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Dear fans,Im a really cool person who loves to talk and give advice.i love volley ball and soccer and im makin all As and Bs in school(finnaly)!!!i am currently single and supa excited to finnaly be in highschool!-anyway I am really good at writing and really want to wright a book but i know i dont have the patients for it. ive been through alot of stuff and im still here so im thankfull for that. i truelly hate people who constantly complain about the things they have because they want something better. Kids are much more fortunate than many people in other contries.they should be proud they have the freedom they enjoy and the beautiful life they live. i apprciate everybreath i have and every day that i am on this earth living the good life i live. heres some advice to people who need it now. if you have a problem always ask for help. dont think you can solve any problem on your own. youll just make the situation worse. also dont think less of yourself at all. some people dont understand that u are as powerful as the most powerfullest person in the world if you just beleive in yourself. feel free to ask a question because i will answer!!!!!!!!!!!! lots of luv ! peace!!!!!!!!!!
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My friend who I was extremely close, we are/were best friends. She says she is my best friend. She doesn't show it. I see her about twice a week at church. Except I went over to her house every weekend. She has gotten bossy and just hits me sometimes when she gets mad. I have talked to her about it and she said she was sorry and she didn't realize what she was doing. She is an only child and spoiled too. She is acting like that again and I have stopped hanging around with her now. We haven't hung out in awhile and I am just confused. So any help would be appreciated thanks!
i think it is best that you do sepparate yourself from that kind of person because there doing nothing to you but further agravating you.just incase you want to hang with her,what you should do is the second she hits you or makes a bossy comment or command you call her out.be like"thats exactly what im talking about right there".she says she doesnt realize that shes doing it so if you call her out at the exact time she does it she will deffinately see.if she doesnt dont let it agravate you because a person with that type of attitude is honestly not worth your time!!hope this helped and good luck!!!
Basically I was sent a text saying that My best friend didn't want to talk anymore. I was saddened its been about 4-5 months that we have not talked. Funny though because he still wears a shirt i bought him and he is always staring at me. No matter what he looks at me and last semester asked someone how i was doing. Another he told that i did a great job on my project and funny thing i was in his class. i don't know what to do.. he held the door today for me but i used the other door. im confused as to what to do...i wrote him a note but im not sure if i should even bother giving it to him somehow...or sending it via email. whats a girl to do? I miss him and I have frequent panic attacks.
-Lost Apart of My Heart
shoot you better give him that note and say the hell is up? yall cnt jus stop tlkn that is dum. if there is a reason ok. but if there isnt you beta jump on that friendship b4 it slips away
Okay, first. I am 17/f. Last October my best friend,lets call her Katie, stated dating this boy, lets call him Mike. Mike is the biggest jerk in the history of the world and he completely hates me for no reason at all. Since she fell head over heels for him we stopped hanging out and talking since then pretty much, not including the fights every once in awhile. Okay well, so. Supposedly they’re completely in love, although he calls her a slut, treats her horribly, and breaks up with her every other week. Last weekend she found out he is moving this weekend halfway across the country. Messed up, right? So, I really want to talk to her and make sure she is okay because supposedly she hasn’t eaten in days and is like totally depressed. I still love her and im really worried about her but she really hurt me when she started ditching me for mike. I want to forgive her and all and help her through this but at the same time I want her to apologize before I forgive her. I am afraid she wont apologize for awhile and when she does it will be too late for me to help her. I don’t know what to do.
tell her that if she helps you then you will help her. wow she is .. well im trying not to be rude but thats like staying in an abusive relationship. when you talk to her say if i forgive you will you say im sorry. then tell her that you stil love her and 'mike' was full or it! tell her that hes just a bitch who doesnt matter especailly after treating her so low. make sure that she KNOWs that she deserves better. if that doesnt work give it 2 more tries at the most. and maybe get friends together to help. make her feel welcomed again. theres not much else. except to talk to her parents. then maybe they can get proffesional help [hopefully she wnt go that far]
but on the bright side be thankful that 'mike' is gone for her sake and yours
Okay, about a week ago. BIG DRAMA happened between me and my 2 closest friends. My 1 friend Abbie told Katie that I was spreading bad rumors about her saying that she was a slut, and has had sex. Which, I never did and I told both of them that. But, Katie dosent believe me. Then, at the lunch table, Katie was whispering to Abbie and our other friends about me. I couldnt stand it, cause they would whisper then look at me and laugh. I seriously wanted to cry. Just when me and Abbie became friends again, Katie told Abbie that I was talking shit bout her. Which, was a lie. Then, today I was reading their comments, and they were talking reallllyyyyy bad about me. It hurt alot. And, it made me really sad, I cried for bout a half an hour. I was so upset, I thought about hurting myself. I hate going to school, I want to be switched, thats how bad it is!
Please help!
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i agree with the girl underneath about the getting new friends because true friends would never do that!what you need to do first is to seirously tell them off!when there making those little comments at lucnh stand up to them!tell them if they have something to say they can say it your face and not whisper it to each other like little itches then get your stuff and go to another table !trust me it will make you feel alot better!if they continue to talk about you infront of you prtend that you dont see them laughing and looking at you!trust me that this will piss them off!if they think that you dont notice them talking about you it will bug the shit out of them!!!and please try to get new friends because life is to short to be caught in retarted drama thats only hurting you!you could be a much happier if you just learn to forget about them because there just a waste of your time!!hope this helped and goodluck!!!!!!!
My friend Meg is totally vain. Whenever she sees me in the same place she is, she gets all mad and calls me a "leech" who follows her around. She is only like this in certain occasions, and I don't want to stop being friends with her since she is nice and friendly when she isn't all mean. I get terribly offended by these names (puppy dog, leech, tick, etc.) since it isn't true. We have the same friends, and I see her and talk to her, but I don't "follow" her around. Trust me, I would be aware of it if I did. What should I do?
okay ive been through something similar to this!(trust me)!!honestly what i think you need to do is stand up to her when she says those rude comments! put her in her place! the only reason she does it is because she feels that your weak and dont have the courage to say anything back and when you dont it just makes her feel better about herself(by bringing others down)! she doesnt say those things beacuse she thinks you follow her to much...she says them to make her self look better! talking to her might help(might). but i think what you need to do is the next time she says something like that, put her in her place! if she calls you a tick tell her "well you look like a f-n tick"! i know its sounds mean but what she says is just as mean! or if you cant find it in yourself to be mean then when she says something stand up for yourself--ex.---do you think saying something like that to me is nice? because its not? you call yourself my friend but you constantly talk down to me and im tired of it! if you cant treat me with respect like a real friend would then i personally dont think we should be friends!!! i deffinately think that will make her aware of what shes doing and she will stop...but if she doesnt you really need to stop hanging around her because if a person who calls herself your frined constantly calls you rude names she isnt worth a minute of your time!!! well hope this helps!!!
sorry i dont know what category to put it in
im having a movie night tomorrow
what are some fun things we can do
we have a pool table so we're gonna play pool and stuff but any other suggestions?
truth or dare is always fun! hide in seek neva gets old to me! you could go outside and play flashlight tag at night! thats real fun! you could hav a dance contest! or maby do sum prank calls! but be carefull who you prank call(you could prank call your parents)lol!!!or there is a game where every1 sits in a circle and you make a sortof beat like(clap clap snap snap)! and u pick a category like(all the boys in your school-all the girls in your school and you could do that in alphabetical order! then you all do your beat and one by one you go around the circle saying what ever the category is and you keep goin around till sum1 takes more then 4 seconds to giv an answer!(example)--category!(boys that names start with the letter B)the first person would say---bob then the next person would say billy and then the next person would say brian ext.-- and you keep goin around until sum1 takes more then4 seconds to giv an answer! when that happnes that person is out and you keep the game goin! it doesnt matter what kinda categories you decide to choose! be creative with it and have fun! hope this helped! and i hope you have fun!!!
well, i'v lost many friends lately. But it seems like i'v lost all of them because of my boyfriend. eithier one of my friends tryed to do stuff with my boyfriend or they went back n told him something i didnt want them too.Now this really isnt the problem i just have a hard time gaining friends, im a shy person once you meet me n i just need advice on how to be more open to people so i could make new friends. Thanx to any1 who helps
complements are always good.complement them on their clothes or anything.like heres an example-omg i love your shoes.they are hot!where did you get them.o yeah ive been there before they have some cute stuff there but have you been to*blank* they have the most cutest purses you will ever see. just an example you can use.hope this helps!good luck and dont be afraid.always think positive!TWEETY
My friends really think I've got mental problems! Not seriously, but it's getting out of hand. I have always been like a kid--- i still love cartoons, video games and i still talk like a kid when im not nervous; like if around my friends, Im completely myself. And thats always been a problem because whem Im myself, Im crazy and hyper. So lately, my friends and people i hardly know from my school are saying that I have a mental problem. I know it sounds dumb, but I hate it!
I told my friend that there is nothing wrong, and they all say they are just joking around when they say i have ADD or OCD, but the other people at my school dont know this. Sure, school is almost over, but I really dont want to continue with this stupid rumor! And I can't even set the record straight that I have no problem, because the rumor is based on how I act, which is kidishly. I really cant sit still or I play with things and I make up wacko words.
Is there a way to show, well sure, im not normal, but just not crazy? Thanks.
14/f
OK theres nothing wrong with being "crazy". sometimes im like that. just tell your friends how you feel. if they really care then theyll (at least) try to help you turn things around.
SPEAK UP
DOM
also if one of your friends started the rumor there not your friend and lastly who gives a CRAP what people think thats stupid. think about what you are saying before you let it get to you.
SMokey
I feel like lately i've lost a lot of friends for the main point that I don't really care for the things they do... I've always felt older than I actualy am and I can't really get along with most people my age... But I have trouble making friends with older people because they don't take me seriously or give me a chance because I look like i'm a 15 year old "hooligan" i suppose ((i'm 18))... Actualy, I have trouble making friends in general. Anyway, It seems like most of my "friends" have abandoned me and that has kinda made me feel a bit down lately, but the few times i've hung out with them, I just don't feel like I belong anymore. I feel left out. Everytime I feel like I actualy belong somewhere or I feel like I fit in with a group of people, it always turns out that I don't... And it's not like I start a fight or anything of that sort... I just never feel like I belong.
Personaly, and not to sound cockey, but I like my personality and the way I am and i'm not the type to change just so I can fit in with a bunch of kids... But a part of my personality is that I like people and I just get down easily when I'm alone.
There's no direct question, Just want some opinions on any of this or advice.
Thanks.
peAce
18/f
I PERSONALLY THINK THATS GOLD. THE WAY YOU DONT WANT TO CHANGE JUST TO FIT IN. THATS REALLY COOL. SOMEDAY YOULL FIND SOMEONE LIKE YOURSELF. JUST TALK TO A LOT OF PEOPLE AND YOULL FIND YOUR FRIEND.
PS: have you read the outsiders? thats a great book. or maybe youve read the poem "nothing gold can stay" thats where i got stay gold from.
STAY GOLD!!!DOM