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Ok i really like this guy. He goes to my school and i don't even think he knew that i even went to the same school or even was on the same plant. Well his brother asked me what if the guy i like would grap my hand when we are drivin around and i said i don't know. So then he was like HMMMMMMMMM. The only thing the guy that i like talks about is sex all the time. I have had sex but i dont' want to have sex till i am married. i like him but then i just don't know what i should do. Should i go out with him and give it up or should i just say that we need to be friends (link)
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You can go out with him, and if he tries to get you to have sex with him tell him you don't want to. If he tries to pressure you break up with him. If he really likes you he won't care about not having sex.
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this morning i went to the bathroom and when i wiped there was a little bit of blood on the tolite paper does this mean i'm starting my period or that i've had my period? please help! p.s i'M 13 (link)
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You probally started your period!!! :)
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OKay im 14/f and i have a guy friend whos 15 he is like my best friend and he has always been there for me... but latley weve been talking about like doing stuff with eachother and like fooling around... but like we wouldnt have sex or anyhting close to it.. but like do you think it will ruin our friendship or change it for the worse?????
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It might not be a good idea because you might get really close then one of you starts to get feelings for eachother while the other one realizes they don't feel anything more then friendship. Also you could dtae then brake up and not get along if it's a bad breakup. Hope everything works out though.
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ok well...sorry if this is too long but..... i have been gettin these strong feelings....first i thought....no sex before marriage.......then i thought.... you know sex before marriage is not that bad....then now i am thinking it is great to have sex AFTER marriage, but then i am asking all these questions in my head..what if he doesnt like my body? what if...this happens what if that... i have been thiking alot ...and i have been lusting....ye lol...and i have been having these ideas maybe a month ago..children? my ass i am adopting..now i think it would be cool to have a baby..just a life and all the beauty..and since i am getting these ideas to be married of course i will have a baby IN marriage.....and then i am getting these thoughts it would be a beautiful thing to do this...and then i am thinking oh i wanna have a child and get married at 19..then i am like what am i thinking? then i am thinking 20..no 26.....and i am all copnfused and THINKING A LOT .. i have just layed on my bad and thought......and i think about sex.... yup..and i really feell i need to do something about this...please help!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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It's normal to have all these mixed feelings. I have had them to. I have almost done stuff that I know I would have regretted later.
MAybe at that time it sounded good but later on maybe not... Make sure with whatever decision you make you are ready.
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what if your married....and the guy you love doesnt like your body? it would be totally foolish if you got divorced the night after?? plz tell me.. i am really curious (link)
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No it wouldn't. If a guy I loved told me that he obviously wouldn't love everything about me. You should want a guy who loves you unconditionally. It sounds to me like the guy is a jerk and you could probally do much better. I hope you find someone out there who loves you completely and that you love completely. But it would NOT be foolish!
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I think I finally found the guy I'd stick with till I die even though Im 13. Hehe. But, he doesn't love me back! OMG I'm so upset and depressed and hurt and discouraged. And the only person that can ever help me with this is HIM! But noooooooo, he isn't here anymore! What do I do b4 I kill myself? Suicide is the only option so far...........
~Kayla~
Thanx in advance. (link)
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If he doesn't love you back then try to grt over him. You deserve someone who is going to love you as much as you love them!
Hun trust me suicide is not the answer. It never is!
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I have had unprotected sex a lot and my boyfreind had accidentaly ejaculated inside me before quite a few times and while im on my period he always does because i've never gotten pregnant.. does this mean that i'll never get pregnant? is something wrong with me?
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The best thing you can probally do is go to the doctor, if you are really worried. If you are under 18 and don't want your parents to know there are clinics you can look up and they aren't allowed to tell anyone you went there.
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you can use a condom and be on birth control right? because im on birth control but trust me in nowhere near having sex people wanted to with me but i said no :D im not ready for that or the consequences yet! well i was just wondering. because i am on birth control for my period not because im being sexual. well yeah i was just checkin sorry if that was a dumb question! just wanted to be sure. (link)
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Yea actually it would be best if you did, that way you could prevent STD's. Plus birth control is only 92 to 99% effective. Condoms aren't 100% percent effective either, on preventing STD's or un planned pregnancies. So If you want a better chance of preventing STD's, unplanned pregnancies, etc. I would reccomend both!! It isn't a dumb question it is actually a very good one. Hope I answered your question.
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My friend has been having these dreams about her friends dying. She's told one of them. He didn't die, but 2 others did. I don't necessarily think it's her dreams...but maybe fate's telling her something.
Rachna is my friend with these dreams. We're both very good friends with Alex, a boy who asked me out and I said yes(Rachna likes him too, but claims she'll get over it).
So, it started last night. She was IMing me telling me "he's dead." I didn't know WHO was. She said, "I killed him" and I got a little frightened and asked who. "Ishan" she said. Ishan is like one of the closest people in Rachna's life. She claimed it was her dreams who killed Ishan.
"I had a dream and maybe if I just told him he wouldn't have died" she was hysterical between sobs. "I told Alex and he didn't die. I didn't tell my cousin and she died." I felt very sorry.
We stayed up for hours and talked about how she can't change her life and attitude. Rachna's Goth, and she's saying "I'll act all happy and wear pink every day".
Especially since we made a deal saying Alex didn't like me and if he did, I'd have to be a Barbie at Rachna's wedding.
Apparently, there's no wedding. Because "Before I ever find love or get married I'll kill myself and be found in a box on the streets".
Ishan was in Ireland when he died (got hit by a drunk driver), and Rachna was in New York. What could she do? Call Ishan and say "Hey I had a dream you were gonna die, stay away from the streets, k bye"?
Thing is, Rachna won't let me tell Alex and she won't tell Alex. But since Alex is my really good friend I just kind of have an urge to tell him.
Rachna's last words on AIM was "I'm sorry Jordan, I really am" and she signed off.
I haven't slept well last night at all, and I feel so terrible. Damn these drunk drivers, causing so many people misery!!!!!
I don't know what to do next. Any advice? (link)
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I have studied Dream Interpretations and from what I know it just means she is going through some kind of change. Whether in her personality or a subconcious change she is unaware of. But all it symbolizes is change. The only way she or you need to be worried about death dreams is if they are really peaceful. Usually if you have a death dream and it means you or someone is going to die it will be peaceful. Usually if it really is a death dream there will be blue, to white lights, and she, or someone will be guided across a bridge. There are occasions when it isn't but that is SUPER rare. It sounds to me that if she talked to someone like a therapist, they could find out how to get rid of these dreams. Her therapist can help her with whatever change she is going through; to make it easier.
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If someone is on birthcontrol (the pill) and they had sex.. whats the likelyness of them getting pregnant. And they've been on the pill for half a month. (link)
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You have to tbe on the pill for 30 days before it is effective. You start taking it from the first day you start your period, then 30 days after that it would be safe to have sex. In that case with any pill there is a 92 to 99% chance you won't get pregnant. So even on the pill to be safe I would recomend using a condom. The pill won't prevent STD's etc. If you take any antibiotics then it lessens the effectiveness of the pill. If you have any more questions feel free to ask.
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ok so my boyfreind is 15 im 13 the age doesnt bother me that much but the fact that he has has sex before does we can talk about it openly and all but i think he thinks i am imature for telling him there is no way in hell i will lose my virginity when i am only 13 and stuff i dont really no wat my question is i think i just need to talk to someone about it help please (link)
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Being 13 and not wanting to loose you virginity is a good thing. He should respect that and if he doesn't then he is only in it for sex. You should tell him that it is immature of him to try to pressure you. If you need someone to talk to i'm here.
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