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I'm 13, and a pretty average girl. I know a lot about fashion and some stuff about makeup, some things about music, books, tough stuff, and overall a lot about the teenage years. So if you'd like to ask me anything (and not have it displayed on advicenators), feel free to email me anonymously! Also, if you ask me a question, you can trust that you won't get a stupid or mean answer! I promise! :)
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I have a friend named Felicia and she's 16/F...all she likes to talk about is beer, boys, parties, people she hates..i don't know..she tries to act like she's all grown up now or whatever...well this morning i wanted to go for a scooter run with my other friend hannah...she was like, "umm no, that's ok i don't wanna smell like sh*t" so hannah and me went for the scooter run anyway..we had tons of fun! we came in and felicia was like "eeww you guys smell get away from me.." and she avoided us the rest of the night..(but at least we had fun! all she did was stay in and watch court tv with the judges and stuff..grrr..it's like she's trying to impress people by acting that she's not 10 anymore..(this is just an example of how she acts *all that* and *grownup*...trust me, there's tons more! she always acts like she's better than us and i really don't know what to do..please help!
Well I know what you mean...sometimes you just wanna be a kid while you can! Obviously your friend is having some insecurities (well, at least I think so) and wants to be older than she is. I would talk to her straight and tell her what's bothering you, and that you wish you could still have fun with her without beer, boys, and parties, at least once in a while. If she refuses, then she's not worth it. :)
i am starting to like this guy but no one knows. he sits next to me in one of my classes, and yea we flirt =] but one of my good friends has started coming over to my seat lately before class and really flirting with him and he flirts with her.. and the last couple days its been really bothering me b/c she never came to talk to me (but really she just talks to him) until him. should i say anything..? what else should i do?
Talk to your friend in private so she knows that it bothers you when she flirts with him. If this guy flirts with you and her, you might want to reconsider because a guy should never come between a friendship.
I have the bestest friends in the world. but i cant help but feel left out sometimes. i know im just been stupid half the time but it really bugs me. I know that having 3 best friends will always be hard but its so awful been left out. Like they will sleep at each others house etc. I told my friends about this and my other friend said sorry i just feel more close to her than i do to you. and that just made me upset becuase i have known them both longer than they have known each other. So i dont know what to do, they will think im trying to split them up or something which im not! so what can i do because i have already told them but they just carry on. thanks
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I can totally relate to this, because me and my best friends are like peas in a pod. But a lot of times one of us gets left out. Sounds like your dilemma, right? Well, I suggest trying to plan activities where it's hard to leave one person out, like going to a carnival or something. I'm sure they haven't forgotten about you. If none of this works, I would try to have a heart-to-heart conversation, no excuses. Just try to get it out in the open, and eventually things will work out. Maybe one of you will get hurt, but that's the danger in threesomes. Good luck!
my friend is having her bday party...but my other friend is having hers the same day..but invited me afterwards. I want to go to both..should i try and work where i leave one party early to go to the other..should i just pick one party to go to? i dont want to hurt anyones feelings.
Well, the way I see it, you have 2 options:
a) Go to one friend's birthday party (I would go to the friend that asked you first or the one that you said yes to first) or
b) split your time between the two (this might be a good idea if one of your friends is doing one activity at one time and the other is doing a different activity at a different time...just so you could balance what you're doing better)
Problem with b is that your friends might get mad for going to only half of one party...
If it was me, I would go to the one that I said yes to first, just to be fair.