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see the thing is i have alot of friends but not one best friend i can do everything with. i want my one friend to be my bff but i dunno how, its really confusing and even tho i have friends i feel so alone.....help please
call up one and try to spend more time with them... more bonding time will bring you too closer together and better friends
ok so for the 4th im going to this crazy party..there will be alcohol..firewors..etc. of course we dont want any of our parents to come pick us up from this party because we will be too tipsy plus it will be too late...we are thinking of calling a taxi to take us home..my dad works the nightshift so he wont be home and my mom almost always falls asleep early..do you think if we had the taxi drop me off at the bottom of the hill from where i live ( a country road) and turn its headlights off so nobody will be awaken by me..think it wwill work out? if my mom is laying in bed and is awake by chance..and she asks why im home so late i can just say because my friends family were out at this 4th of july fireworks display 45 minutes away and thats why im late (1 am im thnkin of being home)
tips on staying calm when tipsy?
tips on not drinking too much? i just wanna get a lil buzzed
if you dont like my plan what is yours?
It sounds like it should work.. i've snuck out and stuff before.. never got caught! always have a "back up" line.. and u do so thats good. Drink half of what your gonna.. or dont drink hard alcohol.. when you go home shoiwer right away too to sober up!
ok my friend amber asked me to go on a cruise with her..so at first i was thinking "omg! this is so great!!! i wanna go soooo bad!" so i told her i would. now that the cruise is getting closer and closer...i'm having some serious second thoughts. i always get homesick - i can bairly get through a single sleepover without crying myself to sleep. i seriously need my own bed..and now that my dad is sick i really dont want to leave (he needs surgery but it stubbern and refuses to get it!)! now im having these thoughts more and more and im totally freaking out..its for 4 days and i need advice like i need oxygen! PLEASE HELP!
Omg no cruises are so much fun.. i just got back from one.. i've gone one about 7 of them..it's a diff feeling then home but you'll be having so much fun the time will go bye so fast! I am the same way.. I don't spend the night at my friends houses.. GO US! haha but birng some things to make you feel at home.. maybe your pillow or a stuffed animal .. it's not that long of a cruise.. trust me.. you'll be glad you went on it cuz it's a good memory!
how do you know if a girl is lying to you like when you ask them out and they say something. How do you know if they are telling the truth or lying to make you feel better??
You just gotta go by how they act.. if you ask then out and they say yes and like ignore you.. obv it isnt working out so she was just saying it! get to know someone alot so you'll be able to tell when someone is lying! oxo
i have this best friend and i like him alot but he doesnt like me and like everytime he does something and i get mad he says something real sweet and i wanna like him more and like he doesnt wanna go with me cuz he doesnt like me im so love struck what do i do???
o0o0o I hate these types of situations.. I know just how you feel. If he doesn't like you don't give up cuz maybe he just doesn't like you know. Stay close friends with him and flirt alot and see if he flirts back. If he does, make a move, if he doesn't it wasn't meant to be.. sucks but its true :D
Anyone have any ideas on how to throw a party when your parents arent home, and what can we do? and not get caught And have fun!? i rate!!
-Andrea
Hmm well I got invited to this one party(it was a jello wrestling party) and I was gonna go with some friends but the cops showed up cuz a teacher got ahold of the flyers and there was gonna be alcohol.. sooooo if you advertise it do it carefully and you can like.. dance and listen to music but me and friends always end up playing truth or dare and like ding dong ditch.. haha we are such girls but hey.. its fun :D
I have two best buds, but they treat me like a third wheel! Whenever ones not somewhere, THEN the other one actually treats me normaly. Then my other bb comes back and there like..who are YOU again? I've tried talking to them, and they say they'll change, but they never do. And don't tell me to dump them.
No don't dump them.. you could become better friends with each if you invite them out just you and one of them to get to know they better. They'll see what your like just one on one and they'll thinm your cool. Then just invite the other one out!
i really need help please help me. ok here's the story..ok me and my friend were just getting tyte we were doing a lot of stuff together and we told eachother everything and then she goes to our other friends house that she didn't like too much and then she comes home and then all the sudden they're best friends so the other friend kinda took my place. and i'm soo sad i think i lost my BEST friend! i don't know what to do cause i can't talk to her bout it i've never been good at that i freak out and i just can't do it. and i cried when i found out that she took my place! please help i dunno what to do!!??
How do you she "took your place" for sure? Maybe your friend just wants to meet other people. I'd say get to know the other girl so you will all three become bff.. the more the better. I am sure you didn't loose her. If it's bugging you so bad call up your friend and invite her to the mall or something to do hang out and stil show her you wanna be bff! Rate me plz xoxo goodluck!
I have a lot of guy friends and my mom hates that. Bcuz i dont have very many girl friends. I have maybe 2 or 3 that go to my school. So my mom is a lil worried that a have to many guy friends and im spending to much time with guys im mean im not a tom-boy im really a prep but ever since last year i hav had a bad rep bcuz i made-out with this guy a lot. So not many girls wanna be my friend for some reason. How can i tell my mom that Boys are the only friends that i have. Or how can a bcome friends with girls?
-CutieT-
Well there got to be ONE girl that likes you. Forget about what people think about you and go talk to some girls and if they give you the cold shoulder, go to some other girls. Just simply tell your mom that you get along best with the guys and thats who you feel comfortable around. Rate me plz and goodluck xoxox!
ok i have a friend and i just found out friday that his step, brother who was 16 died. and i felt really bad and i wanted to call him and just talk to him. and im not sure if its to early to call. like im not sure if i should wait atleast a week to call and see if hes ok. what should i do
You could call but becareful how you word and and don't ask to many questions about it. Let him talk to you about it. That might help him cope with it knowing that you care. Goodluck and rate me plz xoxxo!
my friends r mad at me and i do not know what to do they say i need to shut the F*** up but i have not talked to them and my other friends go online as my best friends name and sends me rude messages what should i do
That's not cool at ALL! Ignore them..block them so they cannot get to you. If they know your getting hurt by it then they are winning.. show them you don't care and don't want anything to do with them. Rate me plz and goodluck xoxox!
i think that im kind of annoying to my friends. i always want to do something different, and sometimes i bug them too much about something. its the way i am, and sometimes its hard 4 me to be different. i have alot of friends, because my nature is 2 be nice, but if i know some1 for a long time i tend to get like this. what should i do?
AHH I thought the same thing about myself towards my friends.. but whenever i felt like talking I just thought "is it really important that I say that.. or can I hold it to myself." Rate me plz and im sure your nice! :D
my best friend has a crush on this guy but the problem is he has a girlfriend! he is only telling my best friend that he loves her and shit because she will do "stuff" with him that his gf wont do! i dont want my best friend to be a slut and especially with a guy that already gave his heart away!
That's not fair to his gf.. tell him that. That isn't right at all.. to go behind her back to find someone more willing. I would just tell him that.. rate me plz and good luck!
my friend atdance brags all the time. she say how good she is and shows off all the time. if i get complimented and she doesn't, she tells ME i'm a show off... what can i do to tell her to stop??
When she says your a show off, remind her of the last time she bragged about how good she was. Or everytime she brags, call HER a show off! Rate me plz!
hey k so my boyfriend smokes and when he came back from thedoctor he said that if he smoked again hed die right there and then , he keeps wanting to smoke each night how can I get him to stop and hes 15, need help fast
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Addictions are impossible to stop by yourself. You need to get him a doctor or a professional who can give him other ideas inseard of smoking! ACT FAST..FIND A PHYCOLOGIST! rate me plz and GOOD LUCK!
Hey ok so I have this really good friend lets say his name is (Shane). and Me and my friend like him and I kinda think he likes me,?, so when were alone we are really loveable , but when my other friend is around, we act like just friends to not let her know. What dod I do??
You two just seem shy, I'd just talk to him alone to see how he feels about you and him and maybe if he wants to takw it fartehr than do so! But make sure to talk to him ALONE! Hope I helped rate me plz!
"i care bout u and i like u...and if u dont feel the same way bout me then f*** it...we'll be friends" my friend just sed that to me and idk wut to say. cuz remember how i sed that i think i liked guy1 and guy2 well this was guy3. the guy i didnt like. and im scared to say sry i dont like u cuz i know that hell take it personally. i would talk to my other friends about this but they r not on and tomorrow they have a bball tourney. please help and answer asap cuz idk how long i can keep from not saying anything...thanx ..me...:(
All I can think of is.. only go for the guy you like and dont worry about other guys or its gonna get to confusing and just tell him straight up!!
hey. i have no friends becuz my x best friend got the whole elementry school on me becuz i talked to her boyfriend on the phone becuz i asked him wut the homework was. i have no life. wut should i do?
Ahh that's to bad she did that! Don't worry, I am sure someone likes you.. not everyone can hate you!
I'm 15 right now and I'll be 16 this September. I am fixing to start high school 9th or 10th not sure since I was getting homeschooled. I want to go back to normal school though. Ok so I know I'm like all pretty and I have no problems with the way I look. So see the problem is girls have a problem with me. They are all like wanting to kick my but and crap for no reason and saying crap like "oh get a tan" and blah. What should I do? I think girls are totally jealous of me. I am afraid of going back to school because I wanna stay out og trouble now. Basically I'm wanting to go back to school to get friends and stuff. Since I'm getting homeschooled I lost all of mine. I am thinking about getting a job this year maybe I'll meet people then. What would u do?
Don't listen to what girls say.. we are jealous of every single girl who we think looks prettier than us haha! And ya I would get a jobb to meet people!AND JOIN CLUBS AT SCHOOL TO MEET ALOT OF PEOPLE!! hehe well goodluck rate me plz!
A girl just moved in across the street and since its summer I'm the first person shes met. We've hung out once but now she wants to hang out everyday. The problem is shes really annoying and I really don't want to hang out with her. I feel bad for having to make up lies about why I can't go over to her house. But is there anyway I can give this girl a hint?
Just tell her that you really enjoy hanging out with her but you do have a life and you can't be with her everyday. She should understand. But make it clear that you DO enjoy hanging out with her to make her happy. Rate me plz!