im 15 and i have a very small penis and im a bit worried does it matter to girls? Will it get bigger?
well....yea it does matter to girls. i'm sure as you get older it will grow with you so i wouldn't worry about it too much. just live your life and don't worry about others cuz some might not care...you never know..hope i helped you. :)
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well i have these two friends. in fact they are my best friends. we are all bffs and so there is one girl named alissa and the other one is micheal. well alissa went out with micheal for a while and then they broke up. then alissa went out with micheals best guy friend, dan. then they broke up and like now alissas mom told her she couldnt have a bf. well now micheal is the only guy that alissas mom likes so she said that micheal was the only one alyssa can go out with. now i just know they are going to go out. i mean it is going to ruin everything because like i sorta like micheal but he only thinks i do as a friend...and i am not going to tell him that i do because i just cant and that wouldnt change anything beetween us or anything so yea. they havent gone out yet but like i kinda am getting the hint from both of them that they are so idk...someone plz help me. i dont want them to go out. i am second choice. i even know it! alissa told me that micheal said that and now im just so...not really jealous but jealous...if you know what i mean. any advice?
The beginning sucks..just keep reading.
Now, what i would do is the cowardly thing, not say a thing, have my heart ripped out, watch my best friends together when i think it should be me. But you SHOULD NOT DO THAT! You need to go to Micheal and say, you know i really feel uncomfortable with you and alissa going out cuz i really like you as more than a friend. Look him in the eye when you say this and then well you have 2 choices, walk away and see if he comes after you to talk this out or stay there and see what he says..personally i'd walk away and then see what happens. Make sure if you do stay, to look him in the eye the entire time..if he looks away try to catch his eye so he knows ur serious. Don't look away it's hard i know but DON'T.
I know this will be hard on alissa if anything changes from ur doing this so if anything does change your favor (or for the better for you) then you should talk to her about ur feelings. Trust me, if she's your best friend she'll step down. I've stepped away from guyz for my best friends and never regretted it cuz they are now soo happy. Good luck with whatever happens. Keep asking questions, love giving answers.
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my b/f and i have dated for 1 year and 2 months and i feel like i want to have sex with him and well you know guys they always want to but i'm not sure. How do you know for sure when you are ready to have sex? i'm 15 if that helps. I rate!
well 15 is very young to be having sex but it's none of my buisness. A good way to know if you are ready is if you love the guy, you are 100% sure he loves you, you are 100% sure you will NOT regret doing it, you are not have ANY second thoughts at all beforehand, and that you are ready for w/e comes with the sex (pregnancy, STD's, etc.) If you do have sex, use a condom and birth control wouldn't hurt either. If you are having second thought just don't do it. Good luck with w/e you choose.
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hey...i'm 17 and my b/f and i have been dating for 4 years. We really truly love eachother. I know it's true and i know he respects me. When we were 15 he wanted sex but i said no and he hasn't bothered me with it ever since. That's how i know he respects me. Also, i know he has never cheated on me so i know he's serious about this relationship like i am. I love him and i know he loves me. I guess my question is, i can tell he wants to have sex now and it's making me antsy. He wouldn't ever force me too but i'm afraid that he'll crack any second if we don't have sex. Should i have sex with him or should i stick with my morals and say no if it comes up. I really love this guy..what should i do?
Wow the lucky 4? Not many relationships last that long around them ages. You must really truly love eachother. I think it's the right time to talk to your b/f about sex and talk to him about why you arent ready to have sex and that you just arent ready. Make sure he knows you love him and that won't change. I know if he loves you he will keep from getting what he really wants. If he's been with you this long then it's definitly you he wants it's just that sex sometimes just seems right after a certain period of time to guys. They don't understand how precious virginity really is to girls. Just talk to him about it and stick with what you believe and if you believe you shouldn't have sex then don't do it. You know you'll regret it. If he loves you which i'm sure he does, he'll keep on respecting your wishes. Good Luck with the relationship he sounds great. Wish i had a guy.
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okay i knoe alot of ppl are havin sex and all and i used to want ta have sex really bad but i was talkin to my friend and she really explained to me that its a really good idea to wait for mariage. so thats me new plan. but c i talked to alot of guys about having sex... and now i dont knoe how to turn them down..?? i mean will they think im dumb if i say i wanna wait till marriage??
It really doesn't matter what they think. If they want you to have sex and you say no the only reason you need to say is because it doesnt feel right or you arent ready or you just don't want to. It's your choice and if you have sex with them it's because you said it's alright and it's not their fault. So, if someone asks you, you don't have to say i'm waiting until i'm married just say i don't want to or it doesn't feel right. I guarentee i would say that and walk out the second the guy tried anything. I'm waiting til i'm married too. That's the only time i'll be for sure it's okay if you don't plan a pregnancy or something. Just say no. And that's all they should need but if they need an answer tell them something i've mentioned. Good for you for waiting it'll be so special when you do it with the one you love and Good luck with whatever you choose to do.
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Ive been with my gf for about 9 months
were both 16 weve talked about sex and im not sure about it my worry is my penis is not that big
and im not sure what she'll think does it matter to girls?
Well, that would be the last of my worries...but I have heard that girls talk quite a bit about it. It shouldn't matter considering she's been with you as long as she has. Just use protection if you are gonna do it and make sure you truly want to do it and that you won't regret it. I'm sure it won't matter to her since considering the time you've shared. Good luck.
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Ok well i been wid mybf for over 9 months and i have been thinkin bout"IT" lol well i wanted to wait till i was like 16 but i dont think im gunna b able to wait that long cuz im 13 now turnin 14 next month but i feel im conforablen stuff n im almost definately positive my bf iz!! lol so my questions iz do u think i should or do u think im to young?!?!?!?! plz help!! thanx
~*~ Should I?!?!? ~*~
well, in my opinion you are totally too young. But, it's also totally not my place to tell you that. If you love this boy and you know 100% he loves you and you definitly know he's not using you and that you really want to do it..then do it. Don't do it cuz everyone else is, don't do it cuz he wants you to, don't do it because it's the IN thing. But, I really think if you do it you'll regret it but it's your choice. Think about everything before you do it and make sure you use protection if you decide to do it. Be careful and make sure what you are doing is right. Good luck.
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((I'm 15/f))I think i am ready for sex but im not all that sure cause sometimes i think about it and think that i might regret it in the future. I REALLY like this guy tho. Also, I'm kinda scared that it will hurt really bad and i'm scared that i might not know what to do. What do u think?
Well, i'm 14 but i'm one of those weird teenagers that talks to her mother about these things. No, i'm not saying talk to your mom. That's your own choice. But, I can tell you that if you are having second thought about sex..dont do it. You definitly will regret it if you aren't 100% sure you want to. Make sure it's something you really want to do. And as far as it hurting..im not going to lie to you. It might. I really might i've read and read about that and i've heard everything there is to know. Sex hurts depending on who the person is. Yes, it hurts but it's a common thing so if you go through with it the most you can do to stop the pain is just stop having sex. I'm sorry that's all i could do to help you. Remember to make sure you are 100% sure you are ready to do this before you do it. Good luck!
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I'm 15 years old and I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do and who to turn to. I've only had sex once with my boyfriend and I took a couple pregnancy tests, which all came out positive. No one knows about it and I'm so scared. My parents will be so disappointed in me, it'll kill me and they'll probably make me get an abortion. I'm also scared my boyfriend is going to leave me because of it. What should I do? I really need help.
Well in a couple months it'll be obvious on what happened. You have to tell your parents no matter how hard it is. They could help you through this especially your mother. They cannot force you to get an abortion or to make you put this child up for adoption but i got to warn you this will change your life forever if you keep this child. You will not be able to go out and have fun with your friends, you wont be able to be a real teenager again and these are supposed to be the best times of our lives. You HAVE to tell your boyfriend. This baby is half his and if you do keep it, he is required to pay child support for 18 years. It's a law or something like that i know of. If he really cares for you he'll help you through this. You better tell them before they figure it out or things will just get worse. Good luck and make sure what you do with the child is right..right for you not everyone else.
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is it strange for a gurl to masterbate..i heard girls talkin one time and they sayd that it means your really desperate adn uncommon...is that true or is it normal?
It's not odd at all. I bet you 3 out of 4 kids in your school do mastubate. It's actually a very common thing and people do it all the time. From babies to the elderly. It's not something people really talk about in public but don't feel uneasy if you do masturbate. It's your choice whether you do or not and it's your choice to tell who you want. Just know it's ok. Good luck. ur just fine.
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I need help. Fast! I'm going to my cousins tomorrow until friday and I was just talking to her and she told me about when she was swimming in the lake these 2 guys came up to her and she knew them but..they kept touching her and one of them hit her and left bruises and..then one of them went behind her n took her hands and held them behind her back and the other one took down her bottoms...then she kicked them but she cries all the time! She's scared to tell anyone..and she told me to promise not to tell...and I'm scared and I don't know what to do!
PLEASE help!
That is sexual harrassment and totally wrong. I know you promised her you wouldnt tell but if someone is scared and in danger of that kind of thing you need to tell their parents or your own. otherwise it's bound to happen again. She maybe mad at you at first but in the long run she'll be happy you did that cuz she won't be afraid and won't have this heavy weight on either of your shoulders. i'm sorry this happened to her. good luck.
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