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Ok,for Halloween my friend Lisa suggested I dress up as a French Maid.And I did,I went the whole nine yards shaved legs,high heels,makeup everything.Now all my friends think I'm gay.The worst part of all this is that I really enjoyed being all dressed up.I had a long talk with Lisa about this and she said the reason why she suggested the costume was because she always thought I was a bit girly she said if I wanted to she will help me shop for clothes and stuff.The problem is if I do this everyone will def think I'm gay.I'm so confused I just don't know what to do.Thanks for Listening.
Hey. Okay well the question is do you think you are gay? Because just because you like getting dressed up doesn't mean you are auto. gay. Plus it was for holloween and a lot people like you would go through the trouble of actually looking nice for an event that only happens once a year. Just let your friends know that you wanted to be spontanious by taking the challenge. If you need anything else let me know. Take care =] x3SweetStar.
hello yall uhh i recently just foudn out that this saturday there is a cheerleading stunt clinic thing it helps you with your stunt groups and everything and it suppose to be really good my coaches daughter does it and she is like a really good cheerleader from it but my friends party is on the same day and at the same time and there is no way i could go to both and the cheerleading clinic is only one day and so isnt my friends party l;ike its not a sleepover or anything so i couldnt go after or the morning everyone wakes up i dont know what to do i love my friend but i love cheerleading and my friend will get mad please help i will rate 5
Hey you can do the party and the cheerleading clinic too just have to go half of the party and then half of the clinic. thats what i would do..she can't get mad at you for leaving early because at least you cared enough to show up too you know? hope everything goes well. hope i helped. Take Care =) x3 SweetStar.
ohk well im 13 and colombian (spic) woot woot yeah i know lol. anyways my mom and my dad asked me what i want to have a sweet 15 or a sweet 16.. its kinda early but they wanna start saving up since they wanna have my party at the hilton ... but the thing is that most if my friends that im going to invite are white or black and like 6 are spanish ... and i think that they will enjoy a sweet 16 better , but i mean its a tradition for a spanish girl to have a sweet 15 ? im confused help me out
Hey if it's a tradition to have a quinceanera then have a quinceanera. i have a lot of friends thats Columbian and Pericans(sp) and instead of having a sweet 16 they have quinceaneras. but have whatever you like. let me know what you end up choosing! hope i helped. Take Care =) x3 SweetStar.
ok like if your popular and every1 thinks ur a snob how do you get people to stop hating you!?!?! thanxxx
Hey. to me being popular is having everyone like you so be nice to everyone and dont act like a total bitch ( i'm not saying you are one =] ) anyways just be nice to everyone and get to know some people so they know you and not just the outside. instead of hanging out with the popular kids say hi to other people too. and im sure no one hates you because they dont know you if you think your a snob. thats how it usually works..lol hope i helped. Take Care =) x3 SweetStar.
okay so i'm a 14/f, and i'm really into my best friends brother. they are step brother and sister, so they are the same age and in the same school, since they live together. her brother and i talk, and we don't like each other, but we just both think each other is attractive. my friend is getting very angry at the fact that i talk to her brother. i don't see why she is so mad - but she is almost forcing us to not talk to him. how can i confront her about this? i really want to continue talking to him and just treat him as another one of my friends - but my best friend is telling me that i'm going to far. what can i do to help the situation?
Hey talk to your girl friend and tell her that you just wnat to another friend. be like i think it's really nice to have friends that live together and everything. tell her to give you guys a chance at being friends. also ask her why she doesnt want you guys being friends because maybe she thinks that she's loosing you by being eith her step brother. let her know whats going on and i'm sure things will be easier. hope i helped. Take Care =) x3 SweetStar.
I recently had a fight with my friend....and we havent talked in months. at first when we had our fight she told everyone she didnt want ot be my friend ever again...but today i asked my friend to ask her online our status. and she said she didnt think we would be the same, but she may still want to be friends. how should i act if i want to be friends but i dont want to seem annoying or clingy? i really want to repair this friendship! any tips for what to say and when?? help! i rate ^!!!
hey. dont have your other friends talk to her. if you want to be her friend again then be the one to speak up about it. ask her yourself and talk about what went wrong that you guys got into a huge fight and haven't talked in months. things wont be the same thats true but you can make this friendship stronger by learning from the last fight you guys had. nothing is better then making a friendship stronger. talk to her and i'm sure she feels the same way. dont be afraid to speak up first. hope i helped. let me know how it goes. Take Care. =) x3 SweetStar.
ok im planning a sweet 16 at a hotel..i was wondering how i can control the people who come in? i dont want people who arent invited or random teenagers who are hotel guests popping in. Any suggestions? 5's for anyone who isnt obnoxious
Hi. try to let only the people you want to invite know about the hotel party and ask them not to tell anyone that you didnt invite about it is the best way. you can even try to ask the people at the front desk of the hotel to maybe give you a room on a floor where there isn't that many people or is away from most of where teens might hang out? something like that should work. i hope i helped. Take care. x3SweetStar.
so im planning a sweet 16 and i made a guest list and came up with 66 people so far. This was without crossing off the "questionables." what i mean by that is those people who you dont really talk to..but you dont hate either..and the couple of people who had a sweet 1 in september but didnt invite you..and now it seems we are a little more friendly. Hope i didnt confuse you guys..any tips on what to base who you invite on? anyone ever been in my place before? how did you decide who to cross off? i dont usually talk to the "gangsta" group..but i figure inviting them would spice my party up..is this the wrong idea? i need help lol so dont be afraid to critisize
5's for everyone who isnt obnoxious
Happy 16th Birthday! for me i would think about who is worth coming and who isnt. if you know the gangstas well enough then invite them. i'm not sure how many people you are allow to invite but think about it. you want to have fun and not have anyone say things like maybe the ones that had sweet 16 but didnt invite you would be like yeah mine was so much better at your party. i'm not sure if they have that kind of people if i was planning it i think of it that way. but you dont have to do the you didnt invite me so i'm not going to invite you thing. but if some people are nice to you and you like them then keep them on. hopefully i helped! take care. x3SweetStar.
13/F Going On 14 =)
Okay...my so called best friend Vallorie,Hannah,and Becca...in school the other day ditched me! I always wait for them in classes but i was walking with them and they just ran the other way. It was so sad. I dont know why they did it but im very confused. So i didnt see them the rest of the day. We are supposed to have an easter party tommorow but i dont know what i am going to do? HeLp Me tY =)
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hey well like you said you're about to go on being 14 so maybe they have something planned? Or maybe they are planning something to surprise you with for the easter party. if you think thats not it then call one of them and ask but the best thing is to talk to them in person. hope i helped. take care. x3 SweetStar.
Hey Ya'll,
First off Im male and 15. I've kinda got a problem... There is this girl that is pretty much one of my best friends I guess you'd say. But we hang out alot or atleast when we can. And for the last few(2) months I started liking her as more than a friend. But the problem is that I don't know if she likes me as more than a BFF. I mean some days she really seems to like me as more than a friend in my opinion and some days it just seems like were just like best friends. I really don't know what to do cause i dont want to hurt our friendship if she doesnt feel that way... Because I love hangn with this girl shes so awsome!
I was thinking of asking her to prom (my schools screwed up and small so I can go to prom if I pay) because I know she'll make it a fun time even if she doesnt like me that way because she just makes me have a great time hangn with her... Should I ask her?
hey it's normal in my opinion that you like your friend because you hang out with her all the time...okay well i think you should go up to her and be like since we're close friends sometimes i feel like you sometimes act like you're more then a friend to me...and if she says no then be like ohh i was just wondering it felt like it. and for prom definitly you should ask her to go with you...friends going to prom together is fun! hope i can help. take care. x3 SweetStar.+
My best friend is pretty than me, more popular than me, smarter than me, funnier than me, just BETTER than me. And the thing is...I'm EXTREMELY jealous of her, to the point I get MAD at her when she gets more attention than me!! I mean I don't show it, but inside of me I wanna yell at her. I don't know whats the matter with me!! Today, my band teacher offered to my best friend that he would loan her the skill sax if I wanted to teach her how to play (the saxophone) so then she can join the band. I want her in band because it would be way FUNNER, but now I'm thinking I DONT want her in band. She'll be better than me, prettier than me, funner than me, and nobody will care about ME anymore! I'm so worried. But most of all I'm mad at MYSELF! I dont like getting mad and being jealous of leille but I can't help it!! Any tips on how to stop myself from getting jealous, then mad, at leille?
hey. just because she does things her way doesnt mean you can get attention or anything your way. i mean just brush it off your shoulders and be like you kno i might think you are prettier then me and better but it's not true because i have my class and as long as you keep a positive additude then nothing will make you think that way. anything else let me kno. hope i helped. take care. x3 SweetStar.
There is this one kid who goes to my school and his name is Jamie. He's been at my school since second grade and I have always just thought he was kind of an annoying and weird kid. He used to like me and he still flirts with me but I have always sort of acted like I hated him (because i thought i did). Anyway I figured out that all this time I have liked him. It seems like a good thing (because he might still like me) but there is a problem...He's moving to Hong Kong in January! He's kind of a geek in my grade but he thinks he's really popular and stuff and I was going to tell him right away that I like him but then I decided that it would be really weird if he didn't still like me too and then he would tell everyone that I like him and then I would be thought of as a loser for the rest of my life at school. So after that I thought that maybe I would tell him on his last day of school but I'm not sure if that is the right thing to do....Please help me...SOON!
hEY! aww thats sooo cute! =D lol anyways i kno how you feel. have a friend that you really trust go up to him and strike up a conversation and ask him if he still likes you and see wut he say. i'm sure he still have feelings for you cuz just let me tell yah its not easy to forget about someone you had a crush on that quickly..not for me at least. and then if he still have feelings then of corse let him kno! you have nothing to lose..and if he doesnt then just let him kno that you have feelings for him. be like i kno that you liked me before..well just to let u kno..even tho u dont anymore that i like you too...and take it from there.and be shy and it doesnt matter wut ppl think in school. if you like him then you do..it's not their concern tho you like and it's up to u to choose who u wanna like not them so forget them. If you guys do end up going out enjoy the time left before he has to leave. make it the best times of him life before he leaves. tell me how it goes.. anything else let me kno! take care! hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.
i dont kno what to do!!!!!!!!!!
me and my friends all started going to different schools this year for high school. now they have completely changed and its annoying because theyre acting totally different. we used to be best friends but now they have there own friends and i dont think they really like me anymore. i am soooooo mad. please help me somehow!!!!!!
hEY! let them kno how you feel and if they wont lsiten make then listen...ask then why is it that just because we're going to different schools this has to happened? or you can just forget them and find ur own true friends that wont leave you no matter what. i'm not saying this is the best idea but i do recommend that you do talk to them. Take care! hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.
I have this friend, and we have got in alot of fights. Well, she started coming to my school 2 years ago. (I knew her before then)She didn't know many people going to my school, so she kind of used me to get more friends. Once she met all my friends she started ignoring me and stuff. Well, that was last year. This year she is being worse. She's in a few of my classes and she won't even say hi. When I said hi to her, she was like oh hi. She thinks shes really popular cuz she hangs with the popular people. But she's not. I have too best frieds that are a year younger then me and she compleatly stole them from me. I hate her. What can I do. She only comes to my house when my two younger friends are there. Should I bring it up with her or what? I really need help. I don't want to get in another fight.
hey! girl let her kno where she belongs....tell her that she needs to cut the crap and get ur own friends and not steal urs and then be a bitch about it...you dont need her anyways cuz she obviously doesnt want a good friend like you. and like u said if you guys fight alot then it's not ur problem...tell her that she needs to stop taking ur friends and using u. anything elee let me kno. take care. hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.
My friend and I were exchanging secrets, and i found out that she had been cutting every time she got stressed out; she swore she'd stop, but then I saw two more marks... she just said she'd stop again, and she was talking about it like its no big deal.
(she's been through a lot... she was adopted when she was six, and she thinks her real parents sexually abused her (and beat her)).
I'm worried... what should I do?
-_concerned-friend_-
hi. the best thing you can do it let an adult kno about this so they will kno wut to do. cuz i wouldnt kno wut to do either but try to keep her from doing it. just keep an eye on her until u can tell an adult that u trust so they can help her. take care. hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.
Ok...my friend Abby has major problems. She's always telling everyone shes fat when shes only 100 pounds!! We are 13 and also she used to cut herself. She passed herself out in the shower and she got a big bruise on her back. Her mom is always in jail for doing drugs and her mom had a mixed baby! Abby lives with her grandparents... and they dont take her seriously when she says that shes Depressed. I tell my mom everything she tells me and my mom is really trying to help her and my mom even looked up people to help her...do you think we are doing the right thing by helping her? or should we let her deal with her parents? please help my friend! i will apprecaite it soo much!
hi. you are doing the right thing. because you care for her and everything. keep it up and let her kno that you are worry about her too and try to even talk to her grandparents about her issues and tell them that she's telling the truth and not lying. see how they react and everything and tell them some things that she told u. she's very lucky to have a friend like u. hope ur mom and you can help her out! Take Care! hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.
i think my friends in trouble...how can i help her without having her being mad and everything for thinking that she needs help and things...please help me! i'll rate you
hey! you kno wut just tell her u want to help her with her trouble. i dont kno excatly wut the 'trouble' is but i'm sure that if it's bugging you this much that you want to help her then you should just let her kno that you want to help her so that she doesnt have to go through it all by herself. wut a graet friend to have! ur great! yea just tell her and i'm sure she will understand but if she doesnt need help then let her kno that if she does tell her that she knos where to find you wen she needs help and i'm sure she will. let me kno if you need anymore help! Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
hi . ok well im 14 and last weekend my friend and i went to the movies and she wanted to invite her b/f who's 17 . well his friend who is 18 drove here and stayed . well we went into the movie "open water" but then they threw us out cuz we were underage or sum shyt . so we left the theater cuz there was nuffin else betta to see . so we stayed by the guys car and were wondering what to do . so we sat in the car and listened to music and like 3 min. later he's pulling out of the parking spot and he's like " lets go driving round" and i was panicking cuz like what if he got into a car accident or got pulled ova . and i seriously thot i was guna piss my pants literally . so i told him to turn the car around and go bak to the movies . and well my friends paretns idnt evn kno that her boyfriend was meeting us at the movies and my parents didnt evn kno i was that movies and so he turned bak and dropped us off and we got ou and sat ona bench , and then they take off in the car and ditch us .but i feel rly bad lying and sneaking around like that cuz i nevr usually do that stuff , so i can i get guilt this guilt off my chest?????? it means A LOT to me whatevr ur answer is cuz nethng wuld work right now. thanx
hey. i would just straight up and tell your parents...theres nothing better then telling them the truth and finally be free...i kno how you feel and everything so let me kno and of corse you will get punished but at least u might feel better. let me kno if u need anything else. Take Care...Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
I have 2 best friends who are leaving me out a lot lately, we used 2 b extremely tighht but now they're bein kinda mean. One of them is very controlling and the other is a follower so the follower follows the controller and they do stuff against me. I really hate it. I always feel like the second choice or the third wheel. What should i do... i rate high!
Hey. i would sit them down and ask them why they are being so mean lately and leaving you out. i kno i say this alot but its better to tell them straight up that you kno i feel left out and i wanna be tight with yah again...why is this happening? did i do something wrong...???and see wut they say. Take Care. Hope I helped x3 SweetStar.
I really like my best friend. He is perfect..I think so atleast =). I think he likes me too. But I'm really shy and I have decided to tell him how i feel. B/C not tellin him isnt an option nemore. My feeling are too strong. So..how should I tell him? I'm j/ really worried we wont remain friends if I tell him.. Like if he ends up NOT liking me. Thanks for your help! =)
Hey. i feel so speical that ur asking me! lol anyways okay call him or however you can get him to come over to your house or ask him to hang out just be you and him and tell him over the phone that you want to tell him something and that you have to do it now...i perfer somewhere quite like maybe if you live near a harbor/dock...someplace romantic and quite too..and be like [lets call him jim] jim i was just wondering...as friends...if i told you that i liked you how would you react? [dont say it like your nervous so it wont be obvious is you can okay?] and see what he says. and if he likes you back then congrats and you guys can kiss lol and if not then just be like ohh okay cuz i was just wondering...and see what he does then..if you need anything else let me kno. i'm forever here for yah! Take Care..I hope I helped x3 SweetStar.