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Hi there!!! My name is Bianca, I'm 15 and I loove Tae Kwon Do and i LOVE SPONGEOB!, I go to High school and I'm currently a Junior. Well in my spare time I enjoy doing sports and going out with my friends. I am out-going and I am a burst of energy and I love making people laugh. But I can be pretty helpful once it gets to advice. I'm currently single and I am a karate instructor. I live near Miami and I am Cuban. I have been through so much and I can probably help with anyone's problems! I hope I can help you in many ways please rate my advice! It helps me!

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I have a question about my friend. Well I guess you could say she is one of my best friends.
Well we had made plans tonight to rent and movie and then watch it at her appartment. She told me to arrive by 8 o clock. Well she phoned me at 5 and I wasnt dressed or anything yet. She asked me if I could do her a favour. I said "sure" before I knew what I was in for. Well it turned out she had put an add in the paper to sell two of her cats (she has 5). She told me that the girl buying the cats needed a ride home and could I do it because she (my friend) doesnt have a car. I was a little annoyed because I wasnt ready and she needed me there right away. Well being the loyal friend I was I showed up and one of the cats had escaped from its carrier, and then my friend made me chase around the house for the cat instead of her doing it! We finally caught her and then I had to load up my car with both the cats and their toys. Now heres the kicker: After I loaded up my car with all the cats and toys, I said to my friend "your'e coming with me right"? After all I didnt want to drive a complete stranger somewhere in my car all by myself, I would want my friend to come with me. Also, we still needed to rent the movie. Then she says "no, I'm not coming! So I had to drive this person to her house (who was extremely rude to me by the way). Then I had to rent the movie by myself!! When I finally got back to my friends by around 6 and all she could talk about was how sad she was that she had to give up her cats!!! She finally noticed that I looked upset and asked me what was wrong. I told her the girl I had to drive home was rude (but didnt mention I was more angry at her).
My question is, I am overeacting, or was that a really shitty thing that my "friend" did to me?

That is the rudest thing I have every heard. You are def not overreacting!!! I mean that is so rude I personally would have told my friend that what she did is rude and explain to her I didn't appreaciate it at all!! I mean common she didn't even pay for anything after all you went through.. Sorry to say but that friend is pretty "wack". She has some nerve to do that too you. Personally I think you should tell her the truth on how you feel.Hope I helped! Send Feedback.
-Bianca

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I have this friends who makes fun of me all the time and she makes fun of me around other people too. It makes them think that its ok to make fun of me becasue she does. What can i say to her to make her stop.

If I were you I would make fun of her back. She ahs no right to treat you that way and even though it might be a "game" in her mind. It's not right and to me it seem's like she is hurting your feeling's. I think that you should confront her and tell her you know what your doing is soo wrong and i really don't appreciate it. I know it's hard but you gotta have guts. You can do it! I Hope I helped. Send Feedback. :)
-Bianca

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Ok this extremely hott guy named Dustin, i see him at lunch everyday and theres a lunch line the in the cafeteria and he sits right behind it. So,..anyway, he's a short guy but real athletic. And the other day he looked me straight in the eyes and i looked into his,...it was really weird because all i can remember is us looking at each other and everything else blurring away. and that day whenever i thought about him ((the rest of the day..)) i felt like a cool sensation. and whenever i'm in line for lunch i think he looks at me but,..i dont know i've only caught him a ew times. and i dont have any classes with him so i dont know how to get him any better because i'd really liked to.

I think you should jus walk up to him and talk to him or like get one of your friends that know him to talk to him about you.. You never know what he will think about you if you don't try to find out. Or maybe if you are not too shy go over with your lunch tray and if u know anyone in his table pretend your gunna sit with them and start conversation including him in the table. I hope you do good give me some feedback on what happens. Hope I helped!

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Whats up Bianca i got bored so i decided to leave you a message so you would feel special!! Did you get a new S/N or are you just never on?

err who is this is this linda if it is next time right your name derr

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One of my really good friends has been really really depressed ever sence her and her bf broke up. A few days ago she started to cut herself.I am really worried about her. Only me and a few of her friends know that she is doing it. I really want her to stop it because I am scared that she is going to do something she will regret. It hurts me a lot to see her like this. I am in practically the same situation that she is in. I want to help her and we always talk about it. ButI feel like there is not much I can do for her right now but try and always be there for her. What should I do?


You definetly need to talk to her about this, make plans to go somewhere or catch her when she's alone and really talk to her about it, it's better sitting too, show her that your there for her and tell her that hurting herself isin't going to solve any problems but make them worse. If she doesn't understand thenj you can always going to the yelling technique i used with my friend. We are better friends I think now then ever. Hope I helped and send me some feedback!!!

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Okay I have a guy friend 'Alexander' I know Alex from my tap dance, we are in the same class together and I sort of befriended him because he was extremely nice. Well he loves to dance, and he is really gifted but all the other girls in the class are being really really mean to him. He has such a friendly attitude that he goes up everyone and says hi, even the 'In' group which he wants to be a part of so badly. I honestly don't know why he would want to be nice to stuck up know-it-alls but thats just my opinion talking there. They give him threats and say he is gay, plus all his friends at school make fun of him and call him gay also. He was so hurt when told me all this he was near tears, I felt sooo sorry for him. I feel sorry for him because I have been the only person that has been nice to him, and I tend to want to make fun of guys and call guys names.
He told me how hurt he was last week and that he had made himself come to dance that day. I do understand how he feels, My entire life I have been made fun of.

my problem is I like Alex and I know I shouldn't because i'm setting myself up for pain. I want to stay away from him but then I would be hurting Alex because he would think I didn't like him either. I try not to think of him because I know he doesn't like me and I will get hurt like all the other times before, Plus I'm too ugly for any guy.

First of all you gotta have confidence in your self seriously that attitude isin't gunna get you any guy cuz no guy's like that. Secondly maybe Alex does like you and really you don't have to be in the "in" group if your considering it because apparently they feast on other's misery... and anyone who does that needs to get a life. Go for it talk to him and if he is gay support him because he looks like he needs it. Hope I helped ya! SEND ME SOME FEEDBACK REALLY I WANT TO KNOW WHAT'S UP.
-Bianca

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Sorry this is long, but i rate high! :)

I have a friend...lets call her Jill. Well jill is really cool to hang out with...when she isnt around guys or we arent on the subject of guys. She always uses guys and she flirts with them, and leads them on all the time and then she ends up crushing them. She always steals the gusy her friends like (including the guys i like...) and we are all sick of it. I really want to tell her off because i have talked to her about it before but just talking to her wont get through to her. I want her to really realize what a slutty jerk she has turned into. because she used to be really cool. Please help!

I have the same problem and let's just call her Lill. Lol she does the same things as you but I've gotten so comfortable with ehr that I just tell her that she's a slut, she gets the point when everyone tell's her it, or I just tell her off but that's me but lets get to you! just tell that girl that she can't hog em all, or you can punch her in the face. That always makes people get the picture! Hope I helped! lol :)
-Bianca

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I had a dream about my bestfriend (he's a guy) ok well i had a dream about my bestfiend this is what happened:I the dream we are like 17 or 18 still i high school.(but we really ar 13&14)we were on the phone then he asked me to come over and i did.Then we were in his apartment hanging out.Then this wome around the age of 40 came over.I openedthe doorand then he(my bestfriend) asks me to leave so i do but i come back and i see them 2 having sex!!And when i see him at school (in my dream the next day)im am so mad at im and i yell at him and push him but he is still there then h grabsmy shouldes and looks me in the eye.that all im cofued i dont know why i was s madcn you tell me what this might mean.thanx

It probably means that you like this guy and you want to have a relationship but your afraid that he might want a another girl or cheat on you with another girl because he kicked you out, get it? I don't think that her age made any difference it just resembled maybe in the future you two will be together, and your just scare that he will cheat on you. I hope I helped. Send me some feedback if ya want. -Bianca/HunniBunni

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I'm a 14 yr old female and I'm having trouble on what gifts to get for guys. Girls are so easy (most of the time) to get presents for. But guys...ugh...that's a different story. lol. What kind of present would a guy want? It seems like most of my friends are guys this year, which doesn't make getting presents any easier.

And...there is this one guy that asked me out a while ago. I didn't deny him, but I told him I thought we should hang out more and see how it goes. We've been hanging out a lot now and I'm pretty sure I like him as much as he likes me now. Everyone already thinks we're going out. What kind of gift do you think I should get him?

Get your guy a nice jersey ask him what his favorite team is, or you can get him something as simple as Chocolate, guys never get tired of chocolate. I gave my guy friends colone. That's a good one. Ya know something that will show that you care for him. Hope I helped! :)
-Bianca/HunniBunni

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srry if this to long but i rely need help

my two best freinds used to be best freinds till they got into a really big fite are not freinds anymore so lik when ever i hang out wif 1 of them my other friend will get mad at me n stuff lik that and i no for a fact they will never become friends again cuz the fite they got into was a huge fite

how can i hang out wif 1 freind w/o the other 1 gettin madd??

ok first of all there's always a way to patch up a friendship that's wut happened with me and my best friend cept me and her got in a big fight and my other friend was in the middle, she ended gettin us both on the fone and w just let it all out! She let us fight on the fone but wen it was her turn, she told us how stupid were acting and stuff and we ended up being fine. But really there is probably no way for you to hang out with one and not let the other get mad, becuz there will always be a tension between all of u, the only thing you can do it patch up the relationship and tell them how you feel about them fighting stupidly, and that they need to fix the relationshipbadly or your gunna be the one getting hurt and being split up by friends. they will understand and probably make an effort to talk to eachother. Everything will be fine. Hope I helped and send me feedback! -Bianca/HunniBunni

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What would you do if you liked a guy and you asked him out? He said that he would tell me Monday because I had to go. I don't know if he likes me, but all the others guys do not like me and think I'm a weird psychotic,crazy,mental person. PLEEZ HELP ME! Thanks!

Well first of all, it depends on the guy, do you flirt with him a lot? Is he popular because if he is popular, it is more than usual that he will turn you down or lead you on. The reason those guy's call you those names is because there probably being shallow and thinking that there "cool" when really there the ones that are being uncool. Send me feeback with the info! Hope I helped. Rate me!

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heyy! im 13 yr. old girl.. ok so i had this friend and she was my best friend since kindergarden.. we were friends from kindergarden to 5th grade .. then came middle school .. she became somewhat popular somehow .. but she was trying wayy to hard .. anways im in 8th grade now and its only the begining of the 2nd marking period .. she has been mean and stuck up and a bitch to me .. i get upset sometimes (i dont cry but her being me to me hurts bcuz we were friends for so long) and like should i be upset or am i jealous? plz helpp !

Oh wow, i was put in the SAME position!! I don't think that your jelous or anything. Apparently you made a change t the better and she made a change to the worst. I had a friend like that only we were best friends since 3rd. Now I'm in 9th grade and I have her in my 6th period. I was talking to her online for a change and she said that she feels bad that we don't talk and things, and now me and her are working up to being good friends. Soon she will relaize what she is missing and want to come back. Trust me on this, most people realize there mistakes and fix them when they get older, but this dosen't mean not to give her a chance, because apparently she wants to be your friends and she is giving your friendship a chance, and you can also talk to her and ell her how you feel and if she doesn't listen fight back, becuz apparenlty that's the only way to get through to her. Hope I helped!. Write me feedback! Rate me!

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my friends always ask me personal questions like "who do you like" .. but i dont know if i should tell them bcuz they might tell other people ... how do you know when you can trust your friends?

My friends do that a lot, but I know I can trust them bcuz, when I really need them they come, but you don't have to tell every single one of your friends who you like, it's personal and it gives you a sense of security like only you know it, but you shouldn't tell them if you don't want to. If you have to hesitate to tell them who you like don't do it becuz if there a goof friend then no hesitation should come what so ever

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