Question Posted Wednesday November 22 2006, 1:42 pm
so i have this friend, and she's been my best friend. But lately she's been acting different. And it's not like she hangs around differnt people or acting obnoxious, she just never invites me over, or includes me that much. I'm kind of uncomfortable around her now, but my school is so small that i dont really have any other friends, and the ones i do have are all leaving. Help?!
aneta6696 answered Wednesday November 22 2006, 6:05 pm: My friend left to north carolina from new jersey and im sad too.. but i still got one friend and if she ever leaves ill try to get a boyfrined instead! i have an eye on one guy already!! [ aneta6696's advice column | Ask aneta6696 A Question ]
dramaditz answered Wednesday November 22 2006, 5:02 pm: this recently happened with me and my friend.
my advice?
just talk to her about it.
maybe somethings wrong that you dont know about.
maybe she wants space.
maybe she just didnt realize it.
no one can read minds.
you can either talk to her directly, or if that makes you uncomfortable send an email or rite a note.
in the email/note explain your fears but also write what a good friend she is, how much fun you have togehter, remind her of the good times, so that even if she was trying to get some space, maybe she will be reeled back in, but make sure you also explain your fears.
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