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Backstabbing
Okay, about a week ago. BIG DRAMA happened between me and my 2 closest friends. My 1 friend Abbie told Katie that I was spreading bad rumors about her saying that she was a slut, and has had sex. Which, I never did and I told both of them that. But, Katie dosent believe me. Then, at the lunch table, Katie was whispering to Abbie and our other friends about me. I couldnt stand it, cause they would whisper then look at me and laugh. I seriously wanted to cry. Just when me and Abbie became friends again, Katie told Abbie that I was talking shit bout her. Which, was a lie. Then, today I was reading their comments, and they were talking reallllyyyyy bad about me. It hurt alot. And, it made me really sad, I cried for bout a half an hour. I was so upset, I thought about hurting myself. I hate going to school, I want to be switched, thats how bad it is!
Please help!
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what you are going through should not happen to anyone, and you just have to really stay strong. just stick to being you, who cares what they say, if anyone asks you about it or if it is true, just tell the truth. Just keep being yourself, and try not to let it get to you. Think about all the possitives in life. they are just jealous of you, thats all. and they are trying to higher themselves by bringing you down, and dont let them. Dont show people what you are feeling, go on as they dont even exist. you can make it through this. also, surround yourself with other friends, and hang out with them over the weekends. Stay strong.
GoOd LuCk!!!
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i agree with the girl underneath about the getting new friends because true friends would never do that!what you need to do first is to seirously tell them off!when there making those little comments at lucnh stand up to them!tell them if they have something to say they can say it your face and not whisper it to each other like little itches then get your stuff and go to another table !trust me it will make you feel alot better!if they continue to talk about you infront of you prtend that you dont see them laughing and looking at you!trust me that this will piss them off!if they think that you dont notice them talking about you it will bug the shit out of them!!!and please try to get new friends because life is to short to be caught in retarted drama thats only hurting you!you could be a much happier if you just learn to forget about them because there just a waste of your time!!hope this helped and goodluck!!!!!!!
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im so sorry whats happened with your friends. i dont think that going to another school would help you any though becuase it would be considered "running away from your problems" even though that may seem like a sweet escape youll never get anywhere in life and things will just get worse. as for your friends, let them know how hurt you are and if that doesnt work- get new friends, no one deserves to be treated like that.
it may sound harsh but i know how bad stuff like this hurts... hope things work out for you..
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