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Hey y'all. I have been threw alot in the past sixteen years. From Family issues to Friends to Boyfriends. I can help on pretty much anything you need help with so ask me anything. If you dont want to post it on here you can always im me or email me. Or if you want to just chat, or ask more things related to what you have asked before.
Love always Jami//xoOx

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I have a friend i call a best friend. She doesnt feel like a best friend to me. Its hard to be friendz with her n stuff becuz shes kind of spreading my lil secrets like how i talk about ppls behind their bak, n mi favs. I hate that but shes a litto bit powerful than me and im only a weak person. Iuno wat to do...

its pretty easy.. just dont say anything bad about anyone and dont tell her things you dont want others to no.

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See, my friend has been going out with this girl since october, I'm very good friends with her, and liked her a couple months before my friend and her started going out. Me and the girl have known eachother for atleast 4 years, I'm friends with her brother, whos younger than me, Lately my friend has become annoyed with The girl (whos also my friend) avoiding her phone calls, stuff like that. Lately the girl has been flirting with me on IM, sending me kissy faces, saying I'm her best bud, always trying to be beside me in public places when (my friend, her BF is not around) hugging on me in a playful non shalont way, etc. But then she'll say something like i wish My boyfriend was here, or something like that. Which is kool, because i would never go behind my friends back, shes just a friend. But she asks if i could do stuff with her would I? If my friend wouldn't find out. I tell her no, not unless she broke up with my friend, and still probably wouldn't cuz he might be hurt. Whats goin on with this chick? Is she liken me? or my friend...or both of us? HaHa, shes acten weird, never has been like this before.

Hey well find out whats going on with there realtionship before you start worrying about her liking you. Altho it sounds like she does but she might just be upset because of her boyfriend. And about the when your with her she will be hugging on you and stuff.. but then say i wish my boyfriend was here thats a way for girls to make it sound like they dont mean anything of what they are doing or what they have said. Just find out whats going on with their realtionship then go from there. but it does sound like she likes you.. hope i helped.
Jaymi Lynne

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So my best friend from 5th grade meets up with her friends from forever in 6th grade. Which is really good cuz there really popular and they introduce her to all new friends and she introduces them to me so everything is great right? Wrong now its seventh grde and everyone talks about everyone and they leave me on the curb. I talked about my old best friend from 5 grde and she talked about me then told all of who i thought were my new friends that I was talknig aobut them. NOT COOL. Then they all blow me over tell everyone to hate me. So now im on the curb with 3 friends tops and everyone else is always making me miserable. So what do I do? I try to make up with them be really nice. But it kills me cuz they dont give and it get wrose...fat cow!Go home!...god....so now im misrable and have like 3 friends. But the girl doesnt know why im mad at all. My life is a mess and im out of controll and cant fix it im done I give up and I need help......so help me

Hey hun dont be so hard on your self. there not worth it. Just make new friends. the same thing happend to me after 6th grade the people who were my best friends turned out to be bitches and so i just didnt let them get to me and i made new friends. You dont have to be popular. Just be your self and you will find that life is alot easier. I am now a freshman in highschool and everyone thinks you have to be popular but you dont. just find the people that you know will always be your friends and never backstab you. I no its hard but some times you just have to put on a simle and get threw it. Just try making new friends.
Hope i helped. if you have anymore questions or need more help.. you can email me at lildevilchic35@yahoo.com or you can im me at xiloveyoux35

Much love
Jaymi Lynne

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Ok, me and my best friend have been getting in a bunch of fights for no reason. for example, i wasn't really sick "bad" yesterday (we spent the whole day together) and this morning, i felt like i was going to throw up (And i did later). and today, she got all mad about me not showing up at school and that i was playing hookie and all this stuff just cause i didn't finish my algebra homework??? Thats just one of the pointless things she's been getting mad at me about for the past two weeks... We've been best friends for over three years so.... what should i say/do?

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hey well hun talk to your friend... me and my best friend get into stupid things all the time... and we are still best friends to this day... we just got out of a fight but yeah just talk to her.. tell her how you feel.. you might fight for a day about it but then she will get over it or you may just end up fine... hope i helped...

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i have a guy friend that i am really close to we cant go out 1) bc of distance 2) bc he has a gf right now. anyways his gf is always a bitch to me. i think it is bc she jealous bc i am so close to him and that he cares about another girl(me) and she says shit that he will never do me and that i shouldnt be wastin my time and callin me a skank and trash.... and she says all of this to my best friend well she says shit when she doesnt even noe who the fuck i am and idk what do bc he is a great person and i dont wnat to lose him over s stupid bitch like her?

just let her talk her shit.. but you need to tell your friend that you wanna hang out with him some time just you too. and who cares if she hates you just as long as he dont.

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i know this girl, and i care about her more than anything in the world, but i can tell shes going down the wrong road, i can notice changes in her that i've made, in a good way, but its not enough, shes getting into alchohol now, and that could lead to anything, i've tried talking to her about it but i just cant let out how i feel, PLZ HELP!!! SOS

hey well you need to tell her that you care about her and that your afraid she is goin down the wrong road.. does she have a really close friend that feels the same as you do?(that shes goin down the wrong road) if she does talk to them they might be able to help you alot. if not just sit her down and tell her your scared and worried about her. hope i helped. if you have anymore questions ask me n i will help.
Jaymi lynne

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I have a freind. The other day we went over to her house and it was scarry i didn't know that her brother was the guy i had been hanging out with before i met her. How do i tell her that i know who he is and ahe doesn't have to keep explainig him to me. Irate high!

-Haley

hey hun just tell her that you n him were hanging out before why would she care? it cant be that bad

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well, see i used to have these two really good friends and I had so much fun around them. then things got shaky and they started hanging around these really bad guys that always wanted us to do stuff for them , and I couldnt take it. turns out, their realtionships at home got worse and they started fighting with their moms and such. but i still remember all the fun times we had. should i let them back in?

hey well first are they still hangin out with these "bad guys"? and why are they fighting with their moms? just be careful n dont get yourself into all of that again

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Aight well, I have a friend and she wants to start to see some other people and thinks i am holding her back. But the thing is i am not (not that i relize but inn her eyes it might) anyway i have met a lot of people to no one is holding me or her back. I don't want to lose our friendship but maybe it is too late. See the other day she told me she is gonna start seeing other people. I was sad all night and the next day because i thought this would change our special relationship. I never want to end our relationship. She means the world to me and no one can change that. She is soo friendly, caring loving and supportive. I want her to see other people and i don't have a problem with it but afraid that it might hurt our relationship. I totally freaked when she told me she wanted to see other people because i was afaid of loosing her and now i don't she might be mad i over reacted wat should i do??

Sincerely,
Afraid friend

Just call her and tell her your sorry for over reacting but you are afraid your gonna lose her as a friend. tell her that your relationship with her means so much to you.. i am sure she will forgive you for it.. hope i helped...

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my best friend new i liked this kid and she still went with him and i told her i still like him nd she like rubes it in my face so i told him... and now she i smad and thinks im stealing him.. wut should i do?

well hun i dont think you too should fight over a guy.. trust me its not worth it... just tell your friend that your sorry but you liked him and you were mad there she still went with him... you dont want to fight over a guy... guys are always gonna be gone and then back but best friends only come every now and then... hope i helped...

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Dear advice giver people,
I have this friend who has just gotten out of a relationship like 4 or 5 months ago. She broke up with the guy so that's all good. Ok, so then I liked this dude Billy right? Ok, well she decides that he's a sweetheart & goes for him. Well, that doesnt bother me because I have a boyfriend & I stopped liking Billy like forever ago. Me & Billy are still like close friends though & he was telling me how he was going to ask Jessica out & all. So being the girlfriend I am, I told Jess EVERYTHING he said. Now she will NOT stop talking about him. I'm serious. We could be watching TV & she's like, I miss Billy. Ok, well, then I mention my boyfriend like maybe 3 times that whole day. Ok, then she was talking to one of my other friends and she like, "She talks about *Joe WAY too much." Ok, Im sittin there like WHAT THE HELL you kno. So I dont know WHAT to do.
Sorry it's forever long!!

Just tell your friend that you get the fact that she likes him but you dont need to hear about him 24/7...

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well theres this guy and me were not going out, but we always talk and we always make plans to do stuff and go places and he always talks to me and even flirts alot and he does alot of thing he does with me that he doesnt do with other people so i know he likes me and he knows i like him but today i found out that he has a girlfriend and im just really crushed like just miserable cause i liek this guy alot hes like greatest guy ive met, but what should i do, just stay strong or spill out my feelings to him? any suggestions? ill rate high
and sorry so long!

Just tell him that you like him... if he has a girlfriend but is still always flirting with you i dont think he really likes her so maybe he doesnt know you realy like him that much.
hope i helped
Jaymi*Lynne

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i am moving all the way across the counrty....and i dont know how i should tell my best friend! :'( plez help me

hey hun... you have to make sure your the one to tell her and not sumone else.. its never easy to tell some one you are moving.. my best friend moved last year and it wasnt easy at all.. you just have to have her come over and just tell her... you guys can make your plans to call each other and everything... and it will be easier then to try to tell her in a nicer way... its gonna hurt her either way.. hope i helped
much love
Jaymi*lynne

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ok im a 13/f and i have 2 bffs...one is a 14/f and one is a 13/m. We r all really good friends but lately it seems like they r doin lots of stuff w/ out me and keepin secrets from me. But yet my b-day is in feb. so is there a chance they r doin sum kind of plannin for my birthday or they r jus leavin me out??? plz answer honestly...ill rate good!

Hey hun... thats how i use to be... its never really good to have like 3 ppl in a group some one is always gonna get left out... just tell them that you feel kinda left out.. i'm sure its nothing and they will fix it... and if it is about your birthday they will try harder to not let you know they are planing sumthing.
Hope i helped.
much love
Jaymi*Lynne

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ok theres this one kid i have known for about 3 months and i think he is really cool and i have liked him for awhile... well my best friend has only known him for a month and went out with him... and like i really liked him the whole time but wanted her happy but she broke up with him bc she didnt like him all that much and now me n him want to get together but iono what she will say... should i talk to her bout it or just tell her i like him n i am prolly gonna hook up with him? some one plz help me
Thanks so much Love alwayz
Lost and Confused

Hey just talk to your friend about it.. i am sure if she really dont like him anymore she will tell you too go for it...

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