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Ok how do you really know if a guys flirtting with you? Like this guy hes seriouly like my best friend! I can tell him anything! Well he like jokes around with me and stuff but how do i know if hes actually flirting? Like is he just being friendly...i don't think he likes me cause where just good friends even though sometimes i wish he did...so what would you consider to be flirtimg? but yea any advide?? (link)
If he lightly touches you on the arm while talking and is constantly around than maybe he does have a thing for you, but most of the time someone can tell if the other is flirting or not. Maybe you could be a little more aggressive and see how he responds.


Ok, I have a friend named Sarah*. Sarah came to my house the other day and we talked and I thought everything was fine (because we wern't best friend a week ago). Then I hear the phone ringing and Sarah picks it up (which is unusual) and I must have picked it up at the same time. Well anyway it was Jamie* A bitch that I hate and is bad news. I herd her wanting Sarah to come up to her house to ride fourwheelers. So after they get off the phone. Sarah calls her mom and goes home! Well then about 15 or 30 minutes later. She isn't home and guess what I found out that she was at Jamies!!! What do I do? Confront her!? (link)
I think you are really immature to get all worked up because Sarah* is hanging out with "a bitch that is bad news"
shes can hang out with whoever she wants to, the world doesnt evolve around you, you can't tell someone not to hang out with someone because you simply don't like them. Maybe "Jamie" really is cool to be around or maybe "sarah" is just using her to ride fourwheelers...either way..you shouldn't freak out and over react over something that is not that big of a deal. Perhaps Sarah* wants to be friends with you, and wants to be friends with Jamie also and doesn't want to pick sides. Consider why you dislike Jamie, why do you see her as a "bitch" and why is she exactly "bad news" what exactly has she ever done to you before? If you don't have a good reason to hating her, then I suggest you get to know her as well as Sarah has. Maybe there is something to like about this individual


okay so i like this guy, SORT OF. hes in love with me! i just like him as a friend, but he like wants to go out with me!he keeps asking me questions like IF we go out, and IF i break up with my girlfriend, etc. and my friend HATES him, their like enemies. she's my best friend too! how do i deal with both of these problems! like what if we went out she'd be like EW WHY R U GOIN OUT WITH HIM. how do i tell him i just like him without hurting his feelings? (link)
omg like i dunno like u shud soo go out with him cuz you SORT OF like him thats like sooo adorable or hurt his feelings that would be so awesome too...god wat r you 13?


alrigh tim 13 and well im half a virgin ( i havent had sex but ive given something) and well it was with my x boyfriend and this was like in april of this year and people are still talking about it and every since then theres this group of boys in ym class that are all my friends but ever since that thing in april they've all been like well kinda giving me names and stuff like today they said im gonna be a hooker when i grow up, you know stuff likw that and i was just like wondering if i should be worried about that.. like do you think it'll go to far and well how oculd i convine them to stop it? (link)
You can never convince them to stop it boys will be..jackasses..thats the way it goes
Like during a football game at my school, i made out with my boyfriend at the time, on the treehouse in the school's nature center and there was this huge rumor that we had sex and it was all around school about the "big orgy in the treehouse" Guys still label me as a "slut" or "whore" and it's funny becuz all i did was kiss with my boyfriend....big deal...most of them said that just to get my attention and they loved to see my angry reaction, they tease you about it becuz they probly like you. How much you wanna bet these group of boyz want you to "give sumthing" to them to?


Ok, so I have this friend and I didnt know she had myspace until the other night. Well, I found her myspace and in her blogs, she had an entry about "How To Get Rid Of Old Friends?". Well, in the entry she was talking bad about two of my good friends and how she dont want to be their friend anymore. I sent her a message and told her what I say and that I think I should tell my friends about it. Should I? How can I handle this in the right manner? I want to do the right thing. Also, should I even be her friend anymore if she is going to act like this? Help! (link)
It doesnt seem like shes a good friend, actually i think the correct word for her would be "bitch"
Ur lucky your name isnt on her list of "old friends to ditch"
I suggest being a loyal good friend to the 2 friends she talked bad about and telling them what they deserve to know
It isn't good to keep this a secret from them becuz it could later on blow up in your face


Well..i have these two friends lets call themm Tina and Mellisa well Mellisa has been a very good friend of mine for a long time n she has been my bestestfriend for a while.. so the other day me tina n mellisa were hanging out n then mellisa was acting differnt around tina n i dont like it at all cuz they like talk n say its private n stuff, n i feel like there talking about me n now everytime we hang out it sucks cuz mellisa acts differnt..what do i do? (link)
well sumthings going on but theres only one way to know and thats to ask them about it


one of my best friends ever is friends w/ my enemy ((lets call her sam))! no one in our skewl likes sam except for my friend because she lies, shes a slut nd a bitch!! its one thing when youre excluded w/ yur bbf! its another when the person who took yur place is your enemy! wut can i do? how can i make her understand? (link)
Well, you can't "make" her understand.
I am friends with all sorts of people and there are some that my best friend doesn't care for.
But I'm not going to tell them "hey my best friend doesn't like you, so GO AWAY!"
There is obviously something your bbf likes about this "slut" you don't care for. Don't ruin things with your friends just because she simply is hanging out with someone else. And don't think of it like your being replaced. I think you should tell her how you feel and see if it means anything to her at all. Then you will know what to do.




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