I like to talk on the fone, talk to guys (who doesn't), play basketball, play volleyball (i wanna) play ice hockey, football, help people (or at lteast TRY!) chat on AIM and YAHOO!!!!
Gender: Female
AIM: hallwayfiesta44
Yahoo: ilovehotdogs87
Member Since: November 4, 2004
Answers: 66
Last Update: April 10, 2006
Visitors: 5274
Main Categories:
Love Life
Friendship
General Sex Questions
View All
|
| |
ok im 17 female....I have a really good friend Bianca and we met through this guy Rey who played us at the same time...anyways i broke up with him and she stayed with him...the thing is me and him have been doing things behind her back because he is really in love with me and i amm still sooo very in love with him...He told me he would brake up with her just to be with me...Question WHAT THE HELL DO I DO?? I mean she loves him soo much and she would never talk to me again if i went out with him and he broke up with her for me...But i dont know who to pick over who he makes me so happy and he is like the love of my life.. What do i doo??She asks me every day if i have talked to him and i have to lie t her every day soo i dont know NEED ADVICE thnx i will rate high is answers are decent and i will give u my feedback wel thanx whoever wants to help please be atleast 15 or older thnx buh bye
Dominican Grl~ (link)
| |
ok...how do you know that he is going to break up with her for you? how do you know that he REALLY loves you? you could wind up wasting a good relationship with your friend for some asshole that is playin you.....
|
|
HOW do i become more outgoing?! I want to get more friends and be funny,instead of a shy good girl!! can anyone help? thnx! (link)
| |
well, I am a Really outgoing person..all I do is talk to people for no apparent reason, Like if someone is new just walk up to them and introduce yourself etc. I also tend to tell jokes, whether they are funny or not...most of my friends/people that know and like me like this...that is all that I can think of....I hope I helped!!
|
I'm a 14-year-old girl. As I was leaving school the other day, I was walking with a casual male friend. As we were talking, he developed a
very large, very obvious erection. I was so embarrassed for him! I pretended not to notice, and didn't say anything, but he seemed
mortified, and left in a hurry. What should I have done? (link)
| |
All guysget boners...and some of them come at unwanted times..and sometime for noe reason at all...all of my guy friends have had that happen...just pretend you didnt notice it and it would probly make him feel alot better about it.
|
|
Ok the other day (I forgot how we came up on the subject)my friend and I were talking about how much we weighed. I told her first, but I am pretty skinny. Well, she told me she only weighed 2 more pounds than me (92). I think she is lying, however (maybe she feels embarassed?), because she wears a size five in jeans (I wear a 0). Can she really only weigh 2 more pounds than me, and yet still wear jeans way bigger than me? b/c me and this girl are REALLY good friends & i she NEVER lies to me (and i would hate for her to start!!) Thanks I will rate 5's!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
| |
THat is like soo how m and my best friend are..anyways, why dont you tell her that it doesnt matter to you how much she weighs, because you are her friend...etc. if you dont feel like you should do that, then just let it, she is probly embarrassed because you are 5 sizes different. I wouldnt push it tho!
|
|
I have known my best freind for about 4 years, and we are super close we never used to fight and always agreeded on things. Now I feel like shes leaving me out purposley, and I feel like I wait all day for her to call to do somthing, and I'll do whatever she wants as long as i want to also. But whenever i cant go right at that second she ditches me. Now the littlest things get us in fights and i get mad at her for stupid things. I know that its stupid, but am I just being oversensitive in thinking shes leaving me out? (link)
| |
I dont think so at all, maybe you should sit down and talk to her about it. Tell her that it upsets you whenever she does those things...i hope i helped!
|
okay my friends name is holly and her boyfriend's name is zach. theyve been going out since about december, maybe a little before. i basically set them up because they are honestly the perfect couple. its just that sometimes i feel like she prefers to hang with him over me. i was in the hall talking to her one day and then along comes zach and i was in midsentence. then she just walks away with him. I WAS IN MIDSENTENCE! she didnt say goodbye or anything. its sortof making me wonder. i dont know if its just jealously - but my other friends are noticing it too. honestly - they are perfect for each other. and i dont want them to break up. this past weekend we went to the movies and she asked if she could take him. i wanted it just to be us girls but finally she convinced me that he had to come. she said 'im only over his house today for two hours and i never see him' when she sees him everyday for at least like 2 hours. how can i let her know that she sortof needs to let him go, not break up, but detach herself from him when it comes to going out to the movies or anywhere with FRIENDS? im sorry this was so long, but i rate high! =) thanks so much
(link)
| |
WEll, try talking to her and telling her that you feel sortof left out..and you would like to spend time with JUST her and maybe sum of your other friends too. Just talk about all the things that she has done to make you upset, like walking away when you were in midsentence....she should understand!
|
|
What are some good party ideas for a girl who is turning 14 this summer, has friends that'd she like to invite aging from 12-16, and will have guys and gals at her party? I want to throw a really cool party for her, but I'm not sure where to begin. A Suprise Party is not an option, and we don't have a pool. I'd like something fun, original, and not boring. THanks for your ideas! (link)
| |
Well, me and my friends were thinking about having a b-day party at chuck e cheeses? it would be original...kinda..lol. That would be a cool party. Unless you dont want pple to think shes sooo childish...(which i dont think it is) you could throw one at her house or go to splashtown or sumthing?
|
|
y are a ll my friends hypocrites because every time they like say stuff to me like tell the person if u have a problem with them and so i do then when ever they have a problem with soem one else they dont tell them and so yeah y do people do that i hate it y are they like this y do i attracked firneds that just stab u in the back all the toime then lie about what they did? (link)
| |
Well, I think because, they dont want people to talk about THEM behind their backs, but they are too chicken shit to fufill (sp?) their part of what they say....Next time it happens confront them and say well, geez, you told me (oe whoever) to tell you to your face, why cant u do that same?
|
|
okay here we go...last year, in 8th grade, this girl and i liked the same guy, idint know she liked him and he asked me out. i said yes of course. well thats when everything started the same fat girl has been talking crap about me ever since then that was last yar! it was over something i couldnt help! he picked me ov you get over it!! (link)
| |
Why dont u be all like "what are you just jealous because he picked me over your fat ass?" and see how she responds to that...otherwise, just ignore her, she is only jealous because you got what she wanted. i hope i helped
|
|
Ok so i recently signed up for myspace and have been going through old yearbooks and i ran into this girl i knew in junior high (im 18/m now) so i sent her a message saying she probably doesnt remember me but i went to school with her and just wanted to say whats up. she responded saying she doesnt remember me and im at a loss for how to respond. i was thinking of saying soemthing like "ok well i cant say im not disappointed but i didnt really expect you to remember me, if you ever wana talk about how much the school sucked or anything like that feel free to message me" but i was wondering if soemthing else maybe better. should i try to job her memory? should i reply with "oh well no big deal" or is there a even better response i have yet to think off? responses asap would be best. oh and not saying that romance is the last thing on my mind in this situation but it really isnt the reason, we were fairly good friends back then and i just wanted to get back in touch with her. thanks all for your help. (link)
| |
Maybe you should respond to "do you want to remember" or something like that, that way you arent annoying her and if she really wants to know, then proceed on from there. If she says no, then dont push it...maybe she will come around...
|
|
I have met this new friend. My bestfriend doesn't like her. I like her. The new friend is mean to my bestfriend but not to me. I want to be friends with both of them. What should i do? (link)
| |
I think that you should talk with both of them, tell your current bff that she cant control who you are friends with, and tell your other friend that your bff now is your friend also, and that she shouldnt make be mean to her. (well, that is what i would do) Then you could be friends with both of them, niether of them can decide who your friends should be!
|
okay, i have a friend, and i'm really close to her, we've been friends for a really long time and i just love her to death! almost like a sister! but anyways, just recently she told me about her boyfriend...he doesn't want her to talk to any guys, and he says if he ever catches her, he will kill her and him...and he's not just bluffing, he is really serious about the killing. also, they recently had sex for the first time, and the day after he wouldn't talk to her, but then he said "i'm sorry, come over to my house after work" those were his exact words! he wanted her over there so they could have sex. he won't wear a condom unless she threatens him that they're not going to have sex unless he does. also, he gives her hickies and she asks him to put them in places that can't be easily seen so she can't get in trouble, but when she asks him to he gets mad and bites her on the next, hard, leaving big places, in visible spots. i'm sorry this was long, but please help.
-concerned friend (link)
| |
You should talk to her about it. She really needs to get away from him. Sit her down and tell her how you feel, tell her that she needs to Dump him because htats not right!!! And if she wont listen to you, then you have to tell someone.
|
|
17-f so i have this really good friend...a guy...and we've been friends for three years. I love spending time with him because hes just about the funniest person i know. We have a lot in common too and now since we've been friends for so long he knows me really well. Anyways for a while now im beginning to think that he likes me. I dont like him that way. How do i tell him that i dont like him without actually doing it. And if i need to tell him outright...how do i do that without hurting him? (link)
| |
Well, just tell him that you can only consider him as a brother, or really good friend because of how long you have known him. It can work either way. He should be able to understand this.
|
|
i have this friend (my best friend actually) and i love her more than any thing in the world, she is like the only person who can make me laugh when im sad or hook me up w/ any guy i like and she is just like the all around greatest person i know and she is like so outgoing and im like the shyest person out of our group and she is the one who is like hmmm i think we are going to be friends w/ ... and walks up to them and starts talking, but her mom is a total B---- and she treats her like crap then she is so nice, and her mom recently kicked her out of her house and she came to live w/ me and everything was going well and then her mom found out she was living w/ me and had a hurnea (not literally but it's a saying) and she is going to move in w/ her dad at the end of the school year and as it nears it makes me more and more sad because it's not going to be the same and i want it to be and at night i just sit there thinking about how much im going to miss her and all of my other friends are like im moving to waller and we'll still be going to school together etc... and i have no clue what to do cause her mom doesnt want us to hang out any more and i dont like inviting over any one else (i mean i have but it just isnt the same me and her did the stupidest things and we made it fun) and i hate being that bored on the weekends and my aunt said she would sneak her out but i dont think it is going to work what should i do? (link)
| |
Well, make your mom move with her and stuff, because she does basically the same thing at night too. but just think, she will be bettering herself and getting/ living a new and better life style then what she is used to with her mom. I know that you don't want her to move and stuff. But, if things DO change, maybe it was meant to be, and if your friendship is TRUE (I am not saying that is itsn't) but you will keep in touch as much as possible. This is something that she REALLy needs and wants, she loves you very much and your mom and dad, and Aunt Tracy. I was thinking that maybe it would work, as ling as she was back before a certain time, or somwthing. But what she was thinking was having Aunt Tracy pick her up from school as a car rider (with you too) and go hang out and tell her that she is riding the activity bus home. As ling as she as home before her mother got home. But, just cherish the good times that you have had and that you might have in the future. And, I can tell you this, she is not all that excited about you having all these different people cpme over, because of the fear of getting replaced!!! I love you very much, and I don;t know what I would do without you!
|
|
I have more of a comment then a question right now...I look at this site as a great way to make new friends and to get helpful advice so i can see what im doing wrong in my life and how i can improve it....I love asking questions and getting feedback but what i dont like is opening up answers and seeing rude remarks and dumb comments....Thats really not helpful and in some cases it makes me feel lower then i was before i asked the question...Im sure im not the only one who feels this way but i think this needs to stop...If you think its funny to make fun of peoples personal problems then go make fun of your own because you obviously have them if you feel you can say some of the things that i have seen said to people....Im open for any feedback but please i ask that this comment not be deleted because im trying to get a message out about how i feel and if you delete this then you are just as bad as those who leave rude remarks...Thanks alot...Xo~CaReBeAr~oX (link)
| |
I completely agree with you!!!
|
|
I have an exboyfriend that I don't like-like but I do like him as a friend. I want to be his friend but every time I get around him I don't want to talk becuz the last time we did he said why did you break up with me. I ran off so I couldn't answer but I broke up w/ him bcuz I think that i was using him. i haven't had a boyfriend in a while so i wanted one real bad so i went out with him. we hugged but didn't kiss and it still didn't feel right. How do I talk to him without hurting his feelings or making him mad? (sorry its so long) (link)
|
HI!,
My Advice would be to just sit down and tell him. If he is really understanding, then he might understand....But, It's better to tell him the truth and then it won't be soo awkward being around him and stuff!!! If he doesn't understand at first...then eventually he will...and if he doesn't than screw him...you can do better than that!!!
|
|