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i have been married for a little more than 3 months now.my husband and i do not want kids now.i'm 30 years old and my hubby is 36.i was a virgin and neither he had any sexual contact prior to our wedding.he does not want to use a condom during sex and i dont want to take oral contraceptive pills.so our sexual activity has remained largely non-penetrative.i'm still a virgin and my hubby insists on oral sex or we arouse each other and then masterbate.he gets aroused by wonderful shapely legs and a good body.
do u think we need to go to a sexologist for councelling?is he normal?his penis is around 5.5'' when erect.i know it is small but then...
are there other contraceptive measures even if a person is a virgin?both of us are confused.we are not that young either and we want kids only in 2006.i need advice urgently.
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then get a girl condum
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Well if he doesn't want to use a condom, he can suck it up and use it any way. Oral contraceptive pills or the shot is not 100% effective and neither are condoms, but at least they don't cause mood swings, weight gain, or other annoying symptoms.
You both ARE young. Don't you worry.
Perhaps once he matures up and sucks it up and you two decide to use condoms, I suggest making it into a sexual activity. Not only go shopping for the condoms together, but put it on him in a much more interesting way than just opening the package and slipping it on.
Just make an activity out of it.
Also, don't take the pill or anything if you don't want to and don't allow anyone to force you into taking anything without you being 100% sure.
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I think your guys may need to stop the sex and talk about what you need. If you are in this kind of feeling how in the world are you ENJOYING sex? ~*Jenni*~
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Okay..you're married to a quy..with a fuckin little ass dick..no offense but why wOuld u wanna have sex anyway with that?? okay let me stop nb seriOus..sO i think counselinq isn`T reaLLy needed.. Oral sex really isn`t as PleaSuriinq as real sex aNd neither is masTurbaTinq (i dOnT think) yOu n yer "huBbi" jusT nEeD tO tRy sOmethinq eLse! -Tiffany
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Good grief. It's not that small. Trust me, it feels a whole lot different. There are other options in the contraceptive category, but I think you both should have worked this out ahead of marriage. At least you agree on when you want kids. There are patches and shots. Talk to a doctor or a sexual therapict. I think just a visit to the doctor will help.
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