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Hello, My name is... Michelle!Ive been through a lot,so i know different stuff and could prolly give you some sort of advice.
Ive been through:eviction,my father leaving, 5 dads/wanna be dads,drugs,smoking,alcohol, best friends having babies,cheating,love triangles, sex buddies, family/friends deaths, abuse, stress, sicknesses, bi friends,miscarriage,etc. etc.
I love to laugh.Sometimes I cry, and I'm not always sure why. I love to have friends, but only few are real. I hate a lot of people, yet I'm nice to everyone. I try to figure things out, but yet I get nothing.I love being right. But always wrong. I love being close to people. but yet I'm so far.I tell myself things. and never do them. I know who I am. But not enough.
I lie to cover the pain. But it's revealed by honesty. I get away with too much. I'm always so messy.And my room is too.This is my life.
And I like this way.
Ask me anything because even if I'm not sure I'll try my best to help you and I'll let you know in my answer if I'm not sure!
I'm very wierd!or according to most people I am. I consider myself wierd too so its all good.
*Michelle*
advice
when im with my group with my good friends they wont able to tell that im sad, but when im with my new friend she knows when im actually sad or im just being quiet why is that? i just lie to her that im just tired when im sad since i dont like talking about my feelings but whenever im sad but tries to keep it to myself she seems to find it and asks me whats the matter, how can she able to tell? it makes me want to tell her whats wrong but i just cant trust people. She makes me want to put my guard down but im scared.
A girl like her is a good friend to have.
Tell her how you feel, if she's really a good friend she'll be understanding and maybe even help you through it and maybe eventually you'll be able to put your guard down.
the people you love hurt you the most & you always hurt the people you love..it happens. you can't control it. don't be afraid to be hurt because you never know how it could turn out in the end..it could end up being something amazing. :) good luck
im female, 15. my friend is 16. ok well there is this guy. we were 'talking' before but i decided i wanted to stay just friends. firstly, because my best friend used to like him, and secondly i like good boys and id always be worried about him. he does like weed and stuff. anyways all he mostly talks about is weed and drugs. like i kno what all that stuff is, i dont. but i dont like it. and ive told him before that i dont kno wat they are. theres a hint i dont like it. well he sees nothing wrong with it of coarse. so what are some topics to get him off of that subject. or a way to help me get him off of it by talking to him. he honestly has probably heard it a thousand times that he shouldnt do it. so talking about him quitting wont help. also his family knows he does it. and his friends do it as well so i see it as impossible. just help me on how to change the topics or just anything. please! and im not gunna call the law on him or tell him to go to a doctor or therapist, just because it wont work.
A lot of people do and try drugs, its kinda natural. especially to try them around your age (i say that like im so much older than you & im really not.lol!) but anyways, im not saying its a good idea to go try drugs or anything, but people do it, its something you just kinda deal with in life..if I was you id just tell the guy that you do not want to talk about drugs so yall need a new topic or a change of topic. & if he is not willing to do that then you just need to lose him.
okay i have a new *guy* friend and i like him alot. but yesterday i saw the old *guy* friend yesterday for the first time in 6months and my feelings for him came back stronger than ever b4. well my new and old guy friends are the same age 15 and im 16 well i have no idea who or what to do cause my old friend cried when i told him about how i like my new one and my new friend got mad when i told him bout my old....someone help me please
Do what you feel is right, because if you try to please everyone else you will end up hurting them, and yourself. Try even make a pros and cons list about them so you know who you like and what you like about them or your dislikes..that might help.
good luck! :)
my friends mom is having triple bypass surgery because shes a heavy smoker. my friend is tryin to be there for her but shes already told him that its going to be impossible for her to quit. hes torn apart because shes not even willing to quit even if it means her life. i dont know what to say to make him feel better i dont even know if theres anything i can do to help i just feel so bad cause he cares about her so much and she could careless if she died or even saw him graduate
Let him know your there for him when ever he needs some one.. Pray for,if your religious, and let him know your going to pray for her.
That's what I do when some thing happens to my friends. It may not work, I'm not sure.. Just let you friend know your there for him.
Theres this girl that talks to me ALOT when ever i see her she says hi and talks. Then in gym today she ask if i wanted to play football and stuff. I like her alot. But she alerdy has a boyfriend. So does she like me?
I do the same thing with a guy in my gym class. and i was falling in love with him as well as my boyfriend. so she might actually like you and her b/f at the same time,it is possible.
or
she really might like you.
or
then again she might be just using you to make her b/f mad.
The fact that she wants to play football with you and talk to you sounds like she is flirting with you.
But there isnt really enough information here to tell you though.
Hope i helped some. feel free to ask questions about it.cuz i did it to a guy while dating my boyfriend,but did/am with my b/f. so i might have insight on what she is doing.if any of this makes sense.
Ok, please hear me out, and give your honest opinion.
I am a male in high school and am a straight guy. But there is this one kid that I can't get off my mind.
He is a very good looking guy and he's not mean or anything, I just feel like I want to talk to him all the time and be with him. But every time that we talk I feel like I'm the one that keeps starting conversations and he never starts them..
I don't think I 'like' him, I'm not sure.
Like for example, he's a trouble maker but not a bad one, and every time he does something stupid, I'm always the one to look at his gorgeous eyes and smile and his smile is so awesome I can't even describe it. And the way he smiles at me I feel like there's something more.. but I'm not sure. :(
So as I said, I'm not gay, but I just want to bring up this relationship as friends and see where that goes.
How can I get him to talk to me more?
We talk on AIM, Facebook, MySpace, but we end up just running out of things to talk about..
ALSO! How can I get him to talk about his life? Like what can I say to him that will get him talking about himself personally.
Thanks!
-AJ
PS: I'm 15 and he's 14, we're both in the same grade.
You might be striaght and gay,Bi. You might just be figuring it out. Either way your normal.
It sounds to me like you like this guy, but i may be wrong you may just be friends.
Here are some suggestions on what to take about: (these are random but you get to learn about the person)
*Do you like answering questions to kids?
*Can you tell me in a few seconds what is a brick useful for?
*Do you consider yourself a happy person because you’ve met me?
* How can you describe yourself in a sentence?
*What would you like to change about yourself or me?
*Who is your favorite storybook or movie character?
*Who is your hero?
*If, like milk or the newspaper, you could have anything of your choice delivered to your doorstep every morning, what particular item would you want it to be?
*What’s the absolute all-time worst/best movie you’ve ever seen?
*If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?
If you want more questions to ask i can always think of more.
Hope I helped some.
If you got any other questions you wanna ask go ahead and ask away.
you see i just created a new myspace. btw, im 13/f. last year i made one but deleted it before the school year so i wouldnt get distracted. theres this girl, i've known her since like.. 4th grade, and we've been friends since then. this year (well it just ended for summer) i was in 7th. so yeah, like 3 years. when i wasnt in her pod for 5th and 6th grade, she was more friendlier with me. it was like we were still good friends though we didnt see each other often. she even invited me to her sleepover bday party in 5th grade though i couldnt go, cause my parents wouldnt let me. but in 7th grade it was different. in the beginning of the year it was the same like the other years but it progressed and it was like she was less interested in really being my friend, as i saw it. she'd share secrets with other friends and stuff, and wouldnt hang around me as much. i'd hang around her, but it was like.. she was half-interested in me. when i made my myspace before we were on each other's Top friends list. but this year, at the end of the year she had another sleepover party but she didnt invite me! i asked her if i was invited and she said it was for close friends only. i didnt show her how i felt, but i felt hurt cause i've been a good friend to her and i've known her longer than some of the people she considered as "close friends". and in my new myspace, i asked to be on her top and shes like "ummm.. no your not going on my top" and idk if its just me, but it sounded really snotty and that kinda ruined my mood for the rest of the day. cause i put her on my top... and yeah. and my other friend, we all knew each other in 4th grade too, shes not even in our pod but she got invited to the sleepover party and is 3rd on her top friends list. i dunno what i did wrong.. or is she just a friend i should drop? cause im not sure.. i dont like losing friends but i dont like being friends with people who dont act like friends should. or am i overreacting? also, i havent replied to her "umm no your not going on my top" comment yet.. i dunno what to reply! should i just be like "thanks, but no thanks" or "okay.." or "are you mad at me or something?" cause this is really hard to do. =(
She sounds like a **bad word**! I think the best thing to do is ask her why she has been acting that way.
And your not overreacting.
**I wouldnt get to be too close to her because she could turn on you though-its not fun when its your best friend who knows everything!
I'm just sayin because you could get hurt.
And since she has been a friend for awhile I would try to remain friends with her but if she does it again shes not worth it!
Hope I helped! And sorry if I didnt.