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HEY THIS IS HAILEY! I AM 13 AND I'M IN THE 8TH GRADE. I'M ALSO ON THE BETA CLUB, EVEN THOUGH I NEVER HAD STRAIGHT A'S; I GUESS THEY JUST LIKED ME. I HAVE 1DOG, 2CATS, AND 1PARAKEET. I LOVE TO GIVE ADVICE BUT IF I DONT UNDERSTAND THE PROBLEM, OR WHAT U WROTE, THEN U JUST MIGHT HAVE TO ASK SOMEONE ELSE. NOW U KNOW A LITTLE BOUT ME, SO START ASKING AWAY!
~~~~~~~~~HAILEY~~~~~~~~~~

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whenever a guy likes me or just thinks im hott my friend gets wicked jealous, because one guy that she though was cute asked me out,now whenever she sees someone whos hott she tells me not to steal him from her. its really startin to piss me off and iv tried talkinmg to her about it, and now she wants me to help her get a boyfriend, but its really hard because boys arent that into her because shes a little overweight and not that pretty(o my god i sound so mean), but what should i do?

Take her shopping and buy things to make her look thinner and help her with makeup. Then play matchmaker, get a guy for her, and she should leave you alone. But warning, if it doesn't turn out to well with them she will probably blame you for setting her up with him. So just make sure they like the same things that way they won't get bored with eachother.
Hope I helped.
~~~~~~hailey~~~~~~

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I'm moving from a really small school to a huge public middle school (7th grade) and i am so worried about not knowing anyone. and cliques will have already been formed. Plus i have acne do you think that will lessen my chances of making friends?

Matters who you are trying to make friends with. People who care about who they are seen with most likely will ignore you. People who don't care will help you and be your friend. If you want to be friends with the second type of person just say hi to someone and introduce yourself (it would help if they have a cool bag or shoes ask them where they got it, or ask where so-and-so's room is).
Hope I helped.
~~~~~~~~hailey~~~~~~~~~

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im going in to my sophmore year and we got our schedules yesterday. last year i got in a big fight w/ one of my best guy friends, he blocked me on aim and swore hed never speak to me again (the fight was over something stupid that makes absolutely no sense so im not really mad at him) anyways, i was talking to some of my friends and they told me that hes in my chemestry class. what do i do? i have about 3 other friends that i kno of in that class so its not like ill be forced to speak to him but do you think i should say anything to him? or just let him stay mad at me. i hate that we arent talking weve known each other since 6th grade! thanks so much

Just say sorry to him before class starts, that way he can think. Sometimes it's best just to say sorry, even if it was over something stupid.
Hope I helped.
~~~~~~~~~hailey~~~~~~~

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Hey yall. Well, I'm 14/f and I'm not so good on the whole introduicng yourself thing. If anybody could tell me the good way to introduce myself to someone, what to say, and what topics to talk about in a conversation so that I don't sound stupid would be great. I really want to make good friends this summer, but I just need the right start. Thanks!

I went through the same thing the other day. When you meet someone just say 'Hey my name is ---.' in a cherry voice. And then do a quick once over without the other person noticing and without moving your head. If they are carrying a book ask if its interesting. If you like their shoes say so. If their hair is shiny or bouncy ask what they use. That type of thing.
Hope I helped.
~~~~~~~hailey~~~~~~~~

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Hey i have a friend. That won't let me read a book that she reads it's a special type of book i want to read it but i don't want to hurt her feelings what should i do.

Just ask her what's so important about it that she won't let you read it. I mean you are friends and friends should be able to show and tell eachother anything. But, honestly, if she doesn't want you to see it it might be for a good reason, or just personal.
Hope I helped.
~~~~~~~~~~hailey~~~~~~~~~~

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I have a secret crush and she dosent know it, or at least i dont think she does, she has a bf and she really likes him, i have had a crush on her for awhile even before her bf but i had a gf at that time, should i try to go for it or leave her alone?

I think you should let her notice you. Talk to her some and always look her in the eye. Don't try to hard or to fast. Let her decide who she wants.
~~~~~~~~~hailey~~~~~~~~~

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I'm a married man. I used to have a group of female friends in high school and they recently contacted me. I want to see them, but my wife would probably not want me to. Should I see them secretly, ask my wife and respect her wishes, or tell my wife and do as I please? We are just friends.

Well are your friends married? If so ask your wife if she wants to come with you to see some old high school buddies of yours. Maybe go out for dinner and a drink.. But whatever you do don't go behind her back and see them. She'll find out one way or another and think it was more than a reunion.
~~~~~~~~hailey~~~~~~~

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