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I'm Lindsey.. I'm 15.. I'm very honest and a lot of my friends come to me with advice and questions all the time because I do have a lot of information and experience and I can read people very well.. I know whether you're lying or being fake.. I can be VERY sarcastic sometimes and I HAAATE immature people.. by this age you need to start growing up.. I will answer absolutely any question I can as long as you're serious.. I will not answer questions that make no sense and have absolutely no point.. don't piss me off with those kinds of dumbass questions.. i also don't like questions on how you should dress or do your hair for a party and what kind of songs you should download.. this is an ADVICE column not a fashion column..
but don't be shy with questions you're really wondering about.. I'm here for anyone and everyone.. i LOVE giving advice and hearing about peoples problems.. i have enough drama around here to blow Laguna Beach off the charts! ;) so go ahead and ASK AWAY!! =)
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GoSh im having really bad luck with guys lately. all of the people i think are sooo hott and stuff dont think im hot but ive started hangin out with this girl..i mean she is like one of my best friends and she is absolutely gorgeous!! all of the people i thought were hott saw my friend and they're all like oh my gosh she is soo hot! and im really jealous of my friend ..i admitt im jealous but i dont know what to do! and this other kid that i kinda like i mean i cant like him because i dont know him but he is just soo cute but he goes to a different school..so i dont even get to see him only once in a while..and i havent even talked to him yet! ahhh i dont know how to tho my cousin kind of talks to him but they switched quarters and now she doesnt know if he will be in any of hers..and then she says that she kinda likes him ..i mean i cant say i like him i just think he is the cutest thing ever and i would maybe like to hangout with him! please dont suggest aim..tried that..didnt work out very well..very confusing so i dont know what else! everytime i ask my cousin to ask him to go to a movie with us he is just like maybe i will try to make it! and he never comes..so that doesnt work! any ideas for all of this?! i just feel so ugly lately =[
thanks..
I had the same problem back a year or two ago.. my friend was drop dead gorgeous and all the guys loved being around her.. BUT i had an advantage because i was her best friend and so when they would hang out with and talk to her i'd be right there in that conversation too and it sounds like i was using her to get guys attention but i was just using her to help me ;) so..
don't get jealous with your friend.. stay really good friends with her.. then as these boys approach her and hang out with you two make yourself stand out.. you may not be as pretty (and that may only be in your eyes) but you may have an amazing personality or could be really funny and that attracts more guys than looks.. you can be beautiful but if you're a bitch or are someone whos actually really hard to get along with you're going to push guys away.. so just make sure you stay by her side and when guys come around don't be afraid to get them to look your way too..
as for this guy you like.. he doesn't seem to be taking much interest into you and your cousin.. i don't think he truly wants to hang out with you two as much as you guys do him.. honestly i don't think he's worth your time and you should be more focused on the guys that actually take interest in you and that you'll see everyday..
I hope I helped
just to let you guys knwo im not using the real peoples names but still the situation that is going on.
ok at the beginning of the year i was really close with three other girls (Jessica, Lisa, and Natalie) we were all really close and kind of had a little clique thing. we told each other everythin but i was kind of closer to Lisa and Jessica and Natlaie were close together.
as the year went on it kind of split off into me and lisa and jessica and natalie.
we always had stupid fights which ALWAYS ended up being misunderstandings. like me and lisa thought they were ignoring us and they thought we were ignoring them. whatever. so these problems kept on happening
eventually me and lisa jsut sort of gradually stopped talking to Jessica and Natalie.
then the other day natalie let my friend see her phoen and my friend saw a text message that jessica sent to natalie saying "i hate samantha (me) and lindsay" this really through me off guard.
i mean i knew we had some problems but come on hate is a very strong word.
my question is i dont know if i should try to work it out with jessica and natalie i mean we were all really close or should i just stop being friends with them. i really dont know what to do please help!
I think you should first ask them what that text message was all about.. maybe it was just a "spur of the moment" thing.. BUT then again maybe they really meant it.. (which i highly doubt) -- my first thought was that if they really do feel that way about you and lisa honestly.. they're just jealous of you two.. and i don't know why.. maybe it's looks or fashion or who has more friends than the other but obviously there is no reason for them to have that "hate" in their hearts if you two never did anything to them.. tell them you don't hate them and they should have no reason to hate you.. what'd you ever do to them.. tell them you'd like to just be friends (but maybe not as close as you used to be) and want to stop all this childish fighting.. if they're not willing to compromise or if they are nice to your face but still talk about you two behind your backs then screw them.. let them be mad and know that you two did NOTHING and they obviously are jealous.. i mean it's the truth.. people don't just hate eachother..
well good luck and I hope I helped