fabulous11 answered Wednesday December 20 2006, 3:20 pm: Just a few months ago my friend was helping me be more outgoing and it worked really well .but see she wasnt much of the help. Yes her supporting me with it was good but its all up to that one person to make themself more out there. All you can really do is givce her tips and be there for her no matter what. The rest is kind of in her hands.
dia answered Wednesday December 20 2006, 1:23 pm: well the way to help a friend come out of their shell a bit, you need to talk to them lots..and i dont mean "hey, so how are you..im great :)*silence*...soooo"
you need to get to know them. ask them questions, (but dont plunge into personal stuff if you two arent close). ask them what they like to do, invite them out when you go out, and if you give it time, gradually their confidence will shine through. everyone has confidence, it just depends whether its hidden or not :)
theres nothing wrong with wanting your friend to be confident, however pleae remmber not to force them into anything too drastic!!
br0ken_x_smile answered Wednesday December 20 2006, 12:26 pm: Try to make her comfterbal wherever you guys are! Introduce her to all your friends, and maybe give her more confidence.
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