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okay well i have this rly rly good friends and she is like the only one who understands me and can help me w. my probs...but...my mom absolutly HATES her and wont let me hang out w. her and doesnt want me on the phone w. her that much any more becuz she thinks shes a " bad influence" or some shit like that but i didnt tell neone this to my friend cuz she is the truest friend i have and i dont wanna stop bein friends w. her....wat do i do?

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My friend Cecely smell`z reallyy bad ---» realllyyyyyyyy bad - and i want to tell her to take a shower so badly.. but i feel if i tell her .. she will get mad. please help! PLEASE

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all my friends think my one guy friend is gay and i think so too..but he deny's it when we say nething about it..what do i do ??

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Like 5 of my best friends are cheerleaders..and they talk about cheerleading 24/7..and i feel left out alot of the time. How can i feel not left out?

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okay, well, I think I want to break up with my "internet boyfriend". but I don't want to hurt his feelings, and I don't know how to end it :(

Lilly

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arite..well when i was about 5 or 6 or maybe even younger ihad a best friend and he was a boy..he lived around the block frum me but directly behind my house!! i juss used to hop the wall and go walk in his house...our parents wer good friends too....i went EVERYWHERE with them and we wer best friends...we did karate together, we juss went eveywhre...swimming lessons, soccer, erything...we wer best friends...and i had a lil brother who we never really liked to play with wed hide frum him, lock him out, nvr invite him newhere etc....and then one day we wer about 7 or 8 i think idk...but my brother n *chris* the guy friend...got in a fight about POKEMON...how dumb...and it juss caused a big argument!! i wasnt allowed to see chris and r parents stopped talking...but now r parents talk alot over the wall and chris mom juss had a baby so id use that as an excuse to go see chris but we nvr really would talk...wed say hi...but nothin else.,..and he is shy around gurls so hes nvr really had a gf...and i was his best gurl friend!!!!! and he was my best guy friend it wuld b s0o0o awesum if it was like that now...and hes s0o0 hott now and im not bad lookin either...and his mom always says she wants us to b friends agen n stuff bc we nvr really got in a fight but it messed ery thing up...it wuld b s00o awesum to hav a best friend thats a guy...who i could talk to...who lives s0o0 close wat shuld i do?...im goin over ther to see the baby tonite i think....wat shuld i say?? hes really shy...and hott...but wat shuld i do?/ plzz help!!!! i miss him!!! it wuld b awesum!! omg plz help me on sumthing i shuld say to him

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I am so confused. I really want to be freinds with this girl. We used to be really great friends and we also used to sneak around town all the time. We would say we were going to the pool and really go to her boyfriends or my sorta boyfriends. See I really dont know now because ever since my sorta boyfriend went to Indiana we havent had time to talk to each other or hang out. My sorta boyfriend is back and we havebt talked or seen each other in a while. Sometimes I just think that my friend just used me to see my sorta boyfriend. I dont know what do you think? Do you think we are still friends and what should I do about it?

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I'm 15 years old & get very jealous of my best friend's other friends. I've known her forever and I'm always scared some other girl is going to come along and become her new best friend. It's happened before and it wasn't that great. So now she has this new friend who's taking up all her time & she doesn't even know her that well! I feel like I'm 2nd to her & I'm so left out. Everytime I try to talk to her about it she says I'm being silly or whatever. I don't know what to do or say anymore!

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Hey. I thank everyone in advance. I'm an advice columnist on here, but I need advice.

Here's my problem:
I used to be BEST FRIENDS with this girl, Nicole. We used to do everything together - camping, swimming, movies, ext. About 8 months ago - we got in a huge fight, and ended our friendship. It was entirely my fault. About 4 months ago - we started talking again. She said she forgave me, and that we could still be friends. Since then - we've talked about 10 times. The problem is: I really miss her being around. Everyone in my family says they want her and I to be friends again. What should I do? Do I call her, or IM her more? Or should I just forget about it? I have more friends, but I really miss her. Thanks for all advice. I'll rate.

*Sincerely,
Ash*

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i only have a few real friends that i like to spend time with and 2 of them are going away for the rest of the summer...how do i meet new people so that i won't be bored to death?? i was thinking about getting a job to keep me busy - would that help me meet people?

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alright me and my so called bestest friend for life are fighting..and its because i was supposed to go to her house after school but i get in trouble all the time there so i wanted a change..so instead i went over to Courtneys and she got all mad sayin how could u go around ditchin me..and then she claims i stole stuff from her that i later found in her bookbag and she was going around calling me a slut...so i am just wondering if i made the right chioce by "ditching" her..x0 MaNdiE 0x

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I have like a lot of friends but the only time i see them is at school or at a party i throw and none of them ever call me except for my bestfriend and maybe one other person once a month, and i just want to have people call me to see what im doing or to hang out, what should i do?

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I live in a small neighborhood, huge houses and lots of kids. That is the bad part lots of kids, so i have a bunch of friends, and they are constantly fighting. But i am always stuck in the middle, and then i give advice to 1 friend and the other thinks i'm on there side. It is so confusing and bad. hOW DO I handle this?? And i already tried the whole "its not my fight so don't get me in the middle" it doesn;t work!! i rate **LaUrEn**

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my friend tina looks way older for her age and she is 13 and older guys like in their 20s hit on her. and we went to the movies by ourselves i though we were going to get raped because these guys were following us around all nite and she told them i was 17 but im 13 and i dont even think i look 15 how could i pull of 17!


Older or not!

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Hi, it's my 15th birthday coming up soon, and I want to do something really good, like have a big party or something. The problem is, I want to invite all my friends (which span over a WIDE area - i have friends from loads of schools), but they don't all know each other, and some don't get along that well. Also, my best friend is a year younger and at a different school, but absolutely NONE of my other friends know her. I really want to invite all of them but I don't think they'll all enjoy it - especially my best friend as the only person she'll know is me. What shall I do?

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Well, when I was in the 5th and 6th grade I went to a middle school in my hometown, but I wasn't enjoying it at all their besides the fact that my friends were there. Everybody else there was stuck up and they did their best to try to humiliate people.

Since I wasn't enjoying the schools in my hometown, when it was time for seventh grade I decided to transfer schools and I got in a big fight with one of my friends about this. But eventually we made up and everything was fine. The point is though, that i felt like my friends and I were growing apart and it was only my first year in this school. Now I'm in eighth grade and I'm still going to the same school I transferred to but I kind of promised my friends from my hometown that I would go to high school where they are going because I seriously thought that's what i wanted. But now I don't becasue something bad happened with me and one of the "popular" girls of the cshool in my hometown and I don't want to go back (not because I'm scared but becasue I will probably do something stupid like punch her out) even though I dont seem like a tough girl. Either that, or I wont be able to focus in school anymore.

What should I do?

I want to go because I want to see my friends again and I DON'T want to let them down.

But then again, I really don't want to go because the people there are stuck up jerks who only care about themselves. I don't care what they think about me but I just can't stand being around people like them. Plus, there is more smoking adn people who get high at the school where my friends go to and I'm totally against that.

Also, how can I break the news to my friends that I may not end up going to the same school as them in high school?

I'm so confused...

What should I do???
Thanks for taking your time to read this long letter.

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hey, my best friend well i say we are cousin because i have known her since she was a baby we used to talk about are problems together but know she does not seem bothered so i ring her to try talk to her but she still does not listen she talks to every one else while i am on the phone. i can feel us falling apart like are parents have i tryed talking to her saying it was important and i told what was wrong and she just said no we will not fall out then put the phone down how can i get her to listen me with out her oing that i o not want to fall out with her i love her like a sister please help me

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i have alot of best friend problemz itz me again so many problemz jus trying to find a way to deal with em. well... im the person that has a little brother with a big temper n a dad that i think takes money away from the family to spend on himself n the one that everythingz breaking in her house etc. well my best friendz i love em all but... one uf em tlkz to me on the phon alot n sumtymez it seemz like im not good enough for her other friendz n stuff there are tymez where were like the bestest friendz ever but lately itz like that. n therez my other best friend that i literally onli talked to her once this summer n she tlked to the other person only that i had on the other line when i tlked to her n i keep trying to call her baq n she wont answer. n the other best friend i get really jelous of her n at first id only answer if she called me. but after i came baq from vacation ever since she hasnt called me... well i wuz scared cux she brags alot n thats y i get jelous well... i got advice from ppl on this thing n it gave me the corrage to tlk to her but now im calling her n she doesnt answer the phon ether like the best friend i wuz tlking about b4 this. wut do i do? i dont kno where to start with any of this except maybe the first best friend that i wuz tlking about n thats like a little tiny idea that if it doesnt work than thats it i have nothing else. help!!

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My best friend never approves of my "sexual activities" with my boyfriend! Lately, I just wont tell her because I hate how she overreacts but shes my best friend and I cant keep secrets from her!! I feel terrible! Now that I've had sex, I want to tell her but definitly dont know how. She'll get so mad at me.. Should I tell her? What should I say?

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heyy im sara and i have this friend that is like my all time best friend but idk if i can trust her cus i want he to met my boyfriend but she stole my bf once from me and idk if she will do it again but ik she didnt mean to steel him i think abd she told me she was so0o sorry (( but idk if i can trust her i cant take my heart gettin hurt again what shold i do:-/??

please help??

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