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Q: Okay so i have these two best friends..and we`re all best friends. One of them changed completely just for her boyfriend and then when the other one pointed it out, the first one got pissed off and now they`re not friends anymore. Now, one of them deosnt care that theyre not friends anymore but the other one does, and she keeps telling me about how unhappy she is. Ugh, i have no idea what to do. I want them to be friends again, but i dont know wtf im supposed to do about it.
Sorry if this is long and confusing, but oh well.
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happens all the time! tell the one who doens;t care that you hate being in between the two. tell her how hard it is on you. they may not be friends again but hopefully they will able to be civil to each other!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Q: ok, well this is long so i'll rate good.
I'm going in 2 the 10th grade this year. Last year was not the greatest for me. I had some problems with relationships and i just wasnt happy, and my grades dropped. I'm not the prettiest grl at all, and i had sum people talk about me behind my back. This year though I just want things 2 b different. I want 2 make more friends and be well liked and pretty. i just dont no how. any advice?
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just make a new self! go into clubs and be nice to everyone! and also have confindence! that'll make you hott! lol good luck!
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Q: i recently moved to a new town and dont know any kids here im going to a new highschool starting 9th grade in 2 weeks but im scared i wont make any friends...is it easy to make friends and meet people there???thanks
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you are lucky that you are starting 9th grade. in highschool they make sure that freshman make lots of friends... its extremely easy!
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Q: Sorry I am thinknig about my life a lot today .. and well my bestest friend i love her to death but i see on like peoples profiles that omg teresa your my bestest friend and i feel like that i'm off duty of being her friend and i always tell her that and she assures me that no youre my bestest bestest bestest friend ever but then i feel like she is repalcing me with everyone else and she is always talknig about her other friends and stuff but sometimes she is prefectly fine like dana omg your like my bestest bestest friend ever but ever since she broke up with her boyfriend now like every guy is her friend and i feel like I'm the old friend getting thrown out .. somehow i don't believe her when she says i'm the most important person in her life ... like we never gety in fights so i dunno if she would cry over me i fel like testing her .. helpppp
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it happens to me too. but if she tells you that your the most important person in her life you should believe her bc thats nothing that you joke about. if you want to test her just like kinda ignore her a little...
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Q: My friend, lets call her Sarah, is completely obsessed with her ex boyfriend. Ive been trying to tell her forever to try and get over him! Hes been such a jerk to her, and he broke up with her to immpress one of his friends. How low is that? How can i get it through her head that she can do better, and stop wasting her time dwelling on the past?
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well take her for a girls night. make her realize that you can have fun without the ex boyfirend. does she know that he dumpped her to impress the guys? if not tell her in a nice way... also... bringing new guys into the mix is always fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Q: people have been saying me and two bestfriends look so much alike as though we're triplets. lol but we're not the only ones, i was wondering why do bestfriends always look like one another? dressing-wise too. its natural they wanna look like each other rite?
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best friends are usually interested on the same things so its not weird that your clothes may look your best friends... it just mean you like that same style! its all good. but i know that me and one of my best friends are completely different!
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Q: I have a best friend named Amanda, and today at lunch at school she didn't say a word to me so I was like hmm o-well. So I just asked her on aol and here was our conversatoin...
me: Are you mad at me?
Amanda: No, why would I be mad at you?
me: you didn't say anything to me at lunch
Amanda: hmmm yea
me: yea?
Amanda: yea?
Then I told her I had to go...I didn't know what to say...is she mad at me ? What do I do?
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girls need to be alone sometimes. i know if i'm feeling like crap i don't want people talking to me so i won't talk to them. maybe shes thinking about some stuff thats been on her mind lately. if shes like this for another week or so maybe she is mad. just get her to talk to you then or find out from a mutal friend
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Q: This girl keeps being mean to me over msn IM (the reason is too long a story to explain) she wont leave me alone. I keep telling her to leave me alone and that I don't want to fight but she wont leave it. What shall I do? We go back to school soon and I'm worried of what she may do to me.
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well i dunno if on msn you can block people but if you can do that! and don't worry what this girl does because she can't do anything to you during school... teachers are there and she would be dumb to do anything! props on the word shall! so lauren kellyish!
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Q: my friend whose a girl and 14 told me a few days ago that she cutts. i was devistated wen i heard this. i asked her wat in the world wud make u so miserable as 2 kill urself? and she sed that her family was messed up and that shes ben feeling really depressed. i told her 2 think bout wat life will bring her in the future. youll have kids a husband a job and a happy life. i dont think it convinced her. wat should i do?
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ah get her help. tell someone. i know you can't do it alone. no one can. the next thing you should do is try to understand where shes coming from and just be there for her to talk to. it the best thing for you to do. she just needs someone to be there for her and make sure she knows that when she feels like cutting she should just call you. i hope she gets ok!
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Q: Well this coming skool year I'll be a freshman. At our highskool, two different graduating 8th grade classes from two different skools form into the freshman class at the high skool. Before I graduated 8th grade, sum of my friends and I had been spending a lot of time with sum of the girls from the other skool that we'd be sharing highskool with this coming skool year. A lot of the girls at my own skool were becoming jealous and thought that when we become freshman, my friends and I would ditch our great ol friends from our old skool and go for the girls from the new one. I'm really close with the girls from our old skool and I know this won't be the case, but how do I make sure this doesn't happen and how can I make my friends from my old skool believe it won't? (m/14)
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sorry but in highschool you'll be lucky to stay friends with your old group of friends. In highschool theres so many new people and you may click with other people. just keep all your friendships close. you can prove to them that you won't forget about them. randomly ask them to do stuff with you and in school hanf around them alot too
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Q: Most my friends have seemed to not care about me anymore. They all just care about other friends now, and never have time to even just say "hello" to me, but they have time to spend time with other people for hours on end. I feel so betrayed, these people that i called friends just don't seem to care anymore, I hardly ever talk to them anymore, when when i attempt to, i get responses of "uhuh" or any other word related. What can i do to get them to actually notice me? =( please help!
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ok well what i do is start spending time with another group of people and then they will notice your not around. so then youll be noticed. but this is a tricky one to do bc if they don't notice it will be very hard to get back. I also invite a few of them over or see if they wanna go to the movies (or maybe 6 flags!)then we like bond or whatever and catch up and they don' forget about how much fun you had together!
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Q: alot of ppl in the grade up from me hate me...because of stuff i did the year before n they all say they are gonna kick my ass no matter how sorry i say i am they dont care they think i should pay for my attitude...?? n i dont get it i said sorry n it was from like 2 years ago shouldnt they b over it by now what should i doo???? because school starts soon n they said they are gona kick my ass this yearr...?
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if they are a grade older than you who cares... its not like your gonna be in alot of classes with them. and if they think they can kick you a** then they aren't too smart... what about teachers in school? they are just trying to scared you and they think they can just cuz they are older than you. if they haven't taken your apoligy then forget about them and pretend whatever happened didn't. just ignore them, they can do anything to you! they just think that they are tough.
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Q: ok, i have a boyfriend....lets call him..alex*. I really really like him and all... but my friend..(lets call her..mandy*)is mad at him. She said i don't spend enough time with her or anything because she is always with alex. She got mad about sumthin, and said i had to choose between her or alex. I don't know what to do. I'm really confused. I don't really wanna have to choose. Is there a way i can make them both happy or sumthin? I seem to find time to hang out with two of my friends and alex.. but for some reason i cant find time to talk to mandy a lot lately... please help!!!
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you don't have to pick between your boyfriend and your friends. that is totally not right, but noone likes to be forgoten. your friends prob think that you forgot about them. you should tell your boyfriend how your friends feel and he will understand that you need to have a few girls nights. boyfriends are there to help you out with anything and so are friends. you can't let them make you choose. trust me just talk to them and boyfriend... trust me it has worked b4.
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Q: I am going into my junior year in school in about 2 weeks. Ever since freshman year, I have had the reputation of being the "goofball" or the "non serious" one. I think this is what caused somebody at school to always say "I hate you" and make fun of me. I never hear her say anything nice to me. Once in a while she'll be like "Oh you know I'm just kidding right?" And I'll be like "Oh yeah! I know!" It doesn't bother me that she says "I hate you" once in a while just kidding around, but it does bother me that she treats me differently than everyone else. I think she thinks it doesn't bother me because I usually just laugh it off. But it does bother me. I'd like to be friends with her without her treating me mean. I don't really want to tell her it bothers me, because that would be embarrasing to me...and her. So, what's a goofball to do?
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i have the same problem. all i did was i kinda calmed down and when ppl treat me different i just don't talk back. then they don't make fun of you. and if she still does it just tell her that it bothers you. i know i cant do that but if you try to ignore her or don't talk back i'm sure shell get the point
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woohoo! i finally got about to this! ok so i'm lauren! and i am always hyper unless you catch me on a bad day. even thou i'm hyper everyday i can still be serious! apparently thats when i sound smartest! haha but i know the time of firendship even thou i act like i don't.
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Info
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Member Since: August 20, 2004 Answers: 49 Last Update: August 29, 2004 Visitors: 4693
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