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hate friend stealers
my best friend went out with a guy... and they never pay attention to me when were out.. so one day my friend says please come to the game today and i go why and she goes cuz i want you and i said if you can take me home and she says yeah.. we go to the game and of course she ditches me for her boyfriend.. to make it worse she goes to me can you find a ride home me and (her boyfriend) are going out to eat.. then she leaves me.. i come home and she apologizes but she doesnt get how mad it makes me but im not gonna tell her cuz it will make everything weird.. i dunno i just need to complain to someone.. if you can help please give advice
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i understand totally, its happened to me. i know you dont twant to talk to your friend but if you can talk to her ALONE w/o anyone there it might help. also, if she invites youe somewhere and you know her b/f will be there then dont go. try backing off a bit and see what happens. boys are jsut phases while real friends last forever. good luck =) wish you the best
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That is rude, obnoxious, and dangerous. They could have at least dropped you at home before they went out to eat. You really do need to talk to her. And I would bring it up the next time she offers to take you somewhere, so that you are assured that it will not happen again.
Don't just tell her "I'm pissed off." Tell her how disappointed you are that a friend abandoned you. And that you really don't enjoy being put in that place again.
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Man..thats a sucky situation. Well pleease a least think about talking to her about it. Shes so tied up with this guy! she needs to find a balance. Ive seen it happen to too many of my friends. they forget about their friends until their bfs break up with them. If you dont talk to her you will just keep getting frustrated!At first she may be mad..but i think she'll come around and realize what shes been doing to you. If you dont want to talk to her in person..write a letter tellimg her how you feel..this way in mid conversation she cant cut you off..please think about it because after u tell her you'll feel better
melissa-
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Some girls can get over obsessive with boys. Maybe next time she invites you take another friend with you so you have someone to hang out with Or just don't go, say you don't feel like being ditched!! And if she pleads that she won't, bring a friend incase. If she does, then don't go to the games anymore. If you still want to hang out with her, invite her to do other things. (movie, sleepover, shop, etc) Just do what you think is right!
Morgan
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talk to your friend ! tell her straight up that that was rude of her and she doesnt have to treat you lik shit , cuz your not shit explain to her that it hurts you when she leaves you and ask her to speend a nite with just you so you guys can catch upp =]]
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