Ok i really like this guy. He goes to my school and i don't even think he knew that i even went to the same school or even was on the same plant. Well his brother asked me what if the guy i like would grap my hand when we are drivin around and i said i don't know. So then he was like HMMMMMMMMM. The only thing the guy that i like talks about is sex all the time. I have had sex but i dont' want to have sex till i am married. i like him but then i just don't know what i should do. Should i go out with him and give it up or should i just say that we need to be friends
Melody answered Friday July 14 2006, 2:59 pm: You can go out with him without 'giving it up'. He's a teenage boy. Almost all teenage boys think about sex 95% of the time. It's just how they are. If you like this boy, give it a shot. If he does try to get into your pants, simply tell him you aren't ready to have sex yet, and you've decided to wait until marriage. If he can't accept that, then he isn't worth the trouble of dating to begin with. [ Melody's advice column | Ask Melody A Question ]
Lola answered Friday July 14 2006, 6:04 am: Hey,
i've read your problem and i don't usually answer sex questions,but i had a point of veiw,and i'd like to tell you about it.
I think that you should just say that you need to be friends, and you can talk with him,and joke and laugh and fool around and do all you want, and mabye he'll start liking you and you'll like him too, than mabye you'd give it up yourself, and you'll find yourself with him talking about sex and having it and you'll change your opinion about not having sex before marriage. And mabye he'd also turn to be a really sweet guy, and when you;d get close to him, you;ll know that sex isn't the only thing on his mind ,and that he's lots of fun, and you;ll change your idea about him. So just get close to him as a friend first and then if you see that he's worth more than that ,then you can take a step forward and go out with him.
Finally, if you need any more help or advice, please be free to contact me. [ Lola's advice column | Ask Lola A Question ]
MaNdASzHElP247 answered Friday July 14 2006, 6:03 am: well some guys may talk about it all the time, but if he likes you enough, he just might respect the fact that you dont wanna do it.
if he doesnt then he just might not be that good of a guy for you. do you understand what i mean? hopefully he likes you enough to respect you. good luck with everything (: [ MaNdASzHElP247's advice column | Ask MaNdASzHElP247 A Question ]
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