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Hey*My name is Erika
and I am 14 years old
and I am now officially a Freshman at West!
I am so happy!
Any-WayZ*
There are so many different things going on during school and conflicts that I have to deal with!
I have experiance with most of the things ya'll are asking about!
I hope I can help you!
Dont be scared to ask me about anything! *Seriously!* :)
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ok my best friend called my boyfriend gay the other day, i got really upset because i like him alot. so me and my best friend got into a little fight. now she's been acting different. Whenever i have a boyfriend she never gets along with them, they always endup fighting and soon it ends mine and my boyfriends relationship. what do I do?
Tell your friend that you really didnt like that tOo much and that you shoud really get along cuz either way sumthing is really gunna get damaged... just let your feelings out and if she was a good friend she would understnad your point of view... hope i helped at least a little!
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Okay, I have this friend, and he's a boy, I'm a girl. I just want to be good friends, but I know (well I guess I don't really know, but I strongly think)that he wants to be more than just friends. And I can't take that. I mean, what would happen if he asked me out and I'd have to say no? What would that do to our friendship....? Do you think I'm leading him on my being his friend? Please, I need help!
no way are you leading him on! And I am jsut tryin to be homest I think he will act weird around you for a while of he does ask you out and say no* I know this from experiance and I said no and now he like doesnt like me n e more... sorry if this is bad advice*
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My best friend and i are really really close at home... but not at school... she kinda ignores me. Its not as bad this year as it was last year... but it makes me feel really bad. I've tried to talk to her, but she just ignores it. Maybe i'm pmsing or something.... i don't know... advice would be great though!
ok*
Some times in school friends back off of other friends becuz they want some space to make new friends and maybe her new friends dont like you or they just dont know you. You know that sort of thing. Not that your a bad person or n e thing but yea... thats might be whats goin on!
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theres this guy who really likes me n stuff and i think i like him too but one of my best friends really likes him and doesnt want me to go out with him which i can understand cuz she like loves him. but hes always like ur so much hotter than her and ur kooler than her and i like u better n stuff like that so i feel bad and i dont want to hurt my friend so im not gonna go out with him. im making the right decision right?
thanx sorry its kinda long
ok... Tell your friend how you feel but there are some things that are meant to happen. I really dont think that you should put your love life on the line b/c of one of your friends... she may be your best friend... but look at all the other ppl in your town, school or wherever... they may like him tOo... Good luck and bye*
I always feel left out and out of place and I always wonder what life would be like without me. I know I have friends who love me but I always end up thinking what would happen if i died... would it make a big difference? I especially wonder what my ex-boy friend would say ... I just want to feel needed, someone who will love me back ... some how when i have a boy friend or someone close to me i feel like i have a purpose ... is that normal ... to want to be needed?
Totally normal! I feel like that all the time. Even when I dont have a boyfriend and my guy friends like this guy nick or tony hug me or something it makes me feel like if they let me go I would fall and break to pieces. I love that feeling ang that feeling is totally normal!
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All my friend has been doing lately is complaining. Not to be stuck up or anything but things are going a little better for me than they are for her lately and shes tryen to bring me down with her so we can share being upset all the time . On the fone she doesnt stop complaining I just want to hang up on her. I dont want to be rude to her about this but im just so sick of listening to her complain. PLEASE help!
I would just tell her the truth... but this used to happen to me and I didnt say n e thing... but i should have... so since I didnt say n e thing I would try and give her something to NoT complain about... maybe she needs sumthing happy in her life... be a friend! bye*
im invited to my one friend's party next month. and my exbest friend is going to be there, and she is really mean to me, she says mean things about me and hurts my feelings and posts mean things on my site, so i really dont feel like seeing her at the party. i know i should still go cause its the right thing to do but please understand that im so scared and i dont want to have to deal with her cause i'll cry if she makes me feel uncomfortable. so how do i break it to my friend whose having the party that i cant go, without saying its because of my exfriend?
Just make up sumthing or tell your mom/dad to say you cant go cuz you have sumtihgs to do... and work from there! Be creative! Good luck! bye*
..okay i know this is really long but i really need advice!! well this girl is one of my best friends..she tells me everything..well about a month ago she told me she was going anerexic, because she thinks shes fat! She is really skinny..!! I told her not to because she is really skinny and that is sooo unhealthy..and its stupid! She doesnt believe me whenever i say shes skinny..she just thinks im being nice whenever im really not! Everyday at lunchtime she would get a bottle of water..and if one of the teachers made her eat she would go to the bathroom and throw up! One day i followed her without her knowing. Well I didnt know what to do so I went to the guidence counsler..and told him what was going on..well he called her mom..but didnt say i said anything. i am not sure what her mom said.. so my friend found out it was me because i was the only one who she told. and i didnt know that! so she got mad at me and i appologized and we made up..and today in school she said she was doing it again?!??!?! i have talked to her a million times but its not working! i dont know what to do! i already told the consler the last time she did it..what should i do?! please help!!
ok... I have a friend tha tis balimic (i cant spell it) but I think you should just forget it all and get into it! You wanna help her and I know it may have consequences but istead of the counslers callin her mom why dont you go and talk to her mom so you can both help her out. Tell me how things go! bye*
My friend has a heart condition that she hides from just about every one of her friends except for me. The problem is that she is kind of a party girl. She smokes about a pack a day, gets high about twice a week during the summer and once a week during the school year and she drinks excessively on a very frequent basis. I've really really considered doing a few things but I have encountered so many problems. The first thing is that she absolutely doesn't want to quit even though it could kill her. Her mind set is that if she doesnt live til the age when fun switches from getting messed up, playing football in the rain and then having sex with your latest boy toy, to sipping tea and knocking a tennis ball back and forth, then she's not missing out on too much. Unfortunately for me, I kind of agree with her about that. Anyways, the last time one of her friends talked to her about it she quit talking to him and now will rarely even answer the phone when he calls. Another problem is that she lives 1600 miles from me and I only spend 3 weeks a year with her this year, though im currently saving up $1200 to go see her and my buds there this winter, so I cant really talk to her face to face. I would tell her best friend but she made me absolutely promise not to mention her heart condition to him, so I'm not sure what to do. The rate she's going a person without her condition would die around 40, and with her mind set, I could accept that, but if she doesnt quit soon she could die before I even get to see her again, and to be honest, that scares me so horribly that it was all I could do to write this. Thank you for any advice you might have.
Hey*
That must really hurt. I think yOu shouldnt try to talk to her about it. Go to a Higher place in mind and talk to her parents,a counsler, or sum1 that could help her. She most likly will get mad at yOu look at wuts goin on? She is majorly hurting herself. I would rather have her mad at me then to have her hurt herself. Try sum things out... I hope she doesnt hurt herself... keep in touch and tel me how things work out. bye*
.:*Erika*:.
I'm 15 years old & get very jealous of my best friend's other friends. I've known her forever and I'm always scared some other girl is going to come along and become her new best friend. It's happened before and it wasn't that great. So now she has this new friend who's taking up all her time & she doesn't even know her that well! I feel like I'm 2nd to her & I'm so left out. Everytime I try to talk to her about it she says I'm being silly or whatever. I don't know what to do or say anymore!
Omg! I have the same feeling with alot of my friends. I always think that when my friend meetes another friend she is gonna leave me out and I think on of my friends just did that to me. I think we should just hoipe for the best and try to keep in contact with them. I hate when they are silly but you gotta try.