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i am going to see these guys tomorrow the first time since like two/three weeks and i am soo excited! but my friend is going to be there too and whenever i am with them and she is there she judges me and i don't want her to. i just want to have fun with them and do what I want. how can i make this happen without dealing wiht my friend judgeing me? (link)
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Well, i take it you have a fake friend. If she judges you infront of these guys shes most likely jealous of you. And if she cant accept the way you are, then she doesnt diserve to be your friend. Dont let her put you down for the person you are. Her judgeing you is only saying what kind of person she is.This probally sounds bad, but judge her right back, im sure she wont like it to much. Make good decisions about who you pick as your friends.
hope everything works outt.
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thnk you so much for the advice but do u think if i were to write this in the wall (i feel so special right now you want to know why??? because of the fact that sum real immature fucksz has no life that they had to write something about me on here ...oh and thnks for the drawing choke on it bitchesz ! o01) or do u think it will cause more problemsz?? (link)
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ha i say go for it!
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i mightve already wrote in another question that im recently new at this school im in right now...well i dont know every one in my grade and no offence but i dont care im cool with a little group and thats all i need well anywaysz today at school my friend came up to me and told me if i seen what some one wrote about me in the girls bath room wall. i said no that i didnt but when i went in there to check it out i saw a drawing with my name pointing at it now i know that who ever did that really has no life but its hard ignoring it right now i mean i dont know what to do ....should i find out who did it or let it go ...if i let it go they might continue cuz im doing nothing but if i do sumthing about it its not going to solve anything.....help ? (link)
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whoever wrote it was trying to get to you. Just think you must be the center of their world, they take the time to draw something about you on a bathroom wall, what imature brats. What you do, is keep your head up, and dont show it bothers you, because that whats bugs them the most!. Hope i helped.
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Alright well,
Today was an interesting day. My so-called 'best friend' has/has a huge crush on me. We went out but it didn't work out because I realized I didn't like him in that way. So later on in the month he asks me out again and I say I don't know. Thing is, I get jealous with every move he makes when it comes to talking to a different girl or something. I want all his attention on ME ME ME. It felt like I always had his attention. Ha. Well..My answer is I don't know when he asks me out, so then he's talking on the phone with another 'so-called friend' of mine and I'm asking him what he's talking about with her. All he says is, just stuff. So I believe him. But I get all out of control and start saying, 'You like her don't you?!, 'Do you think she's hot?!', 'Do you wanna date her?!', 'I swear if you date her I will never talk to you again!', 'She's so..UGH!', Then he starts saying, 'No, I have no interest in her and I don't think I will ever like her!', so I said, 'Okay, let's keep it that way!', He then said, 'Well I'm not promising anything though', and I got pretty pissed because I get jealous over him pretty easily and I don't even like him in that way but sometimes I feel like I do, I feel like he's all mine and no one else can have him, I've never been in a sitatuation like this and I started yelling at him and saying, 'Are you gonna wait for my answer?!', He says, 'Well it depends on how long it takes.' So I just starting saying weeks, months..A year and then he says, you never know. So that day had been a Sunday when I went to my grandma and grandpa's house with my family. I had been calling him all day because I was so bored, I could tell he had gotten annoyed. But he was acting really different then usuall and not wanting to talk to me. Usually when he's on the phone with someone on the other line and I call he tells that other person he's gonna talk to me. Well anyways, that didn't happen this time. I called him and he said hey can you call like later because I'm still on the phone with someone. I was wandering who he had could possibly been talking to for so long! I mean, he didn't like anyone except me that I knew of, so I asked him, 'Who are you talking to?', He said, 'A person.', God I really hated when he sad that. So I said, 'What person?', He just said, 'A person.' So I just said, 'Whatever.' So I hung up on him. I was pretty pissed off at him that day because he was totally avoiding me for no apparant reason. So the following day after that, which had been Monday, I see him at school and I give him a weird look and he raises his eyebrows at me and I wander wtf is his problem?! So I see him again and he's with one of my friends Nick and he totally ignores me when I come up to him and he just walks straight to his class and I ask him, 'Why are you ignoring me?' He says, 'I don't know..' Now I'm really ticked off. I did nothing wrong and he's acting like a total jerk to me! So then the whole day was just a blurr. Anytime I saw him he'd just give me a weird look. So then at lunch I was kind of in a bad mood and some people were wondering what was wrong with me because I couldn't get Greg off my mind. So 'Sara' asks me, 'Are you okay Jacky, what's wrong?' I swear she wouldn't leave me alone and it was just getting me more pissed off. She acts so immature and it's not like she cares about my feelings anyway, so why woder how I am?! At that point I was really pissed off and I had been having a bad day because of everything that was happening. So I walk to class in an opposite direction from the way I usually go and I see one of my best friends Courtney, she's with Greg and her bf Tommy. She comes up to me and Greg totally ignores me again! I ask him, 'Why are you mad at me?! What did I do to you?!, His response is, 'I don't know..' He never has an answer for anything and I just started getting paranoyed because when he says I don't know he thinks I already know the answer to that which I don't! Courtney was still pretty pissed at her bf because, well that's just another whole story. But by the end of the day it was still a blurr. Courtney came to my locker and we found Nick because he usually walks with us downstairs to Greg and Tommy. So Courtney, Nick and I all went to her locker and I was so pissed off I couldn't even begin. I was asking Courtney, 'Why is Greg mad at me?! Why is he ignoring me?!' She had no idea. I asked Nick and he said, 'Well he's going out with Sara and he didn't want you to know.' I was like, 'OMFG! That's it?!', At that point I was extremely furious. He said he doesn't like her and probably would never like her from what he told me on my friday. Courtney said she was really pissed at Greg but man they had no idea how fucking pissed I was. I was yelling at them because of it! I couldn't believe it! Why would Greg go out with her?! I couldn't understand. So I asked my friend for advice and she said well, when they can't have what they want sometimes they settle for less. I loved that quote because it was so true. Anyways I was yelling at them on the way downstairs and when I saw Greg with Sara I couldn't even look at them, and when I did, I laughed. I found it funny as hell for some reason. They weren't ment for each other. They're not ment to be. Greg's not right for her. Sara doesn't even like him, I know who she likes, she's just gonna end up hurting Greg. Wow was I pissed, I couldn't believe it. Courtney, Tommy and I were just talking and anytime I looked at Greg it was a horrible glare that said wtf are you looking at. Anyways I was grounded so I couldn't walk with Tommy, Greg and Courtney to Courtney's house until Thursday which sucked because I wanted to come over to see what would happen. So Courtney walked me over to Jerad and I ran into Zach. He really made my day. We walked home together. We talked and got along and stuff and I felt like I liked him and I felt like I could talk to him. So I asked, 'Would you want me to walk with you tomorrow?', And he said smiling, 'Yeah I would really like that.' So everything was horrible up until that point. God I'm just dispised and upset. I was mainly talking to Courtney, Jerad, and just all my friends about it. I know Greg asked about me because Courtney told me. Well I wonder what's ahead of me for tomorrow..Joy. What do you think I should do?
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Well, if graig was your real friend, You would be happy he was with someone who makes him happy. You are probally jealous but its understanable. But remeber you cant have him all to youself. And you gave him a reason a to ignore you so its your fault. Your threatend not to be his friend if he dated this girl. So no wonder why he didnt know. I would talk to him soon and apoligize, and tell him how you feel, before you loose a good friendship. Also, i think you should get to know this kid you were walking home with it could devlope into someting big =]. Hope your next day has less drama
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so my one "friend" pretends to cut herself.then she makes a big deal out of it when people ask to see her arms,implying that she cuts.she doesnt.she just wants people to feel bad for her.and she tells EVERYONE.from the people i know that have cut,they dont like people to know.its just really annoying because she gets all the attention for something that isnt even true.she makes tiny little marks on her arms with like paper.and then when i say that she doesnt,she gets all mad at me and says what a horrible friend i am.im not trying to be mean,but it just bugs me.how can i get her to stop being so annoying about it.oh,and another thing,whenever we get in fights,she always goes and says that she has to go because shes gonna go cut herself.how can i get her to stop?
please i need help asap.thanks. (link)
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well oviusly your friend is crying out for attention. Maybe she feels a like of attention. But tell her that its anoying and she needs to grow up, and if she thinks your horrible so be it. Or tell her parents, they will give her counciling, because ovisly she needs attention so give it to her.
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there are these two cliches and i dont know which one i should be in. the one i want to be in is the preps and stuff;but i hang out with the other because i dont know how to fit in. should i move with the one i want to be in and see what happes? what if the other gets mad and stuff? help, i hate cliches (link)
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its all stupid. you can be friends with everyone.
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There's this guy from my clique who likes to irritate me. But anyway, he makes fun of everyone. I'm rather close to him as in like I can talk to him. Both of us belong to the same clique and I guess i can talk to him pretty well as compared to the rest in my clique.
Recently, he kept criticising bout me. Whenever he knows a guy is interested in me, he'd be like "What?! He has really bad taste". There's this other guy who was interested in me and he happens to know that guy as well. So he was telling me "Ya, anyway, he has really bad taste. His favourite girls from the FHM magazine are all not nice."
And he likes to put me down, saying for eg "everyone in our class is quite pretty.. except for ___(my name)"
And when i just randomly told him that someone said i look like one of the girls from a pop group,(the girl is a tomboy) he'd say "ya , people say that you look like the ugly lesbian part of her right?"
And I'd be like OK FINE! just what the hell is your problem. Can someone tell me just what the heck is he doing cos he's really pissing me off a lot. And it's not like he's so handsome ok! He's not handsome at all! And I'll be like yeah what right do you have to criticise people's appearance. (link)
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Maybe he likes you or something. Maybe you did something to him in the past to make him mad. i would suggets you talk to him about it. hope i helped
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ok so i'm in a long distance relationship and he has not seen a pic of me but i wanted to wait cause i am a little overweight how can i loose some weight fast??? cause i really like him but i dont really think i'm pretty at all is it normal to feel this way is it just self conciousness?? how can i feel better about it??? please help me
what do i do?? (link)
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You should never get down on yourself. To boost your confidence you can write down all things you like about yourself. and this guy should like you for who you are not what you look like. But if you wanted to loose a few pounds you could drink lots of water, do crunches, go running, work tapes, eat fruits, and stay away from unhealthy greesy foods. oh and yes its normal how your feeling all girls feel that way.
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Sorry, it's long but please read anyways!
Okay, so in 8th grade, I met some of the best friends I've ever had, and in was in 7th that I met my very bestest friend in the world wide world. Basically, 8th grade was like the year we knew who we were friends with and we loved each other and were crazy and it just felt like one big party. (drama included) Not trying to brag or anything, but I had ALOT of friends. I could go to like 5 different groups of friends and fit in perfectly.
The problem? I'm going into high school next year and everyone has said that you will loose alot of your friends from middle school. This is almost definitely going to happen especialy because we are like all really different. I really want us all to stay friends. It's almost as if I can't imagine life without my friends. I know I'll make new friends and everything but does anybody have any suggestions of how I can stay in touch will them and not loose them completely?
By the way, I am pretty busy after school with cross country and horseback riding and stuff.
Oh and please do not say "if they are your true friends, you wil find a way" because I just want suggestions. Thanks! (link)
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well in 6th grade n 7th grade i had tons of friends and then i lost basically all of them, not because we lost touched but just because when you get older you realize everyone of your friends arent true to you and you dont need them, and you will realize this as you get older.
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okay so i met this kid chris. well me & chris became close & he told people that he thought something would happen between us. like get together or something. so then i go over chris's house with my friend ashley & they start talking and stuff. now he is all into her after one time meeting her. he said that same thing about something would happen between them. well ashley knows how much i like him but yet is still going along and likes him back but lies to be about it. well he kept saying he wanted her. well tonight he calls me and asks me to go over his house. well i still really like him & i want to go over i just dont know how to deal with the situation. what do i say to them? this kid is a major player so i know he doesnt mean it to either of us but ashley really believes him but i really like him. eek. help? (link)
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Its ok to be friends with him but i wouldnt get into a relationship with him. And i would warn your friend to. Hes not worth either of your guy's time i dont want anyone to get hurt.
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Ok, so my best friend is with her second boyfriend ever. The first one only lasted a couple weeks and it wasn't really serious. She has been with the one she's with now since December. Well, they are wicked, wicked serious about each other and I've come to accept that and even be happy for her because she's finally happy again. But this has kinda started to get too far. Her boyfriend asked her to marry him when they become of age and she pretty much said yes. I guess I'm kinda concerned that she's throwing her life away over her second boyfriend. But the major problem with me comes from the age. I'm only 14/f, she's same as me, and he's 15/m. It freaks out alotof our friends because true love at this age is so rare. Do I talk to her or just stay out of it? Am I just jealous? (link)
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im 13 and im in a seroius relationship, im 13 n im in love. so let her do her own thing
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Okay...So sorry if it's terribly long.
Anyways...My best friend and I found out that we weren't invited to one of our friend's parties. Let's call her Mandi. So, that kinda got us mad. Over aim, Mandi, who was having her party had up on her away message,"The fab. 5 are over!" And so, I just imed Mandi and I asked her "Who are the fab. 5?" and she replies, "Not you!" In a mean way. So we get in this huge fight. And Mandi's best friend was over there, and we shall call her Alise. So, my best friend and I are talking, "Okay, 2 of our really great friends are over there, and they aren't even trying to stand up for us, or tell Mandi and Alise that this isn't right." So we got pretty upset, because our 2 great friends told us they do stick up for us when Mandi and Alise talk bad about us.
So, my best friend and I kinda made a little vow saying that we don't need them as friends anymore, because friends don't treat their friends like that. We were never rude to any of the "Fab. 5". But later on, my best friend kinda forgave them because she's going to high school with 2 of them, and she would have to deal with them. I on the other hand, did not forgive untill many weeks later..
So, I went back to being friends with (let's call them Niki and Jane),who were the ones who didn't stick up for us, the ones who were really great friends to my best friend and me.
Well anyways, Mandi one night asked if I was still mad at her, and I told her I don't want to bring up anything bad tonight. But, I did tell her I wasn't mad, just kinda sad about the whole thing.
And then, Alise goes to my other best friend and says "You, Me, Nike, Jane, and Kat(me), need to hang out really soon!" But see, my other best friend hardly knows Alise.
And now, Jane is hanging out with my best friend (mentioned in the beginning), and I'm just so confused. I made up with Jane, but we never really hang out. We went to the movies, but that was it...I just sorta feel like she really doesn't want to be my friend. I'm just not sure.
I told myself, I didnt' want anything to do with the "Fab. 5", but I kinda felt sorry for Niki and Jane, when I've been great friends with them since Kindergarden. Niki never calls me anymore or even talks to me on the computer, but she hasn't been on the computer in forever. But, that doesn't mean she could call my phone and just talk. I just don't know if I really need them anymore. Because, we act like we aren't friends, but we don't act like we are enemys. More like strangers.
Also, Jane moved, so I thought she would have like a little party or something or house warming party since she was moving. To show off new house. But, I wouldn't know, she never talks to me anymore really.. Then of course, she had Mandi over yesterday.. And Jane would always tell my best friend and myself, how she despised Mandi. So I have no idea.
And now, I feel like crying.
Can anyone tell me how I can make this better?
Or should I leave everything how it is?
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well you should try n make it better. Try n get every1 together n talk about the situation or even just try n get every1 together to hangout. Call you friends more often even if they dont call you. Try to be their friend, and if they show no sign of wanting to be your friend then forget them, you tryed but they didnt care so there not worth your time. Hope i helped.
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ok well at the beginning of summer my best friend Anna and another one of our friends, Katie got drunk at some party and decided later that night that they didnt want to be friends with any of my friends anymore..but i talked to my Anna about it and she said that she only really wants to be friends with me and none of my other friends, but Katie didnt like that..katie and anna were best friends before and she was always mad that me and anna were best friends for like 3 years after that. anyways now katie has been saying bad things about me that arnt true and she is trying to get anna to not talk to me anymore and i think anna is listening to her..i really dont want to deal with anymore of this never ending drama, its really bugging me! another thing is that anna has some of my clothes i let her borrow and if she ends up hating me then what do i do? (link)
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well first try talking to katie, try becomeing friends with her it will makes things better, n let her kno you have no problem with her. If she doesnt want to be friends with you even after you try then forget her. 2nd talk to anna, tell her you want to trust her in staying your friend n not listening to katie. Talk to anna about kaite not bad but about the whole situation. Or try to get all three of you guys together and you all can disscuss the situation you dont have to be in person etheir if u have aim you can use a chat or something. Well hope i helped.
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