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cruise blues
ok my friend amber asked me to go on a cruise with her..so at first i was thinking "omg! this is so great!!! i wanna go soooo bad!" so i told her i would. now that the cruise is getting closer and closer...i'm having some serious second thoughts. i always get homesick - i can bairly get through a single sleepover without crying myself to sleep. i seriously need my own bed..and now that my dad is sick i really dont want to leave (he needs surgery but it stubbern and refuses to get it!)! now im having these thoughts more and more and im totally freaking out..its for 4 days and i need advice like i need oxygen! PLEASE HELP!
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I would say tell your friend that you can't go.. because if for one night you cry yourself to sleep ; imagine 4 days!! And if your dads sick.. I'm sure you wanna be home with him. So I'd suggest that you not go..hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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..well maybe you should just try it and see if you like it..If you cant take it just dont do it again for a while..But if you really feel that bad about your dad maybe you should just stay home with him and take care of him..But you will always need to be able to get away from home sometime..So why not start now?
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i think you should go because a cruise sounds soooo much fun. even if you get homesick your friend will probably be able to make you feel better. and you might be having so much fun you won't have time to get homesick. hope i helped. ~Kerri~
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To Tuff in yourself up<<<<<Not trying to be mean or anything, i think you should go on the crusie, I mean i've just gotten back from one myself and i didnt go with any of my friends and it wasnt as fun as having a friend or buddy with you, Your going to Have SOOO much FUN!!! Cruises Go WAY faster than you think! Its a Blast, so be sure to go or your missing out on a Great thing!
Besides your Friend Amber would be Upset if her Friend doesnt go on this Awesome Cruise with her. You and Amber Will Build Memories from this vaction! So if you go be sure to Bring Cameras
Good Luck and if you go HAVE FUN!!!!!!
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Honestly? I think you should tRy to be faiR to youRself and go on this cRuise. This is a once in a lifetime shot foR MANY MANY people... and you and I BOTH know it sounds like a lot of fun. I think once you go, you'll pRobably be able to settle down, since they make cRuises so calming and luxuRious. HoweveR, if you simply can not mustaR up enough couRage and deteRmination within youRself to because you feel you'll Really have such a miseRable time, then don't go. It's not that big of a deal; theRe's no MAJOR pRessuRe to go, so just do whateveR you'Re comfoRtable with. :)
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Omg no cruises are so much fun.. i just got back from one.. i've gone one about 7 of them..it's a diff feeling then home but you'll be having so much fun the time will go bye so fast! I am the same way.. I don't spend the night at my friends houses.. GO US! haha but birng some things to make you feel at home.. maybe your pillow or a stuffed animal .. it's not that long of a cruise.. trust me.. you'll be glad you went on it cuz it's a good memory!
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alright take a deep breath..your gonna get through this. i really think that if you dont wanna go then dont. just tell your friend that your dad is sick and you really want to be there for him. tell her that you wanna come but you dont think you would be any fun bc you would keep thinking of your dad.
i hope your friend understands.
cookierat123
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