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hey! i have a problem thats been on my mind for a really long time. this year my bff L has changed alot. she got a boyfriend (and didnt plan on telling me that she got one...i found out 3 weeks later from J) and got really popular. She made friends with J. J was also my friend, so L would tell J stuff. One day J told me that L told her that she (L) stopped liking me and has just been pretending for like 8 months. L says that im immature and laugh at everything. We've never really had a big fight, im too scared for that. J says just snap on her. i dont want to because L nows a lot of people and could get tons of them to hate me, so im trying to avoid that.
So my question is: should i confront L,let it die down, or have a casual "we need to talk??" im really confused. Please help!
I say have a casual "we need to talk". but if you ask me, L isn't worth your time. she sounds awful. I'd tell her that if she's going to continue being this way, that you weren't interested in being her friend anymore. B/c no one deserves a friend like that. Don't snap on her, that'll only start things and people might turn against you. But don't be TOO casual, you have to let her know that you ARE mad and done let her walk all over you. Just say "i dont like the way you're treating me. no one deserves to be treated this way by their best friend and "best friends" dont pretend to like the other for 8 months. So if you're going to continue this, then forget our friendship. I dont like to throw it away but i can't let it go on like this" and leave it at that. I wouldn't let her say anything after that cuz she'll prolly give excuses or deny it. So just leave it at that. Hope i helped!
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my really good friend is moving june 22, and i want to do something special. im not sure i can have a party so...does anyone have any ideas? even if you have an idea for making something would be helpful.
Make a scrapbook
or maybe a calender for the upcoming year.
i know i'd love that. or Maybe get a BIG card and get EVERYONE to sign it saying how much they'll miss her. maybe even all 3! lol
OK I am a little young but please take this seriously! My best guy friend, he's 13, his dad died today. He has a heart attack =( well I know he probably doesn't want to talk to me yet but how can I comfort him. I really don't know how to appraoch him. I might write hima letter tellign him how much he means to me and how special hsi dad was... is that a good start? Any ideas.... I want to make this as easy as I can for him. Thanks for your time.
Try giving him a hug, that usually helps. Don't say anything, just give him a long warm hug.
hope i helped!
okay this question is for my friend who can't ask it so i am doing it for her. well her best friend just recently died at age 12. and she wants to go to her funeral and wants me to go with her but her mom won't let her go because its during school and she thinks she will get all emotional but she really wants to go so she can say bye and she wants me to go with her so she has a shoulder to cry on if she needs one. does anyone know how she can get her mom to change her mind and let her go to her best friends funeral? please help.
You know, i usually say that you shouldn't go behind your parent's back but your friend NEEDS to go to the funeral. Her mom shouldn't be holding her back. find out some way to go. maybe you parents can give you both a ride. i dont know, just get there. if your friends' mom finds out, have your friend tell her that she needed to go and that's the end. hope i helped! ♥
One of my friends is 1 year younger than me and she's my best friend! But I'm also good friends with another girl but she said i'm a loser if i hang out with my best friend and that she'll stop talking to me because of that if i don't quit.
I know you prolly don't wanna hear this but if your friend won't hang out with you b/c of your other friend, then she's not worth it. And i also think that your other friend might be bluffing. Keep hanging out with both of your friends, i doubt anything will happen. hope i helped! ♥
I want to tell my friends how much they mean to me and they lov hearing quotes. Could someone tell me so cute friendship quotes?
Here's a website with some friendship quotes
http://www.friendship-poems.com/submitted_quotes.html
Hope i helpeD!
my friends stepdad molested her last night and i dont no what to do. i no i NEED to be there for her. and her mom said that if they cant find another house to buy they are moving over an hour away. which means i will probably never see her again. she is like my best friend. someone please help me. it has just hit me that i might not ever talk to her again. someone please help. i have been crying a lot...
Why don't you get them to call the police and keep the house they were living in. Maybe have them stay at a hotel/motel for a while until he's gone. He should be put in jail for that.
Hope i helped! ♥
I am having a sleepover next weekend and i was going to invite one of my best friends but she has been really mean to me.She has been telling me to shut up and to leave her alone.Should i invite her to my party or not be friends with her?
Maybe something's wrong. Ask her, maybe there's something at her house that's troubling her. There might be something you can do to help. If she's just being rude to be rude then don't invite her. But it sounds like something's wrong. Hope i helpeD!
ok so I have alot of best friends - 3 main ones and me and my friend lets call her "Jackie" have noticed that our other friends lets call them "tia" and hmmm idk "kelsey" have been spending a heck of alot of time together and rarley even talk 2 me or "jackie" any more and every weekend "tia" and "kelsey" are always at eachothers houses and they cancel our plans to hang out with eachother and me and "jackie" are sick of it! but they are still our bff and whenever we try and talk about it they just say i dont know what ur talkin about we dont favor anyone
i still wanna be all of their friends I just want them to notice that me and "jackie" are still alive
what should I do
ill rate a 5 for trying
signed a confused friend
Sorry to say this but you might just have to wait it out. Your two friends are just doing some major bonding and you can't stop it. Just try making plans with your other friends and dont even try to include them. Try ignoring them and see what happens. Hope i helped!
one of my bestfriends just called me to tell me that like one of my bestesteset friends house is on fire..she knew this because her dad is a firefighter..no one knows where my friend is and im startin to freak out..we're doing the paper together and im hoping shes ok.would it be nosey to drive over there?
Signed,
Freaked out Friend
NOT AT ALL! just go!
Hey ok well theres this dance comeing up and i really want to ask a friend of mine if he wants to go to it with me but, i cant dance, and i mean i dunno if he is a good dancer but even if he isnt i dotn want to make a fool out of myself. Also, i dunno, maybe it would be awkward if i asked him toit and he said no...cuz we are really good friends, i just want to go with him lol as friends.
why don't you just ask him and if he says yes, make a joke out of how you can't dance. like :*laugh* well, i can't fast dance at all so no fast dances
Slow dancing is easy, just follow the guys lead. So stick to just slow dancing. Hope i helped!
i have this friend who is so selfish. she told me that if i went out with his guy named matt that shed hate me more then her friend olivia. i really like her as a frind..but i want your opinion..thanx
Tell her that you'll go out with who you want and if she doesn't like that then she can deal with it cuz you're not gonna change yourself or your actions for her! Don't let her walk all over you! If she was a REAL friend she wouldn't do that to you. Hope i helped