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well i want to go to the movies with a friend of mine, but its a girl. how do i ask a girl to go somewhere (without having a group)without it sounding like a date?
Well, just sound casual on the phone.
"Hey, (so in so) are you busy tonight? Want to see a movie?"
Just try to sound casual. And if you guyz are friends then I'm sure she'll know it's not a date. Have fun!
Morgan
I'm a shy girl (13/f) and I always feel lonely. I was wondering what's an easy way to make new friends?
Just be friendly, and most importantly, be yourself. Talk to a classmate about a movie, the weather, her outfit, there are so many things you can talk about. Be partners with the new girl in science class, or at lunch strike up a convo about the unedible food your school serves! Be fun and outgoing, if you are outgoing, girls will like you!
Morgan
Dear Morgan,
My BFF doesn't hang out with me anymore. I miss her. Tonight there was a dance at school and she ditched it for another friend. They went ice skating. It hurts my feeling because she didn't tell me and I'd just like to know. She also isn't acting too nice to me anymore. I asked her why and she didn't say anything. Then she told her sisters (my friends too) why and it was because of me talking about another guy. That hurts my feelings too because if she doesn't like it, I won't do it as much. At least I'll try not to. Do you know of anything that I can do? Thank you.
-Anonymous
Dear Anonymous,
Talk to your friend. Just because she missed a dance doesn't mean she is ditching you. So she missed a dance, maybe you could call her tonight and hang out with her. Or tomorrow. A lot of girls get upset over obsessions. Maybe you could cut down on the boy. Just remember that she has other friends, and doesn't have to go to all the dances. She just did something with another friend. I think you should talk to her. Have a sleepover. Laugh about everything you can. And you have other friends. There were other girls at the dance. You could hang out with them. Don't let your BFF not being there ruin your night. I think you should stop with the boy stuff. That would probably help. Good luck, and send me a message if you need more advice!
Morgan
Hi, let me start by saying I'm young. 13f and my best friend died. Her brother was hurt really bad and i feel like it was my fault, cuz they were on their way to pic me up when a drunk driver ran into them. My friend died instantly and her brother is expected to die in the next seven-twelve days. I want to say something to him, but I don't know what and if I don't hurry, it might be too late. You can e-mail me at prettymoonbug@hotmail.com
Aww, sweetie. I'm so sorry about your loss. Your friend is in a great place. My dog is playing with her. It isn't your fault. Don't blame yourself for something another person did. Even if she was picking you up, it isn't your fault. Do you think it's your fault that the driver go drunk and drove? NO!
Losing someone you love is very tragic. I lost someone I loved dearly to a car accident. It may seem harsh, but everyone's life needs to end sometime. Sometimes it's painful, sometiems it's of old age. It may not seem like it, but God has his reasons for His ways of ending lives.
About her brother, you need to say something to him. If you don't, he'll be gone and you'll regret it. You can't change your mind when it's too late. Tell yim you love him ( brotherly) and that everything will be ok. Say something to let him know he'll be remembered.
Anyway, I am very sorry about your loss. Hang in there, Sweetie. You can still talk to your friend. She'll always be with you. If you would like to talk more, drop a message in my Inbox.
Morgan
13/F
My friend and I are good friends and have good times and stuff like that! But she always takes advantage of me. Like she will always ask me for everything and get her things and sometimes i will do it and sometimes i wont! And when im around her friends, she just doesnt talk to me she ignores me. I mean she will talk to me but not like she does when its just me and her. Her friends and I are friends too. What should i do...she does treat me like a friend its just the taking advantage part i dont like!
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My name's Morgan too!! lol
A don't think she's really intending to hurt you. I know how you feel. My friend acts weird around me sometimes too. Just talk to her about how you're feeling. If she asks for somethign and you don't want her too, say no. You don't have to say yes because she is your friend. Good luck!! Lyl
Morgan
this is my proplem my crush asked out my best friend and i really like him this guy is my ex he has been my boyfriend 2 times he really likes my friend so what should i do assk him out or what?
Well, hun I'm sorry but if you had your chance, then well, you had a chance. Oviously if it didn't work out twice, it won't work out. It might, but I doubt it. Don't be amd at your friend, it's not her fault. There's plenty of fish in the sea. And one is just right for you. Focus on that.
Morgan
Hi Morgan, I was wondering if it's okay if I take that thing that you used for your bio. (Ten things about me, nine of my good friends, etc.) I think it's really cool!!
-Cayd
Yeah, that's fine! lol, bye!
okay. my bestest friend EVER is having a birthday soon. i want to write a poem and have it framed. the poem has to say how good a friend she is. can anyone help me out??? PLEASE!!!
here's a few lines
Of all the friends I've ever met, you're the one I won't forget.
If I die before you do
I'll go to heaven and wait for you
we've been through so much laughter, and a few tears
I'll be here for you, now and for coming years
that's all i can think of, please rate!
Morgan
well i have this friend and she is all nice and stuff around me...but when another person is around us shes different...for example today we went to abercrombie and i grabbed this shirt and she said she didnt like it...but then when my other friend came and said she liked it, she changed her mind...what should i do about it?
Ooohh, hun, I know EXACTLY how you feel. My BFF is totally different around some other people. I'd just accept it or talk to her. Ask her why she is so different around this person. Maybe she wants this other person to like her. maybe the personality around you is something she thinks or knows this other person doesn't like. Is the person popular?? Maybe that's why she is different. If I were you, when I hang out with your friend I wouldn't invite the person she's different around too. You can hang out with both, just not the same time, and who knows, maybe she'll grow out of it. Hang in there hun!
morgan
my best friend went out with a guy... and they never pay attention to me when were out.. so one day my friend says please come to the game today and i go why and she goes cuz i want you and i said if you can take me home and she says yeah.. we go to the game and of course she ditches me for her boyfriend.. to make it worse she goes to me can you find a ride home me and (her boyfriend) are going out to eat.. then she leaves me.. i come home and she apologizes but she doesnt get how mad it makes me but im not gonna tell her cuz it will make everything weird.. i dunno i just need to complain to someone.. if you can help please give advice
Some girls can get over obsessive with boys. Maybe next time she invites you take another friend with you so you have someone to hang out with Or just don't go, say you don't feel like being ditched!! And if she pleads that she won't, bring a friend incase. If she does, then don't go to the games anymore. If you still want to hang out with her, invite her to do other things. (movie, sleepover, shop, etc) Just do what you think is right!
Morgan