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annoying?
MY FRIEND IS THEE MOST ANNOYEST PERSON EVER WHEN IT COMES TO GUYS.
She is just rawr. Like, she likes this boy, that likes me.. & I used to like him [it has nothing to do with me still having feelings for him] But, she always likes the same people I do, she just always copies me! & the people she likes, don't like her.. at all. & i just can't stand it. How do I make her understand these things? Why does she want to waste her time?
& then when i try to be like.. "why do you like him? he doesn't like you.. like someone who likes you." [i say it alot nicer though] & she flips out. she starts saying.. "What are you trying to get at" & stuff & its like grr annoying.
what do i do?
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You are so self-centered.
She could just have the same taste in guys as you do. I have the same taste in guys as one of my friends does.
Don't flatter yourself by thinking that she is copying you.
If she were flirting with or hooking up with your boyfriend, then you should be concerned.
He's not yours, and he's not property.
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Ok shes kind of like a little sibling who wants to be just like you. She obviously looks up to you alot and probably thinks that if she acts like you, more people will like her. Kind of flattering. But i can see its getting on your nerves. Dont tell her that she should like someone else because this person doesnt like her because its just breaking down her self esteem. I know sometimes you just want to tell her things but think how you would feel if someone you looked up to or cared about said that to you. Its easy to say things like that when your angry but it seems like its really hurting her. Everyone has a chance with anyone so dont tell her that they wont like her. Try and give her some confidence. Maybe you could try finding a guy that does like her and say you like him so that she would like him. Or you could try and set her up with someone. She might actually like the guy she says she likes right now, You never know. If its getting you angry dont yell at her cuz it will just make her feel worse. Try to sit down and talk to her if its annoying you but dont yell. Dont tell her she cant get someone instead say she can have any guy she wants but that currently the person she likes isnt interested in her right now. I hope everything works out for you =] Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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Tell her that maybe she should find someone else, or find someone else for her. Maybe she'll get the hint by that.
Most of the time people realize, but I guess she doesn't. Ask her why she always likes the same people as you. She'll probably deny that she does but oh well, it's worth asking.
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