this, and none of my other classmates really knew what to put. If you've had oral sex, would you be considered a virgin. I've heard yes because your hymen still hasn't broken, but I still don't know. So if you've had oral sex, are you still a virgin. I'm just going with whatever most of you guys answer, unless anybody has a good opinon on it. (link)
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YeSz..yOu`re a virqin if a guysz stuff hasn`t been in yOur qOodz lOl..well if yOu have oraL sex.yOur mOuth izn`t a virqin but yeah...dOn`t be embarassed =) iT`z natural!
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What do I do if I think I may be obsessed with sex? (link)
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oOh..i wOnder the same thinq..sOmetimesz i feeL like i can`t qO on withOut it =( bUt there`sz nOt mucH tO dO...dOn`t qO off aNd dO it with just aNyOne thaTsz fOr sure TRY tO hOld off tiL yOu find the riqht persOn..iF yOu feel yOu must have it..find sOme one that at least careS abOut yOu! qOod Luck-Tiffany
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i know your all going to call me a liar but i'm not. well, my freind is 12 and has had sex 13 times with the same person. here's the story...when she was 10 she was dating a 14 year old guy, their parents met and got married, then they were dating other people since they had become step siblings, then they wanted to be together so they had sex, just rcently she got pregnant and had an abortion all from her step brother. then a few days a go she gave head to and 18 year old!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i think it's rediculous! but she loves him and when she turns 16 her parents are signing something so they can move into an apartment together! she calls him her "husband!" i think it's real slutty. what should i say when she brings it up around me? (link)
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sHesz nOt a sLut...uHmm i kinda kNo hOw she feelsz..i wuz 13...slePt with my bOyfriend 22 timEsz..and his cOusin is the one i`m in lOve with and i sLepT witH him quiTe a biT tOo. dOn`t make her feel bad. iT reaLLy sucksz wen yOur friendsz sTarT turninq their baCksz tOo..fRiendsz aRe prObabLy what this qirl needsz the mOst riqht nOw..yOu shOuld prObabLy just cOmfOrT her despite yOur harsH feeLinqsz...
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whats a vibrator? (link)
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LoL..sOmeOne nEeDsz tO qeT oUt mOre..a viBraTor is a..PleasUre device ThAt suPpOsivEly qivesz yOu the pleasUre of a real boysz dickk *i wOuldn`t knO i dOn`t need OnE* BuT yeah...waTch nOt anOther teen mOvie..the beqinning..perFect examPle of a no sex-Life qeek
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my boyfriend is coming over tomorrow and i want to give him head, but i want to seduce him and make him want it more and like right away, maybe like give him a boner or something, so does anyone have anything to do that will help? (link)
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Oh i lOve teaSiNq! qirL wHat yOu dO iS laY him dOwn n b4 dOinq ANYTHING rUb LotiOn aLL oVa uRseLf b4 tOuchiNq him *n riqhT iN fRoNt oF him* stiLL havE uR cLotHeSz oN and sit faCinq hiM in his laP..sTarT kissinq him and leT hiM wraP his arMsz arOund yOu and sTarT tOuchiNq yOu then jUst do w/e oTha trick yOu qOt pLanned OuT..hAvE fuN!
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how do i get my bf sexually aroused so he'll get a B0ner when i cant be with him.. like when im talking to him online, or on the phone?!.. does any one have ne tips or advice on it? - thanks - (link)
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uhmm iT dePendsz hOw desPeraTe fOr sex yOur quy is =)
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lol, ok, i kno this is dorky and all but, how do u french kiss??? i mean i've always wonder, u kno, like what do u do....lol, i kno, i kno, this is a stupid question (link)
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lOl oH hEll na...aRe yOu likE 10 yeaRsz oLd?? weLL yOu sLoOowly qive a gentle kiss tO yOur partner..(nO rush) makE it passionaTe..then qentLy parT tHeiR lipsz wiTh the tip Of yOur tOunge n BAM yer tOunqe is in! fRom there yOu can eiTher gO rOuqh anD tOuqh oR sLow..*aHh* leT mE StOp thiNkin bOut this b4 i caLL sOmeoNe tO cOme Over tOniqht
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Hi its Lissa...okay i well i got my progress report in the mail today and iim failing 3 classes and passing 3 (those aint that great either) and i told my mom and now shes all pissed like REALLY pissed she calls every 2 minutes n yells at me and she's like 'WHAT THE HELL!' n we have to go to my aunts funeral tomorrow at 11 am and now she's saying i can't go because of my grades, isn't that gay? shes my AUNT! and she's also like your not going into drivers ed and never getting a car EVER if u dont get all good grades and blah blah blah its really pissing me off i even started crying. im doing better now, i turn in most of my work im just not that smart and she expects me to be all smart and shit when im not...she keeps bugging me about it and im so annoyed...and thats just on the phone what the hell am i gonna do when she gets home from work!? she knows my 'situation' or she should cuz when school started i was really depressed and suicidal and everything was messed up, now im on anti depression medicine so im doing better and trying harder in school. my counselor even told me not to be so hard on myself i have a lot goin on and idk what to do about this...sorry this is long but ah..what do i do? thanks so much!!! (link)
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yOur mOm is like mine..the arqument qOes On and On and On! she never shuTsz up!! i Think yOu shOul tell yOur mOm yOu`re qOinq tO try yOu just need her suppOrt and fOr her tO qive yOu positive encouraqement not neqative. I dOnt blame yOu fOr qetting annoyed!!
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Ok, my dad just died from lung cancer on Tuesday. My friend who me and him have been really really good friend, with some benefits, for almost a year now, asked me to hang out with him yesterday, and he asked me out while we were hanging out. I said yes but Im worried that, 1. hes gonna cheat on me and our friendship is gonna be over (cause he is quite flirty with girls at times) and i dont wanna lose him as a friend cause i really need him around during this time in my life and that 2. idk if he just asked me out cause he feels bad about me because I just lost my dad. HELP!!! (link)
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Well i doubt he`z just qoinq wit you becuz he feeLsz bad 4 you. Alllll quysz flirt,but at the end of the day they aLwayz thinkin about that One qirl they reaLLy like..i ThinK yOu shOuld qive him a try aNd sinCe yOur reLatiOnshiP' is buiLt oN a frieNdship yOu can bE abLe to ask hiM these ThinqS`z. qOod Luck qirL! -Tiffany
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i have been married for a little more than 3 months now.my husband and i do not want kids now.i'm 30 years old and my hubby is 36.i was a virgin and neither he had any sexual contact prior to our wedding.he does not want to use a condom during sex and i dont want to take oral contraceptive pills.so our sexual activity has remained largely non-penetrative.i'm still a virgin and my hubby insists on oral sex or we arouse each other and then masterbate.he gets aroused by wonderful shapely legs and a good body.
do u think we need to go to a sexologist for councelling?is he normal?his penis is around 5.5'' when erect.i know it is small but then...
are there other contraceptive measures even if a person is a virgin?both of us are confused.we are not that young either and we want kids only in 2006.i need advice urgently. (link)
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Okay..you're married to a quy..with a fuckin little ass dick..no offense but why wOuld u wanna have sex anyway with that?? okay let me stop nb seriOus..sO i think counselinq isn`T reaLLy needed.. Oral sex really isn`t as PleaSuriinq as real sex aNd neither is masTurbaTinq (i dOnT think) yOu n yer "huBbi" jusT nEeD tO tRy sOmethinq eLse! -Tiffany
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