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do my friends not like me?
My friends have been excluding me out of their plans lately. when I'm around them they say that I'm their favorite because I'm so nice and I never make them mad but I don't get invited anywhere. Maybe this is just a phase but now I just hang out by myself :(
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We've all been there. If there's a particular member of the group who you're closer to and can confide in, then perhaps have a quiet word with him/her. It's one thing leaving you out unintentionally, but doing it when they are aware of how you feel is another. If you don't feel comfortable doing that, try making plans and inviting them yourself.
If they continue to leave you out, you need to make new friends. In my last year at school, I was in with a group of girls who suddenly became very cliquey. I made an effort but when it became apparent that they just weren't very nice people, I left them to it and hung out with other people. No one deserves to be made to feel bad by their 'friends'.
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Maybe your friends just want space, and maybe go out and try to make some new friends while this is going on. Then you will have two sets of friends, and you can always have someone to be with, and not hang by youself(:
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maybe you should try making an effort and inviting them somewhere. if that doesn't work and they're still excluding you, then find new friends. you don't deserve to feel left out. you're supposed to have fun with your friends, not stress over stupid stuff like this. good luck!
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I really think you should consider finding new friends, that honestly likes you for you and hangs out with you all the time. Or you should let them know how you feel, becuase If they were really your friends they would understand and change.
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It does sound like they ate excluding you. Perhaps youdid something to offend them. Talk to them and say something like "for the past few weeks you've been excluding me fr
hanging out and it's made me feel really sad, did I do
something wrong?" that's a really good way to find out what's going on in a covized manner. Don't fight them or anything, just say the facts and then how that makes you feel. It works really really really well.
Also, if these aren't your best friends, they may not feel
obligated to invite you all the time. Remember, sometimes people get sick of eachother. I'm a senior in high school and I'm sick of mostly all my friends, to the point I barely hang
out with anyone anymore because I can't stand them.
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I don't think anyone on this whole site could tell you if your friends like you are not; that is something you need to ask them. Just sit down with them and have a serious conversation, dont be hostile about it but just tell them that you dont feel included anymore. They may not even realize how often they are excluding you.
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