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Hi, I'm Jasmine, I have been though some hard times in my life, and I'm always here for anyone who needs advice! (: I'm just a message away!

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there is this girl who follows me everywhere and i dont really like her but i dont want to hurt her feeelings what should i tell her or say to her because shes allways following me in school

Just say I really appreciate you giving me this attention, and I'm really flattered, but please stop following me around because I can't focus and it's kinda weird

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HI
Well my friend Is lieing alot to me and asking me for money and say you pay me back never has. She always says that shes going to get some thing like before she said she's getting an ipad and iPhone when she isnt. Im really sick of it. And before she asked me for money so far i have given her about $20;00 or more in the last month and says she'll pay me back but never has. In class she always copies me with worksheets, projects and even the way i dress and do my hair! She copied me in a project and said that she did it first when i did and i had to do it all over again. And she gets all the attention when she copies me me im so sick of it. I know these are really not big problems but im really sick of it! I need help for her not to do it no more. :)

You guys clearly aren't friends! She is using you, and that's not okay. Friends are supposed to treat you better than this, you deserve better! Don't continue letting her use you, and end the friendship while you can.

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Is it worth it? Will we turn out the same if I make the first move?

How am I supposed to approach him about taking this relationship further. We're best friends and we're like a couple, such as cuddling, holding hands, and talking about our personal lives, but excluding the title of boyfriend/girlfriend or any kissing/making out. I'm 50% sure he likes me and 50% he knows that I like him. But how do I tell him that I'm ready to START being able to kiss him, and call him my boyfriend.

We're both 18 by the way, freshman in college, and on Winter Break, and won't see each other for another 2 weeks.

Well, at this age, you need to make sure that he is committed to you, and wants a girlfriend. But I think you should lay out all your cards on the table, and tell him how you feel. (:

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My friends have been excluding me out of their plans lately. when I'm around them they say that I'm their favorite because I'm so nice and I never make them mad but I don't get invited anywhere. Maybe this is just a phase but now I just hang out by myself :(

Maybe your friends just want space, and maybe go out and try to make some new friends while this is going on. Then you will have two sets of friends, and you can always have someone to be with, and not hang by youself(:

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I have a really spoiled best friend and I really can't stand being around her anymore. Her parents have lots of money and my friend gets showered with money all the time. The last time my friend and I went to the mall her dad gave her $200 and said here honey have fun! I have an allowance and I actually have to work to get my money and my friend has never done any work in her life! She wears expensive clothes and has a container ten times the size of a shoebox chock full of makeup she never wears! She makes me so mad! She brags about it too!
Please help me!
Thank you :)

Don't worry, just try to deal with it, but if it is really that annoying, you should talk to her about it. Tell her how much it annoys you. Tell her that it makes you not want to hang out with her. (:

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