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okay, there's this gorgeous boy I know. He's completely flawless, and I have a big thing for him. One of my friends tells me that he actually likes me. Naturally, I was thirlled, but there's on problem: HE WON'T GO OUT WITH ME!! There's a lot going on with him, I guess. I mean we still flirt, hang out, etc., but does this mean I should lay off him in terms of flirting? the things have nothing to do with me [more-so family], but does that mean I should leave him be for now? thanks

I'd keep on doing what you're doing. Eventually he'll be ready and you'll be there. If something real develops he'll realize you're worth it.

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Today this girl that I really don't like, but hang out with anyways, asked to see a note that my best friend had wrote me, that said stuff about her in it. ALOT of stuff. I said no because it was mine and she had no right seeing it, she took my purse dumped it out on the floor but I hid it in my desk, and then she randomly got into my desk and found it, I didn't want her to see it, and now I'm afraid my best friend's going to be mad at me, but I'm not sure because I really didn't do anything wrong, right?

you didn't do anything wrong but your friend might still be a little mad because it looks like you did somehting wrong even though you really didn't. Explain to your friend the situation and with some ecplanation and a little time she'll get over it.

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hey, im friends wit this girl but i dont want to get to close with her cause im scared i might end up liking her and getting the old response "i dont want to ruin what we have" so umm yea im 15 going on 16 so i want a answer for a 15y/o person... thanks... im a guy.

well if your too distant, your probably just going to drift apart, and you won't be friends anymore. I mean you don't even know if you'll like her. In my opinion, nothing ventured nothing gained. Maybe things might be awkward between you, or it may be great!

hope i helped!

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I have many friends that live in Belleville, Illinois. They all miss me when I am in St. Louis, Missouri. I go to Belleville with my best friends father and all of us are really close. I go there maybe 1 to 2 days every week. Maybe every other week. Should I leave my friendships behind over in Belleville? I hate missing them so much and I have went out with a couple of them. And of course I still have major feelings for a few of them. I want to forget the past and go on with the future. Hard part is that I dont know if I want all of them in my future.Can you help?

KEEP YOUR FRIENDS!! I've moved around a lot, so I try to keep in contact with my friends. Its great when you get to visit them. But, it doens' mean that you can't make new friends where you live now. Visit your old friends once a week or once every 2 weeks. The ones who stay your friends are going to be your friend for a long time.

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Okay now I dont want to sound too sluty but yesterday I went some where with my friend and when we got there it was this really cute boy there. Now he was flirting with me(rubbing my leg and holding my hand) but the bad part of all this is he was doin gthe same to my friend, when we went outside, we actually made out. When we got back to my friends house she told me that they made out! Now I don't know if that is true or not because they were never really alone together bu twhat if it is true? I have to see this boy every thursday, and I think we both like him, but who does he like??? PLEASE HELP ME

Just talk to your friends, ask her about yesterday, dont' sound like your diliberately looking to see if they really made out or not, just see if she mentions it again. She might be just jealous that you've hooked up with someone and she didn't, or this guy may be just a jerk. I'd find out if I were you though, because if it true and you get serioud with this guy you may have some problems with cheating.

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