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how do i...??
im female, 15. my friend is 16. ok well there is this guy. we were 'talking' before but i decided i wanted to stay just friends. firstly, because my best friend used to like him, and secondly i like good boys and id always be worried about him. he does like weed and stuff. anyways all he mostly talks about is weed and drugs. like i kno what all that stuff is, i dont. but i dont like it. and ive told him before that i dont kno wat they are. theres a hint i dont like it. well he sees nothing wrong with it of coarse. so what are some topics to get him off of that subject. or a way to help me get him off of it by talking to him. he honestly has probably heard it a thousand times that he shouldnt do it. so talking about him quitting wont help. also his family knows he does it. and his friends do it as well so i see it as impossible. just help me on how to change the topics or just anything. please! and im not gunna call the law on him or tell him to go to a doctor or therapist, just because it wont work.
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Well I see it as... If your such a good friend to him, then you will force him to receive help with his drug probelm.
You will eventually wish that you had of helped him when he ends up in jail or worse... dead!!
This is serious and it does happen!! Ignoring it will only encourage him! Your not a friend at all if you don't help him! That's all I have to say about this!!
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A lot of people do and try drugs, its kinda natural. especially to try them around your age (i say that like im so much older than you & im really not.lol!) but anyways, im not saying its a good idea to go try drugs or anything, but people do it, its something you just kinda deal with in life..if I was you id just tell the guy that you do not want to talk about drugs so yall need a new topic or a change of topic. & if he is not willing to do that then you just need to lose him.
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