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my friends grandfather died this morning. hes really hurt. but i dont know what to say to him. im scared ill say something wrong. what should i tell him?

tell him you are really sorry for the loss and you'll be there for him if he needs you.

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if your friend or someone who's close to you has to move would you try and spend every second of their life with them till they move or try to pull away from them? and why?

i would try to spend every second with them. its the last time you will really be with them and you want to live it up before you dont see them everyday. have fun while that person is still where you are!

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hey. my friend is having a bbq on june 22 & she is inviting a SHITload of people, like 70 or something to her house. it's a graduationn partyy. well should i bring a cute graduation gift? idk if other people are bringing gits, but i can askk some of my girls who are goingg. help?

definitely bring her a gift. i think a cute picture of you and her in an adorable frame with a meaningful card would be an awesome gift for a friend that is graduating. =]

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okay so a girl who is on my bus and in almost all my classes is having a bbq tomorrow. idk if it is a birthday party. i think her bday was last month. would she have it that late??
anyway, should i bring a gift?

14/f

ask around and find out if it is her birthday. or you could just ask her. only bring a gift if it is her birthday. =]

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What are some things for my friends and I to do around my house? My house is pretty boring, so I just want a few suggestions. Thanks in advance.

make cookies or brownies or anything yummy and pig out. =]
watch a movie.
play truth or dare.
dress up and take crazy pictures.
give eachother facials/manicures.

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What are really fun hings to do with friends? not too many people just like 4-6. It has to make me seem like a reall cute sweet and fun girl. What can I do? How do i act? What do i wear?

hang out at the movies. mall. go the beach if you live near one. go out to a casual restaruant for dinner. go ice skating. a concert. mini golfing. go dancing. play laser tag. anything like those! be sure to look cute. maybe a jean mini skirt and a polo? or jeans with a cute tank top. just remember to be yourself. = )

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Well, my mom said that I could have a sleepover this weekend starting Friday. There will be about 5 or 6 girls all about 13. What are some fun things we can do? I have Charter television, a trampoline, a nice neighborhood, and a big backyard. My house is fairly small so I'm not sure what we can really do inside. And, what are some things to talk about? We are all really close friends.
Thank you in advance!

twister
truth or dare
gossip
paint nails/toenail
face masks
jump on the trampoline
take tons of silly pictures
ding dong ditch
volleyball outside
prank call (make sure to dial *69 first to block your #)
dress up
watch movies
bake cookies or any other yummy food
give massages



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ok soo does any one have any good truth or dare questions/dares?

www.tordol.com

that website you choose the age and pick truth or dare and they give you one.

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Me and my two friends Steph and Michelle are gettin' together for new years. Got any good ideas about things we could do :-] I would really appriciate it .. and I will rate high if you give good ideas :-]


Love,
shattereDxLovE

http://www.party411.com/millennium-adultgames.html

also buy party hats, balloons, sparkling cider = ) anything fun to party!! have a dance party, gossip, play games, eat lots and lots of food and candy, take pictures, play twister, see who can stay up the longest, play truth or dare, play poker, watch the ball drop on tv, tell eachother your new years resolutions, kareoke, just basically party.

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Well this weekend me and my 2 best friends are having a sleepover and were outta things to do!!
Got any ideas?

twister
truth or dare
cranium
kareoke
dance party
bake cookies (yum)
face masks/trade off giving massages
paint toenails/nails
watch a movie (chick flick!!)
listen to music
take pictures
ding-dong-ditch
prank call
play a scary game like bloody mary
gossip

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okayy i have 90$ to spend on christmas presents for 3 girls and 3 boys. The girls i have picked out already and that leaves me with about 40$. This one guy jimmy, i like a real lot and i was thinking of gettin him a 24$ calonge from abercrombie so thats 26$ left. i don't know what i can get my other two friends.

Luke- he's a skater, he's funny, likes sugars and candies and even though he's 13 hes pretty much loving in a 8 year old attitude. like he gets excited over stupid things and the other guy, Tyler if pretty much the same way only hes not a skater i dont know what i can get either of then with 26$ so if anyone had ideas i'd appreciate them so much!

- ill rate if you answer

Thank you,
Alisha

i would get them both some christmas candy and a beenie and hacky sack. that way its a little skater and a little kiddish too. = )

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I'm going christmas shopping for all of my friends tommorow. I know what to get all of my close friends that are girls, but I really don't know what to get my best guy friend. It's actually kind of sad because I've known him for almost 5 years, but I am seriously clueless on what to get him. Can someone please tell me what guys like as gifts, that isn't priced over $25, besides gift cards? Thanks!

cologne
hoodies
cds
movies
video games
candy
boxers = )
sports ball (basketball, soccerball, baseball, etc.)
workout bag
hat

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I have 6 friends to buy Christmas presents for, and I know I have at least 100$ to spend, but I don't want to spend ALL that!! Can you help me think of gifts to buy for each of them that are under 10$? I'll tell you a little about each person...
Kaylee- Likes sparkles, but is sporty, and lovesss good movies!
Rachael- Very girly, and loves pink!
Scotlyn- Somewhat girly, and likes glitter, etc.
Summer- Loves to READ! She loved the book "Blue is for Nightmares".. If you've read it, that's the kind of books she likes!
Hannah- Girly.. likes makeup!
Kassy- Likes tinkerbell and monkies, and frogs.

I need to buy them each something 10$ or under! Please help me!

I'm also not sure what to get my mom. I don't really have a price limit on her, but I know I'm getting her a candle and a snowglobe. I'm just not sure what else to get her!

i would suggest..
kaylee-some sparkly makeup, workout bag, cute sweatpants
rachael-perfume, lipgloss/nailpolish, a cute wallet
scotlyn-lipgloss, comfy scarf, winter hat
summer-$10 gift card to barnes and noble or any bookstore
hannah-purse, lipgloss/nailpolish, bracelet
kassy-the disney store has tons of tinkerbell things, i would get her something there. or aeropostale has cute things with monkeys and frogs on it. (socks, undies, shirts)
mom-something that will mean a lot to her. a picture of you two and a nice letter telling her why you love her and merry christmas and all that.

i really hope this helps you and good luck.

p.s. for the most part, you can find all this stuff at target. = )

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My Best Friend Amber is moving in 2 weeks back to Michigan (I live in Ky) sso you can imagine how far that is away. We Chose to write each other. But MY problem is, is that I can't stop crying. What Can I do To Stop!? And Also. What Could Be a Good going Away gift or something?? Thanks 13/f

find some new friends. go shopping. have a party. invite some girls over. go get a massage or your nails done. anything to keep your mind off it. a good going away gift could be a framed picture of you two or a scrapbook filled with memories and pictures.

cheer up. = )

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i need some new stuff to listen to. i like fall out boy, dashboard confessional, kelly clarkson, gwen steffani, good charlotte, ect... plz give me some suggestions of this type of music.

fall out boy-my chemical romance, the starting line, relient k, all american rejects, motion city soundtrack, project rocket, the click 5, something corporate, greenday

dashboard-norah jones, yellowcard, death cab for cutie, guster, funeral for a friend

kelly clarkson-black eyed peas, the pussycat dolls, usher, leann rimes, carrie underwood, britney spears, maroon 5, jessica simpson, ashlee simpson

gwen stefani-destinys child, will smith, mariah carey, sarah mclachlan, the killers, madonna

good charlotte-simple plan, new found glory, sum 41, mxpx, d12, blink 182, goo goo dolls

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Well i have a aguy thats liek me...& these is the shit he dose

-calls me
-talks to me all the time
-loves to take me to class
-oves to sit next to me in classes
-always writing me notes...& i write him note...

I can tell he likes me...but i don't like him like that...what should i do if he askes me out??

if you really dont want to go out with him, be honest and tell him 'thanks, but you just want to be single right now, but the two of you can still be friends.' thats a nice way to say it.

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Hey Guys, I have a HUGE Problem, I know you guys are probably gonna say "You shouldn't care what people thinks!". Well I need to answer that. I can't help it. It all started when Me and My best friend Amber. We Arn't Like That (Lesbian). She has a Boyfriend and yeah I am Single. We act like sisters though. We 'Sometimes' share a drink (pop, etc.). What I mean by that is. She could be drinking something and then I would ask her if I could have a drink and I would take a drink. Now everyone thinks I'm a Lesbain!! What Can I do To Get Them To Shut Up? I'm Not That WAY!!!!!

wow. those people are immature! i think everyone i know does that even if its not their best friend! sharing drinks is not a big deal at all. just tell them that they're immature and they need to grow up, then just leave it at that. after you say that, pretend like you dont care anymore and they will forget all about it and not bother you anymore.

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Does anyone know any songs about lost friendships? I'm kinda going through something right now, and I'd like a song to relate. Thanks!

rascal flatts-"these days"
keith urban-"you'll think of me"

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right so my freind peirced her ear with a third hole by herself using a needle yesterday. it looks fine today. i want a belly button peircin, but my mom will never let me. should i ask my freind to do it for me? what are some safety measures i should take?

dont do it. doing it yourself will get infected and you'll regret it.

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hey - does anyone have any cute ideas for xmas presents? i have literally no money, maybe twenty bucks total for like thirty presents. help!! homemade scarves? a long list would be nice, preferrably not food. and nothing that looks cheap. ahhh! thankssssss

homemade christmas cookies or any candy
scarves
candy canes (give each person like 5 and tie them with a cute red bow)
mittens
handmade ornaments
christmas mug filled with hershey kisses
homemade hot chocolate mix with marshmellows

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