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My friend is always feeling really bad about herself. Were only 14 but she thinks that there is something wrong with her because she has never been asked out or had a real boyfriend. She's always jealous of other people. I keep telling her that she can't focus on what everybody else has that she doesn't or what other people can do better than her. I try to tell her that there are so many good things about her, but she won't listen. It's frustrating to me because I want her to see what everybody else sees, a funny, creative, beautiful girl. I told her to stop feeling sorry for herself. What do I do to make her feel better about herself? How can I help her to love herself? (link)
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tell her that ur only 14 and u dont have to have a million bf's before u even like...start high school! some people juss dont have bf's until later on, it doesnt mean shes a bad person! or not good enough or anything...
*jesikuh
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Ok,i like this boy but were friends and all.Really good friends.But like everytime we talk i get so into the conversation and just want 2 blurt out that i like him.Should I??
Signed NEED HELP FAST! (link)
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juss tell him =D ive said this over and over girls JUST TELL THE GUY!!!!!!!!!!! =D
*jesikuh
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I have a friend and me and her have been friends sense 4th grade we're in the 8th now , but lately she has been thinking that every single one of her exboyfriends likes me. I keep telling her that its not true, but she still thinks it. I dont want her mad at me over something like this. Its not like I like them back is what I tell her. What should I do? (link)
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tell her it doesnt matter even if her EX'S liked you...cuz their juss that..HER EX'S!!! their not anything anymore...and tell her to shut up cuz thats dumb to get mad over lol
*jesikuh
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Okay, this might sound stupid but here it goes: My friend is obsessed with the fact that I have a lot in common with her boyfriend. Whenever she brings up the subject, she'll call him and ask both of us what things we like, and if we say the same thing she'll scream and say that we're going to fall "madly in love." I've told her hundreds of times that he's going out with HER, and he obviously LIKES her! I've spoken to her b/f once, and I don't like him that way, but she's obsessing that he's going to break up with her for me.. whom he's never even met. She's mad that she has NOTHING in common with this guy, and that I do, and I don't want to lose her as a friend.. and she won't listen to anything I say!
Sorry for the long post, but any ideas on what I should do? (link)
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well tell ur friend that opposites attract:) andd tell her u've never even met the guy soo she can chill outt! lol
*jesikuh
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yes, i know this is wierd subject but belive me by the time i explain this, if your a girl at least, you can see why i'm pissed. My best friend just so happens to be one of the girls with, well, big breasts. Well i'm starting to "catch up" to her, and every tiem i tell her my size she laughs and says with sarcasm and disbelief in her voice, "thats not your size, that's almost MY size!" And for some reason alot of times we'll get in a conversation, and she'll bring up her boobs! it's so annoying how do i show her that what she's saying is really bitchy w/o her freaking out because belive me this girl is a huge drama queen (link)
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i hate girls like that lol like ur friend im the girl with the "big boobs" but i dont go around flaunting it... she sounds like a bitch =D everytime she says something juss be like ...k we kno about ur boobs their right there stop talking about it lol or tell her to shut up or soemthing..tell her boobs arent everything =D
*jesikuh
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Alright well first of all.. I'm 16/female.. if you needed that info to help me out or whatever
Well.. last night I was over at my friend caitlin's house and we got bored so we walked around the corner and met up with some friends(rachel,chrus,anthony,katie) and we were hangin out talkin and what not.. and then we decided to walk back to rachels house.. so we're walkin and talkin and I'm a smart ass.. and someone said somethin stupid so i made a remark about it.. ya know? but chris stares at me and laughs.. like nto staring bad way.. just staring.. but yeah.. then we're back at rachels and chris wanted to swim so he strips down to his boxers and jumps in.. hah it was cute.. but anywhos.. the whole time when we're all sittin out there talkin I would look over and catch chris lookin at me.. I mean it feels like there's somethin there.. but I don't know.. I mean.. he's an awesome kid.. I'd like for there to be somethin there but I don't know.. I mean he's a grade younger than me.. but he's not immature and sldflk I don't know.. I wanna get to know him better to see if there is something there and everything.. but he's not one of the people that I hang out with all the time.. so what do i do?
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start hanging out with him to see if there IS something there...and who cares if he doesnt hang out with ur group, i dont think that should matter!!! and the age shoudlnt either
*jesikuh
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My friends really likes this guy but i also kind of like him too. I am not sure what to do can ya'll plz help me. (link)
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well that sounds like NO GOOD! cuz we wouldnt want ya'll fightin over some dumb guy =D maybe u should go hottie huntin and juss find urself another guy so there wont be much drama (atleast with u in it) =D
*jesikuh
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theres this girl i went out with like a year ago and we had fun but it didnt last as long as i wouldve liked but i got over her and she hasnt gone out iwht ne one since but all these guys like and recently she kinda likes this guy and i actully am jealous i dont understand y i must still have feelings for her but i dont want to hurt our freindship what to do o what to do? (link)
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its totally normal to think about ur ex's and like get jealous cuz at one point you liked her! u can be jealous juss dont over~react about it...keep it to urself =D (im the same way about my ex's)
*jesikuh
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ok do u think its bad like if u go with ur best guy friend 2 tha movies like kuz hes datin a a grl and she alwayz brings a friend so wuld it be wrong if he invited me and went i mean she knos were bffz and all but i jsut think she might get mad but im not 4 sure like if it wuld look bad or wutnot...?? (link)
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i think you should be able to go to the movies with ur BFF and not care what anyone else thinks, if they have a problem with it they can screw themselves =D its ur bff, u'll prolly last longer than their relationship anyhow ;)
*jesikuh
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Ok theres this girl who I've been friends with for 12 years, and our moms even longer. I'm so sick of her because shes really mean to me one minute and nice the next. If I tell her about it she'll like scream at me and then i'll get in trouble with my mom. Also, she doesn't get along with anyone because she's really weird and stuff and she follows me around and its SO ANNOYING! PLEASE HELP! (link)
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avoid her and tell your mom shes a weirdo =D
*jesikuh
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see my friend she always flirts w/ this boy i like and it gets me sooooo mad am i just jealous and should i tell my friend to stop i know she does it on accident but she does it everyday! so help plz (link)
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tell her you like him and you dont appriciate her doing that. maybe you should tell the guy too if he doesnt already kno! chance? ;) than ur friend will really back off ur shit
*jesikuh
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Okay so i have these two best friends..and we`re all best friends. One of them changed completely just for her boyfriend and then when the other one pointed it out, the first one got pissed off and now they`re not friends anymore. Now, one of them deosnt care that theyre not friends anymore but the other one does, and she keeps telling me about how unhappy she is. Ugh, i have no idea what to do. I want them to be friends again, but i dont know wtf im supposed to do about it.
Sorry if this is long and confusing, but oh well. (link)
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i think they should have a looong talk about what they both think, theres always 2 sides to a story and i think they should both see what the other one thinks, maybe that'll settle things out...
*jesikuh
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high skool is startin in less than a week, so im pumped bout that. the only thing is... i hang out with everyone. im not popular or nething but i have a bunch of friends, which can b bad. i hang out with a group of friends, then go over n hang with another. but the thing is im not really accepted in either one. they like me, but i can tell there talking behind my backs cause i hang out with such and such. ive tried for 2 years to balance it out, but it annoying me so much. can someone just tellme what to do?? i rate (link)
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well obviously if their talking shit, that IS shit...find some friends who accept you for who you are and dont talk shit! u dont have to be popular or be in with the cool kids, plus ur starting a new school so ur bound to find new friends, i did my frosh year, u'll be okay =D
*jesikuh
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My friend is gonig outw ith my first love and ever and I am a little upset because he has half of my heart and i know she loves him so much and he loves her so ,much but half of me feels jealous is that normal? (link)
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sooo normal!!! juss chill about it, if its meant to be he'll come to you =D
*jesikuh
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Last question today i swear ..
Well whenever my best friend is around her boyfriend she id relly mean to me and starts like changing what do i do? (link)
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a lot of girls are like that...i have girlfriends like that. its very gay i kno! but once she starts getting all bitchy tell her to knock it off and you dont appriciate people talking to you like that, and if she doesnt stop make HER feel like shit! its mean i kno but its the only way to get thru to people. and when people make me mad, i juss say k lol it works i tell ya cuz it makes em mad and then u can juss say it again with attitude =D
*jesikuh
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I really like my best friend. He is perfect..I think so atleast =). I think he likes me too. But I'm really shy and I have decided to tell him how i feel. B/C not tellin him isnt an option nemore. My feeling are too strong. So..how should I tell him? I'm j/ really worried we wont remain friends if I tell him.. Like if he ends up NOT liking me. Thanks for your help! =) (link)
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well juss by expirence i kno its not the greatest thing to go out with ur best friend.. but u got nothin to lose! i think u should juss tell him u kinda think of him as more of a friend! if he freaks out hes prolly juss not ready for it (guys are immature =D) orrr i dunno. i think u should tell him tho, i always tell a guy when i like them, seems to work out for me!!!
*jesikuh
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This girl that I used to be friends with is spreading rumors about me. She is telling everyone I had sex with this guy I liked. The guy and I hooked up not long after the rumors started. He's three years older than me, so we didn't tell many people. We didn't wanna hafta deal with all their shit.
He and I didn't have sex until almost 2 months after these rumors were started. My best friend heard the rumors, and she was mad cause I didnt tell her I had sex for the first time. I didn't want her to know I did, so I told her they weren't true.
I want these rumors to stop cause its no one else's business if I had sex with him or not. I don't want to talk to this girl in person cause i already wanna beat her ass, and if i saw her, i know i would loose control and hit her.
Is there any other way to stop these rumors without talkin to her about it? And don't tell me to ignore them cause that never works. I have ignored them for almost 3 months, and im sick of it.
Please Help me!!
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confront the girl...try not to lose control...your right it is NONE of anyones business what ur sex life is like...but u'll prolly be best off either confronting the girl and telling her she needs to shut her mouth or juss ignore it..a rumors just a rumor...remember that! it wont kill ya =D
*jesikuh
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i have seen my friends boyfriend with other girls kissing on them and i told my friend right away but she doesnt believe me, she said that i am jealous ... also she is supposed to have sex with him and i dont want her getting hurt .. is there anyway i could get her to believe me? (link)
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tell her ur not jealous and u wouldnt make that up !! tell her hes a cheating liar and she can do WAY better!! if she doesnt believe you, thats her problem! let her find out on her own if she wont take a friends advice/help!
*jesikuh
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Ok my friend is 12 years old and she's drinking and i don't know how to make her stop. she just started because she thinks she 'needs to' but i think its because this other girl does. please give me ideas or help me or something (link)
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tell her she doesnt need to drink to be cool...at 12 thats pretty dumb...tell her she can do other things rather than drink to have fun!!
*jesikuh
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Hi well i need ur advice!!! I just wanted to become friends with this guy I just met and when I went to talk to him , he just looked at me and then looked at his friends then looked at me again and started to cuse me ou t like heck , Please help me , it hurts bad!!!
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he sounds like a dick...dont worry about it, hes just immature and gay.
*jesikuh
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