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i really like this kid, like alot. my friend tom said that hes gonna ask me out, but he doesnt know when. i really wanna go out with him, but everyone hates him and they say hes wierd and stuff. but i dont know, if he asks me out should i go out with him?
dont listen to what other people think about if what matters is what you think about him. If you like him who cares. Your the one with him they arent.
im really popular now
but im so scared that im not gonna be throughout highschool.
Ive been pretty popular for a few years, im just scared
and i know its not all about being popular
but once you get used to it, then its hard to not be it.
help??
well no matter what your TRUE friends will be there forr you throughout the whole thing and those who aint there must not be good friends. & as you get older you start to lose alot of friends and you may not even know the ones you went to highschool with. i really know how you feel. Im popular @ school and i love it. but there are some friends that i know will be there for me when i need them, and there are others that are just retarted and worries about there self. and you can always tell the good ones from the badd. If you scared about losing your social life just get out there and start hanging out more. BUT DONT GET INTO TROUBLE. please just never change for anyone and to hang out with the popular group (clothes, personality,etc ) because you seem like a good person.i really hope i helped. sorry if it dont work out...
ok i have a friend im confused about! I love her so much! and i dont wanna stop being friends with her, but im so jelous of her and constantly envying her its weakening my self-esteem.. so maybe i should! like this girl is pretty close to perfect.. so everytime i feel happy about something good ive done.. i compare myself to her and start feeling bad.. i can never feel good about my looks, grades, self.. or anything.because i realize "good" will never be as good as her. and its not her fault, duh, i know. But ive tried stopping to compare myself to her AND IT DIDNT WORK! SO I DONT KNOW IF I HAVE ANY OTHER OPTION! what should i do?
its good to have a friend as a role model, but you should never compare yourself to her bacause you are your own person && a good person at that. Im not going to tell you to change your look and become more like her because its wrong to change yourself to become someone else. God made you to be you & he put you on this world for a reason ( you dont know what reason but you'll find out ). And no one is PERFECT hun... or pretty close to be perfect. Im not. I have had friends that i looked up to and wanted to be like them too but i just thought negitive about myself and yeah im not that hottest girl in school or smartest but there are other things about me that i am good at. Its okay to be jealous about her but remember some girls out there maybe jealous of you as well =]
(I'm 15/m if this helps)Okay, so my best friends (a girl and a guy) are on the verge of a relationship and everytime they have something planned, they always invite me. This makes me feel like a third wheel and I get the awkward feeling when i'm around them that they don't really want me there. I feel like the only reason that i'm being included in their plans is because i'm their best friend and they pity me.
I dont really have a specific question but if you could form one on your own out of my explaining and answer it, that would be great.
Well... you could see if he has a friend that he thinks would get along great with you. That guy friend could start hanging out with you guys and you might even start liking him. But if you dont think thats good advice then just dont go.
so i have this friend, and she's been my best friend. But lately she's been acting different. And it's not like she hangs around differnt people or acting obnoxious, she just never invites me over, or includes me that much. I'm kind of uncomfortable around her now, but my school is so small that i dont really have any other friends, and the ones i do have are all leaving. Help?!
have you told her that she has been acting different ?
maybe she's growing up & maybe you should start trying to make new friends as well cuz you can have more then one friend.
TALK TO HER ABOUT IT