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Hey My Nick name is Kiki and i really like giving advice so when i found this site i was like hecka excited.

I live in the US and i have alot of fun here but i would like to visit other places of the world.

i don't know wat else to say so yea...

Anyways holl@!
E-mail: xXkissesgoodbyeXx@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: I'm from the USA
Occupation: student
Age: 15
Member Since: September 15, 2006
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Last Update: April 18, 2009
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my gf and i are talking about having sex were both 16 im a bit worried my penis is not that big she said it doesnt matter that much but im a bit nervous i wont measure up can a guy please a girl with a smaller penis? (link)
for sure! it's not the size that matters it's what you can do with it. like my ex he was smaller than most guys but he really knew how to work it. if you need ideas, for example, he looked at articles on line and in magazines. so don't worry about it and please use protection =]

lots of love
-Kikij


15 yr old guy and my penis is bent over to the right especially when i get an erection im a bit worried is this normal? it wont matter to my girlfriend? (link)
is it normal i'm not sure but all guys are different. for example when my ex got an erection it would go a bit more up than other guys. i didn't find it to matter though cause i cared alot about him. meaning if your girlfriend really cares about you for you than it's not gonna matter but if she's just looking for sex it will. (girls like those you don't need them). i'm sure there's nothing wrong with you but if you're worried you might wanna ask a specialist. but i'm pretty sure no worries =]

hope i helped
-kikij


my bf and are i 16 and weve talked about having sex im a bit nervous a couple of my friends said it really hurts so im worried my bf has a big penis so does it hurt much the first time?
does it depend on the size of his penis? (link)
ok first of all use protection you wouldn't want to get pregnant. and does it hurt the first time...yes it does. it'll hurt the first two times because the penis will stretch it out to an extent it hasn't before. you might bleed to i didn't but it depends on the person. and considering his size, since it's large, yea it might hurt more since your still a virgin.

well hope i helped!!

-kikij


15/f
alright so my boyfriend and i have bee going out for over a year, anyways we've thought about having sex awhile. i love him and he loves me so dont give me you're too young crap. we were both virgins till today. haha anyways he went inside my vag, and it hurt ALOT. he stuck it in more then half way but not fully, then took it out. the condem had a bit of blood at the tip, but not alot. now, does that mean my cherry popped fully?, or whatt is there suppose to be alot of blood? thankss for readingg :) (link)
yup it popped.sometimes you can't really tell besides the pain. i mean when mine popped i didn't bleed at all (weird i know). well all i have to say is use protection hun k? any ways it's good that you lost it to someone you love =].

p.s. by the way the first person on here is an idiot because everyone has there own opinion it doesn't mea trying to get higher ratings.


If someone fingers you are you still a virgin? (link)
yes hun he didn't penitrate you so it's all good...


I'm not planning on having sex the first time for a couple years or so atleast but I'm afraid I will end up regretting it later on. I'm just curious about the average age girls lose their virginity.

So basically I have three questions..

1. What age did you lose your virginity?

2. Do you regret it or are you happy with your choice?

3. What age do you suggest? (Please don't say when you're ready because obviously I'm going to wait until I'm ready but I'm talking like what's too young, etc.)

Thanks (link)
k well i guess i have the youngest age on here
i was 13

do i regret it? no but i do regret who i did it with because he just used me

u should wait until ur married and all but hey told myselfi was gonna wait and look wat happened. i did it at a yong age and in my idea of all this you should wait until your married or at least leagal (meaning 18)

but be careful of STDs and all of that use protection and all k?

=]


i no the age of consent is 16 but if iam 16 and the guy that i want to have sex with is 22 is that still ok? (link)
no hun, no the age of consent is 16 but if he's 22 it's illeagal if he was 18 alright because if there's only a two year difference then yea but your a minor to this guy so nope.


I am 20 years old and i have a guy who i really like but i have never kissed a guy and i dont really know what to do and i have built it up to be so scary that it makes things worse help!!! (link)
i remember my first kiss i was nervouse too but i realized that it comes really naturally. i mean do what you do and it should be good i mean if you worry too much u just winde up kissing his nose.

but yea take it easy
hoped i helped
KikiJ


I've recently started dating this great guy. The problem is, he's black and I'm white. I'm against racism to the full extent and so is my mom, but my dad and brother don't feel the same. I know they won't accept this guy and I'm afraid to bring him home. My dad will look down on me and I hate feeling bad for liking such an amazing guy. What am I supposed to do? (18/F) (link)
You're suppose to love and let love if you know what i mean. Love is something that i would consider special and enough to prevail through any currcumstance and if your father or brother can't see that you really like this guy then that's their decision not to.But in my opinion if he really means that much to you then bring him home and speak your mind because if you don't it might be hard to later when the realationship gets more into it you know?

Hope i helped and good luck!

-KikiJ


I'm a teenage girl. I'm single, and a virgin. (and sick of it) For the past five years of my life I have wanted to commit suicide because I have recently discovered that there is no point in living.

I'm very overweight and I'm ugly. The one boy who has ever loved me was a liar and he had a mental problem. (not being sarcastic) I have no friends and I really want to die. I've been working as a stage actress for a while but I realized I have no talent at all.

My point is: No one loves me and no one ever will. I can't live any longer without being loved. What should I do? How can I survive without love?

Everyone treats me like I'm seven years old. I look a lot older than my age and most people ask me if I'm in college. I hate my life so much. Oh, and I do masturbate regularly so don't say that I should try that. It's not a substitute for a partner or for real love. Also: all of my peers have boyfriends. So I'm the only one who's single and a loner.
By the way, no one ever listens to me when I talk so that's another reason why I want to kill myself.
Please give me advice. (link)
First of all SUICIDE r u CRAZY?

that's not an answer. i know you've probably heard this soooooooooo many times but i'm gonna be real with you it doesn't matter if your fat try to lose weight go on some diets if you need some ideas email me i'll be here for you but don't give up i'm sure your a great person.

If your going to commit suicide call your self an idiot!

here i want you to read this.

Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. The boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right boy to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.


it's a quote and all it mean is there's nothing wrong with you boys are probably intimidated by you. If you make the first move it'll ease them a little.

You say your fat well:

start wearing wrap shirsts they'll give you a slimmer look

black but not so much that you goth.

diets like i said message me if you need help

NEXT:

your virginity.

don;t you want ot save it for the right person?

idk it's your decicen

OKAY you probably think that i'm a bitch right now but you need help

all i read was negitive crap and i use to be like that no boys like me blah blah

when i started acting more confident started dieting they were comeing everywhere! (not littereally of course)

in a month i was asked out over 4 times i know not a lot to some girls but it was alot to me.

it's the way you treat and carry your self you just need the right steps...

feel better

-KikiJ


i've never had sex... so i don't know why i'm freaking out. but i'm fifteen and terrified that some random sperm may have seeped into me or something, though that's not very likely, i'm just PARANOID. plus, i had a cold, and now my body aches and im freezing, but i think i just have a virus. i'm just scared because i didn't get my period this month. and as nasty as it sounds, i'm sure my brother is having sex with his girlfriend, and i masturbate with my hands, so. terrified. i've been having my period for a little over two years, and it's not really regular. i miss a month sometimes, or for instance it will come on the 22nd of june, skip a month, come on the 5th of july, come the 19th of august. who knows. but i'm totally freaking out. sorry, sorry, sorry for seeming so immature. but mostly i need reassurance that this isn't possible... i haven't been throwing up or anything. just. ugh. help? (link)
yeha well i know this girl a virgin and everything she hadn't had her period for a year then after a year went by it came back i think it's just hormaones.

If you wanna be really sure go to your doctor and see they have some stuff like secretive and all ya know.

-KikiJ




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