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Im Allie Hubble.

Im 15 years old and a sophmore at Springfield High School. Borrring city but my friends make up for that. I love just hanging out and being myself!

♥I have a boyfriend Kristofer Lang who've ive been with for sometime now. 09*03*05 I love him with all my heart and i dont no what i would do w/o him! ♥

I am the youger child of 2. My older brother is 18 (June 3 is his bday) and his names Houston Hubble. You probably no him ... .cuz im ALWAYS asked "are u houstons little sister?" He graduated last year from SHS. My birthday is May 4th ... i can't wait for my bday this year! Sweet 16!! hell yess!

Umm I have AIM so ask for my sn if ud like to talk. I also have a myspace http://www.myspace.com/alliehubble! Add me if ud like.

Id like to give a shout out to all my friends. They make me who i am today. I love meeting new people everyday though! ♥Victoria & Mindy♥ have to be my 2 bestest friends. Me n mindy grew up together in the old neighborhood before i moved but me n vic are unseperable now! I lovee them both to death. Vic n I went to Jamaica & Miami these last 2 springbreaks. Shess so awesome to do anything and everything with. Shes pretty much my better half! I also love all my guys too. ♥Nick & Kyle♥ really have been there for me for a while also. I went to Plains prom w/ kyle last year. Hes a sweetheart.

Im a very shy in person but on here if you need anything advice or anything im willing to help! I like to bring my personal expierence into it too!

Anything else u would like to no ... Just email or send me a message on AIM! ♥

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so my boyfriend and i just had sex for the first time together...he was a virgin i was not...and we both love eachother and so we both decided we didnt want to have "kinky", "horney" sex...we wanted loving, passionate sex..so when we were having sex i expected it to be amazing...but i was kinda dissapointed cus i thought he would look at me , or telll me he loved me while we were doing it...but he dditn..he did not look at my face the whole time...and he didnt say he loved me once....was he just using me for sex..?

♥ probably not hun. Since it was his first time maybe he just didnt no how it was going to be. Think of it as a rough draft of the next time you have sex. He knows what to do and things you like now so Im sure he will get better. If it doesnt improve, try talking to him about it. Im sure he would understand.

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My boyfriend has fingered me before but this time he used two fingers and it was a little painful and I bled. I know that's normal. But today when I got up I noticed a big bump, like it it swollen on the outside of one of my lips. Do you think it is just swolen from a scratch or cut??Like from his finger nail?? i think its just swollen, but what eles could it be?? Pelase help me.

♥ Your mostlikly right. Give it a couple days to see if it heals or gets any better. If not and it gets worse try and see a doctor but don't worry hunny im sure its fine.

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Ok, I'm about to have sex for the first time. I've been waiting for ages and I am prepared now. My boyfriend has had sex before a few times so I need a little help on stuff:
a. Is there going to be a lot of blood?
b. Is it going to hurt? (My friend told me it hurt like a mother- through the whole thing on her first time)
c. Is there anything I should know? I know I'm not going to be that great but I don't want to look stupid.
d. What should I do once it's over?

♥ I myself was in a situation not to long ago. I was scared to death for my first time but it really wasnt that bad.

a. no .. not alot if any at all. I didn't bleed the first time. Nor did a few of my friends. You might or might not. If so not alot.

b. It does hurt in the begining. For one being tence about it doesnt help. Once you relax youll be okay and enjoy it more. It just hurts in the begining the first few times you have sex.

c. Just relax and tell your boyfriend if hes hurting you or doing something you don't like.

d. well .. lol i always go to the bathroom to cleanup or to fix my hair or something.
After its over ... get dressed and continue your day! lol

goodluck!

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Hi, i was wondering if it it possible to miss a period? Ive been very active in sports this month and im a week late on my period. Thanks

♥ Its very possible but i would still keep track of how long you missed it and ones you might miss after that. It could be serious later, but dont worry about it now. Your just a normal girl!

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while i was on my period i had unprotected sex three times throughout two days and all three times he nutted in me. what are the chances of me being pregnant cause the rest of my period was light and barely there

♥ Im sorry babe but your chances are very close to being pregnant. I would go and get checked verry soon! If your worried about getting pregnant its probably not the best to have unprotective sex.
If you need anything else ... just ask!

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Okay, i started taking birth control pills about a month ago and i just got my first period while being on them.. it says it is supposed to make your cramps not as bad and a lighter period, mine is the complete opposite, i have horrible cramps and a heavier period.. is that bad? And i get like clumps of blood if you know what i mean.. it's weird.. does anyone know? if not i will call my doctor, but i wanted to see if anyone on here could help me out first..

thanks

♥ Your body needs to get used to the birthcontrol. Give it some time. It will clear up. Its just your body is reacting to something new. It will pass!

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Just curious, can birth control pills give you cancer? My mom keeps telling me its true and I actually think that they prevent cancer...

Well, anything can give u cancer these days. I think that taking them too long over a period of time will give you a higher risk of getting it.
When put on it, I just wouldnt stay on it for 4 years +.

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i am 15/f highschool, and i want to have sex, badly. i know that i'm ready for it. but my boyfriend and i both agree on waiting til theres a time where we dont have to worry about getting caught, and when he can actually love me after and not me have to leave, you know, well, i live in wilson. and i'm also afraid itd going to get around, but its weird cuz. i trust him. and dont think that he will tell anyone, but i dont trust myself.. kinda. i meaan, i told people when i gave my ex a handjob, and shit, but i kinda think sx, is a diff, story, you know, my mom would kill me if she found out.

confused& hatin hormones

♥Its a good thing you guys are waiting for sex. Its a really serious thing. Your scared of it getting around and really theres a good chance of it. I mean that to me is the worst when rumors about what you did + more goes around. Even if you tell one of your firends, that doesnt mean they wont go off and tell someone else. Its about trust so watch who you tell. Also if it does get around, just stand up to the truth and don't let it get to you. People who talk shit have no life.

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My boyfriend and I were fooling around, we never had sex and my hymen isn't broken. Things got a little carried away and we were rubbing our "private" parts together, but my stuff never touched the top of his. Is there any way I'm pregnant? I've been freaking out because my period is late, but I am so irregular that I normally miss a few months anyway. I'm just worried, so any input would be great.

♥ Relax I was once in a situation like this. The reason your irregualr also could be the fact your worring about being pregnant. Your not trust me. Its very hard to do that w/o inercourse unless your trying to. Stress Is the problem. The more u stress about anything the more your body reacts or in your case "putting off days for your cycle".

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hey! ok well this is for anyone who has had sex and knows what they are talkin about. if your on your period, should you have sex? or will the stuff get everywhere and its not a good idea? plz rate plzplzplz!! xoxo thanx!

♥ I don't think its a good idea to do that. Wait .. so u wont have to worry about the mess or anything. Its only a week!

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