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Okay so i have this friend lets call him jack. well i think that jack cuts himself. because i asked him and he said dont worry about it. and he kept saying that. and yeah. so i think he cuts because if he didnt he would just say no right?
any ideas what i should do about it?
thanks in advance :) (link)
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Well try to hang out with him and see the spots that he would most likely cut. :]
If he didn't cut himself, he would probably say no.
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MY FRIEND IS THEE MOST ANNOYEST PERSON EVER WHEN IT COMES TO GUYS.
She is just rawr. Like, she likes this boy, that likes me.. & I used to like him [it has nothing to do with me still having feelings for him] But, she always likes the same people I do, she just always copies me! & the people she likes, don't like her.. at all. & i just can't stand it. How do I make her understand these things? Why does she want to waste her time?
& then when i try to be like.. "why do you like him? he doesn't like you.. like someone who likes you." [i say it alot nicer though] & she flips out. she starts saying.. "What are you trying to get at" & stuff & its like grr annoying.
what do i do? (link)
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Tell her that maybe she should find someone else, or find someone else for her. Maybe she'll get the hint by that.
Most of the time people realize, but I guess she doesn't. Ask her why she always likes the same people as you. She'll probably deny that she does but oh well, it's worth asking.
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how do you make a shy friend un-shy? lol this sounds weird but believe me this is the right thing to do (link)
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Try to make her comfterbal wherever you guys are! Introduce her to all your friends, and maybe give her more confidence.
:) Get her "out there"
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I have a lot of friends that are girls, but none of them like me more than that. is there a way that i can get them to treat me more like a dating option then just a friend (link)
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Be sweet to them! But, only have one in mind; remember you don't want to be going around to everyone. Pick one girl, and layer her with love. Maybe you should tell one of them that you think you like them. I'm sure she'd be suprised, but if you've played a role as a good friend hopefully she'll trust you enough and like you enought to date you!
:)
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My friends(former friends) are writing notes to another one of my friends about me and i dont know if that one friend is writing bad stuff back! if i ask her if she is she'll say no because she's known to write bad things about people! so i dont know what to do! please help fast! i need it!Thanks! (link)
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Tryyy to steal the note from her if you can. If you go to her house look in her bag or something! But don't try to be a stalkerr typee. If she can't show you them than maybe she is writing back bad about you.
Findd friends that won't leavee you out like they sound like they'ree doing, you deserveee betterr peopleee :)
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hey i had this bf that was doing drugs and i found out after dateing him for 2 weeks cuz i tasted it when i kissed him! i told my best friend and she told me i should dump him. i thought bout what she said and i gave him another chance he promise to stop but in the hallways at school i kissed him unexpectly and i tasted it again so later that day while we where alone i dumped him later that day i went to a school dance. just today i found out hes moved on and has a different gf now and i felt really sad. i have moved on too im with a really nice guy that doesnt do drugs but i was sad when i found out this. what do i do? is there something wrong with me? i know my ex really likes me still but i love my bf now. so confused.
my msn is mariedodds555@hotmail.com if it would be easier for you to IM or email me.
**sexy_gal_93** (link)
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you definitley didn't do anything wrong. you did the rightttt thing :D stay away from the boys that do the drugss. and if you're happy with the boyfriend that you have now, stick with him.. the other guy sounds like a scumbag anyways and he doesn't sound too great if he can't stop doing that. he's probably addicted.
well, goodluck. ♥-jessie
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my best frends doesnt hang out with my anymore she has the other best frends who hates me and i NEVER get to hang out with her anymore im realy upset cuz i love her soo muchh but i dnt want to get mad at her then she will be upset i dnt wat to do to make her hang out with me im tired of waiting and i already have new frends and i stil miss her
im tired of waiting
help me plz (link)
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well are you sure that her other best friends hate you?
&& i bet she loves you too you probably don't ask her to do things enough. or maybe when you ask her to do things she has already made plans. so ask her in advance.
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how did you do that yellow thing with your camera? cause i have a digital one too :o) (link)
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i use this thing fotoshop thing ! lol its not with my camera . =) its a program i think!
♥ Jessie
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i have a good friend who just broke up with her boyfriend she never really told me anything and says she had . i just hooked up with him on friday night and found out they broke up 2 nights before that. i told her today not wanting to keep it in and this otehr girl one of her bestfriends also and mine was there and she was like making it for us to hook up i dont know what else to do shes all pissed off i know i would be also but i need alot of help. (link)
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hey, i think i know who this is. what i would do is tell the girl why you hooked up with him. it was totally peer pressure because her best friend was telling you to. you didnt want to seem prude so you did it! i mean, serisouly if she doesnt belive you then i wouldn't know what to do but to let time pass and maybe she would get over it .. it'll take time. good luck though. =) ♥
if its who i think it is (hotboxtgirlsrock!)
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hello....I bet you dont know who this is. jk....i know you know probably...i am on your bus and annoy the hell out of you!...ok see you in school!!...ok bye jessica:) (link)
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hey chelsea ;) lol ♥
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how do you give such good advice??...like the one about the hotdog and the hamburger...lol...ok well we are friends so ill see you in school...and on the bus ride home....bye (link)
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I don't know my advice is just so amazing like that!! =P hahahaa!! .. ttyl & you better love me for giving you these h/w passes. PEACEE OUT chels.
x0 - Jessie ♥
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ok .. what do i do if i have no frends ? cuz its really really depressing and it makes me shit myself when i realzie how big of a lozer i am and i just cant take it any more and my penis wont grow and neither will my boobs and its all ebcause i have no frends ! please help my loozerness (link)
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WOW A PENIS AND BOOBS! THATS HOTT. & im sure you have friends. kthnxbye. =]
♥Jessie
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Is there any way to make it clear to a guy that I would like to go to prom with him, with out actually asking him myself? We are friends, and I actually like him as more than a friend. We meant to go to another school dance together, but it just never worked out, some other things got in the way. He is kind of hard to read, but had seemed sincerely upset when we couldn't go to the last dance together. How should I let him know that I would love to go to prom with him, before I get asked by someone else? Or before he thinks I won't say yes and asks someone else?
Thanks in advance for your advice, I will rate high, if that helps. Oh, and I'm 17/f. (link)
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Tell your friends to say like hints aww like ___ and __ should go to prom together. Just give him little hints like it would be soo fun if we went together and stuff.
♥ Jessie
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i like a gurl in our class but she wont even talk to me no more cause suran made shit up tat i said she gives head i told her i didnt and she still does not belive me and doesnt talk to me no more wat do i do (link)
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Well she probably doesn't have enough trust in you beacuse she doesn't know you well enough. Tell saran to tell her that it was a lie. If he doesn't then I guess.. that's mean. I know who your talking about so I'm going to keep this to myself. =] Good Luck with her. You told her a few times and you need her to gain your trust. Maybe telling here stuff will gain trust. Let her know over and over again it wasn't you that said it.
Good luck,
jessie xo0ox
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sorry i didnt no what this went under, so i put it under friendship.
anyways, im going to my friends sleepover tonight and if i stay up most of the night/all night then i get a headache, but the thing is, i think everyone is going 2 stay up all night and i dont want to be the only one asleep, while everone is having fun.
has anyone got anything i could do to help me not get headaches??
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Take advil or Tylenol =o) if it doesn't work.. try putting an ice pack on your head. If you want them all to go to sleep turn the lights off and say night guys.. and if they complain tell them its a rule or something. If they are true friends they will be like ok.
Have fun,
Jessie xo
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hey jess... i have a problem. my best friend is becoming friends with the wrong people. and im not just saying this b/c im totally enemys with them, but bcuz i no they're known 4 backstabbing... bcuz they've done it to me. i love my bff to death but now shes starting to act like them. ive tryed to tell her to watch he back and all that stuff but she wont listen... i just dont want her to get hurt. how do i tell her in a way that wont make it seem like im jealous?
- VERY confussed (link)
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hey VERY confused,
tell her what happened to you , and how they stabbed your back. also explain to her what could happen and the consequences of what might happen if shes hanging out with the wrong people. tell her that you're worried about her and your afraid that she might be doing the wrong things if she continues to hang out with them. and if she says "your just jealous" say im not jealous.. im just a true friend thats worried =) xo
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Okay well I am a 17 female and i will be 18 on Saturday. Lately i've had really low self esteem which is really strange for me. I'm a good athlete and I have no problem with my looks or my body, and I have lots of friends. But for some reason lately I just get this vibe from EVERYONE that i'm just not wanted. And it is for no particular reason, nothing has changed and i haven't gotten into any fights with my friends or anything. Its so weird, like for example, if one of my friends calls one of my other friends when i am with her i will feel hurt becuase she didn't call me, which i know is really silly and i've never been like this in my life. One of my teachers didn't agree with an opinion i gave in school today and she agreed with one of my friends and i just automatically thought that she hates me and doesn't like me which i know is obsurd. In my head i know i'm acting ridiculous but I'm still hurt everytime something small like this happens. I'm starting to feel really bad about myself and I can't figure out why, but it's driving me crazy. I won't even go to partys anymore becuase I feel like no one wants me there, but I have no reason to think this. I'm becoming very antisocial and this definitly isn't me. I'm desperate for some help! (link)
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You serisouly need to start having more self confidence. Talk to a guidance counsler or something. Belive me teachers are just like that.. and I'm sure that you are wanted. Just ask around and stuff to make sure that your really not like right that people don't want you. Ask your friends or teachers or people why they have been "acting different" towards you. Best luck.
-Jessie
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i already asked a question like yesterday but this is a lil different.
im 16.f and my best friend is 13. im gin out w/ her older brother. she says evey thing i do involves her. i totally disagree and i think i wand to do things on my own w/o her "approval". she does not like me and her brother together and she wants me to "take a break" or break up with him or something and i kep telling her no and she keeps asking. what do i tell her? (link)
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Ignore her and don't let her step all over you. That is really RUDE and you dont need her bossing you around .. that's what you have parents for.
-Jessie
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I was hanging out with a group of my friends the other day after school. We were just hanging out having a good time and one of my friends pulls out a joint and lights it. She started passing it around our group of friends and everyone took a puff of it but me. I basically just stood there confused. These innocent girls that I had known since I was 6 years old had just lit up a joint and smoked it. I am completely disgusted by drugs and drinking and I will never do it because it's the worst thing you can do to yourself. They started making fun of me that I wouldn't smoke it. I wasn't hurt that they were making fun of me, but I was just hurt at their stupidity for smoking it. I don't know what to do. They've been my friends for a very long time and have always been loyal to me, but this is something I can't handle. What should I do? Should I tell them they should stop? I'm so confused! Please help. (link)
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You should tell them how you feel about it and if then dont stop then dont hang out with them. They don't seem like the right crowd for you if your not interested in doing things like that.
-jessie
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i have this friend who is so selfish. she told me that if i went out with his guy named matt that shed hate me more then her friend olivia. i really like her as a frind..but i want your opinion..thanx (link)
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Well then let her hate you !! because if you like him you like him, and most likely that ISNT a threat unless she has like beat up olivia or something .. best luck xo
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