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Be4 anyone reads this that is a punk i have nothing agints you. i just dont understand you.
My problem is that my BESTEST friend in the whole world was like a pretty girl and was well prepy and now all she wants to do is be a sk8 boreder and wear black and she is always like pink is and evil color! She used to let me brush her hair and put her make up on but now she wont even let me touch her. I think that are relationship is floating away and i never wont that to happen. I know she has a right to be her own person but i dont like the person she os becoming and I dont want to change her bak its just i wont to understand wats going on with her and y she want to change all of a sudden i just am confused plz help me dont let our friendship fade wat should i do to figure this out and be able to understand her again.
-confused-

omg!!! lol.. same thing happened to me last year with maii bestststtst friend ((isabellll)) l0l.. yeah.. she was turning all punk and weird.. {{no offence to punk people either.. it was weird for her.. cuz shes sooooo preppy}} anywaes... she grew out of it in like.. a month.. so.. you friend probably will too.. :)

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my friends r getting on my nerus because this boy asked me out & that is the same boy they wanted to go with. what should i do?

two opinions
1. i dont thynk you shuud go out with him then... alwaes pick your friends over guys.. bcuz guys probably wont last as long as friends.. and its not worth risking
2. if your friends are the type of people to backstab you.. and they would go out eith him knowing you like him and you know they would... then go out with him.. lol.. yeah..

hOpE i HeLpeD!

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do you ever feel like you dont fit in with your friends? well i do and like there all a little different than me. well me and my 2 best friends are pretty much the popularist girls in our grade. My best friend Katie is in love with a guy who already has a girlfriend of 1year and hes cheating on his girlfriend Kim with Katie and its been going on for 2months now or so and hes causing her a lot of pain with hiding behinde Kims back and shes been cutting her wrists i tell her not to do it but she says she cant help it and everytime she does it she promises she will never do it again and everytime she breaks the promise and i cant get mad at her or stop being her friend bc that would lead her into even more pain bc weve been friends since we were 7 and were 15 now. and my other best friend kristi is somewhat wild. and then theres me. were all honor students and everything but sometimes i just dont think i fit in. .. will this be a feeling that will go away? i dont have love life problems i dont get "too wild" i dk maybe im just feeling a little weird who knows .. please help!!

i think you should just calm down for a while.. like.. try like.. a weekend away from everything to have to yourself.. go shopping and have fun!! and think about all this drama.. and when you get back.. confrount it.. tell katie that its hurting kim.. tell kim that cutting will only hurt her.. and if she still doesnt change.. then tell her.. if something were to happen to her it would kill you.. and hang out with kirsti a little more.. she can help you take your mind off all this!

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my friend is going out with this guy. i think she's too good for him but anyway. he's in my PE class and the other day i saw him touching another girl's pussy. like feeling up on her. they're both black and the girl he was touching is white. plus right now there's a lot of racial stuff going on. should i tell my friend or keep my mouth shut?

omggg.. tell him.. ugh.. i hate guys who cheat!! but.. the hole racial thyng has nothyng to do with it

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Ok my I have a friend Laura* and she is always copying me! For instance, I got my hair cut short and the next thing you know she decides to cut off her like 3ft long hair too! And the other day on the bus I was singing the Fresh Prince of Bel Air theme song (:D) and she goes " OH! I LOVE THAT SONG!!!! " I was like...goodddddd!!!!! It just gets on my nerves alot! Idk how to make her stop...anyone have any ideas? THANKS!

ehkkk.. l0l.. one of mai good friends is like that.. and im like.. OMG get a life.. lol.. but you want to be nice.. l0l.. so.. just like.. be like.. *in a joking way* be like.. omgg.. uR cOpPyInG mE!! or something.. where she gets the idea.. but wont be offended! what i did.. is i was like.. " dangg grll.. your like a mini me!! like.. when i get BIG hoop earings.. you do.. and when i cute mai hair.. yoo do.. and when i... bla bla.. l0l.. and i was laughing as i said it.. but she stopped coppyngme.. and wasnt mad! :)

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okay so my 2 ex best friends are comming to my house...and 2 of my other best friends house's to T.P. us BADLY!!! i know this for a fact because ive got resources...ANYWAYS...me and my 2 friends who are supposedly getting t.p.ed too are gonna call the cops on them...they have put us through so much crap the past few weeks so this is just our lil pay back!! do you think its to much? if you think that maybe it IS beecause i might want them to be friends with me again one day...trust me thats NOT gonna happen!!
-x0x-

okay.. i would sae.. dont call the cops.. just.. turn off all ur lites.. and wait in the window.. and when they get there.. take out like.. a big water hose and spray them.. or take all the food you dont want anymore and throw it at them.. and then they wont do it again:)

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Is it normal to be best friends with a girl you've known for half-a year?? This girl and I met in eighth grade this year, and I've become very attached to her. We're both best friends and we tell each other everything. We're like sisters. Is that normal to be this close after a short time??

some of mai vErRy bestst friends were mai verry bestst friends like.. within a few weeks.. so.. dont feel baddd.. that means yall r closer anywaes.. if yall can have a hole big frendship like that in that amount of tyme

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Her, I'm having a a slumber party (10 girls) What should we do? ( we aren't allowed to invite guys over, cuz we're only 13)

well.. when i turned 12 i had a b*dae party and we went to tha mall.. and like.. had a list.. and we split up in 2 groups.. and like.. you kno those sites like.. how to be annoying.. l0l.. omg.. go to www.getannoyed.com and there are a lot of things.. and we did like 20 and which ever team one.. got sumthyn.. l0l.. it was sooo much fun.. l0l.. and everyone liked it.. then we went to mai house and ate pizza and then yeah.. just hung out.. l0l.. sHoOoT.. i would do that now.. l0l.. it was reallly fun :)

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I Have this friend who is always putting themselves down and somethimes i dont know what to say becuase they arent the most attractive person and i dont want to seem fake about it. Whenever they tell me that there ugly or whatnot...im always like dont put yourself down like that your not ugly. Every time i talk to this person they always tell me how ugly they are! PLEASE HELP ME IN WHAT TO SAY TO THEM!!

ommgg.. one of my friends... is like the most gorgeous person ever.. and when she says that shes ugly.. im like.. "o yeah.. ur so ugly?!?" or i just tell her to shut up.. cuz she alwaes has somethyng to say bad about herself.. l0l.. and if im really sarcastic about it.. and im like.. "oh yeah? your really ugly?!?" yeah.. then she just drops the subject :)

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Well i am in 7th grade and my bestfriend is moving to West Varginia and i just met her at the beginning of the year and now she is moving at the end of january and i am gonna take it very hard because we are like bestfriends soooooooo what should i give her and tell her b4 she leaves??????? Need Help Fast!!!!!!!!! Thanx
oxoxoxo,
C.S.

give her sumthyn so that she will alwaes thynk of yoo!! like.. if yall have a favorite movie.. or like.. an inside joke with sumthyng.. and then make her like.. a photo album of yalls good tymes.. like.. a scrapbook!! omg.. i would sooo love that if i was moving awae!! and tell her howw mucho ur gunna miss her!! and that yall r styll gunna stae bbfe:)

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i have alot of friends and stuff, but iv just started to realize that they might not be as true as i thought. i love them but i hate them, they just seem not to care anymore. i also have people calling me a whore and a slut and stuff like that wenever i walk by because my "friends" tell them stuff thats not true. how do i avoid something like that..and how do i know if my friends are true?

well look.. girls are bakstabbing liars.. like.. seriously.. ugh.. i cant stand girls.. l0l.. i learned mai lesson in 7th when allll mai friends did that to me.. but.. what i did.. and it took a while.. was.. i dropped those friends... and made new ones.. because those friends werent helping me at al!!

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i going skating with my boy friend tonight and i am going to wear some cute blue jeans with some top thats where i ned yalls help here is your chocies a jaket thats like a burgedy that says Abercombiewith the zipper pulled haft way down and you see a whit shirt or a orange that says Hollister zipper pulled haft way down with white shirt?????? any other ideas
Tanks
~~~SCM~~~

orange hollister.. those are soo cuute!!

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This year i made a lot of friends and they are alll really popular and they are my really close friends. They used to invite me to everything that they did and now they don't so i don't no if they still like me as their CLOSE FRIEND! COULD HELP ME OUT HERE!!

well.. dont wait for them to invite you places.. you can start inviting them to hang out with you.. and yeah.. if you keep doing that.. eventually.. they'll invite yoo to come along if theyre your friends.. :)

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i feel like im growing apart from some of my close friends..is there any way to prevent this??

Signed,

Missed Friend

well.. i would call them more.. just to hang out.. and go shopping!! or.. suggest gettyn piccys taken together! both of those have worked for me when me and mai feiends were fallyn apart!

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okay, one of my kinda close guy friends [who likes me more than a friend] bought me a necklace for xmas... the thing is, he "forgot" to take off the price tag which was stuck on underneath the box.. it was $129.. the price tag was also inside the box kinda hidden under the necklace plate. obviously he wanted me to see how much it costed? lol what do u guyz think?

haha... he probably did.. l0l.. cuz he prolly didnt want to seem like he wanted to tell you.. so.. he just left it there.. haha.. but if hes gunna pay that much money on you.. then you shuud thynk about hookin up.. ;) l0l.. JP!! .. kinda.. :)

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I have a wonderful best friend, I mean she's everything a best friend could ever be. Usually on Fridays me and her always go and hang out. It's not just us though its a bunch of guys too. I dont have a problem with these guys but its just every one of them have seen my best friend naked! She sends naked pictures (fully naked, EVERYTHING showing) to ALL of her guy friends, she flashes guys all the time, and it makes me kind of awkward. I mean I dont want to say it but its kind of slutty. All these guys love her now and it makes me feel kind of awkward because none of them really CARE about me. I mean they talk to me but they dont CARE (you can tell...they dont talk to me online or anything, I've tried talking they just talk and just say yeah and ok to everything. they talk to me in person though). Well I want attention from guys and for guys to like me but I dont want to be like my best friend and do the naked stuff she does. They dont want to see me naked anyway they all like her. Help!
-Wants Attention

omg.. i used to have a friend like that and i hated that everyone was alwaes looking at her and not me.. but i would sae to just be more outgoing with them..not slutty.. but outgoing.. and when you talk to them online.. ask them questions so that they cant just sae yeah.. okay.. and yeah.. when ur with her.. just be more outgoing then her.. ( l0l.. it sounds mean.. but its true!) l0l.. and then they will look at you!

oh.. yeah.. and if they only talk to her cuz theyve seen her naked.. then that probably means that thats the only reason why they like her.. and if they talk to you and they havent seen you naked.. l0l.. then they like you for you.. :-D

l0l.. hope i helped!!

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Ok I've been talking to this guy online through a friend. His name is John. Anyway, he recently sent me a picture and he is not cute AT ALL. After seeing that picture I have lost any desire to talk to him, and he keeps IMing me. I feel like the most SHALLOW person on Earth and I feel so bad. But I can't help how I feel. It is really rude to block him so I don't know what to do!! I really don't want to seem or be shallow.

omg.. thats same exact thing happened to me.. l0l.. so.. your not the most shallow person on earth.. well.. idk what i did was right.. but i blocked him.. and i never heard from him again.. so.. it wasnt bad for me at all.. so.. i ToTaLLy understand you.. and i would sae.. it wouldnt be that rude to block him.. :-D!!!

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my best friend's mom hates me! last night she listened into our convo on the phone then ally (bff) called back and told me that we weren't allowed to be friends anymore then her mom told me that she listened and didn't appreciate what i said about her(i don't like her) and she hung up. i started crying really hard for like five minutes, then ally called back again and said that her mom said that she crossed theline by listening in and that we could be friends as long as i don't go over to ally's house. it makes me feel better, but i still can't get it out of my head. i still want to be friends with her, but i don't want to deal with her mom. what should i do??!?!?!?!?!?!?

okay.. well.. a lot of mai friends parents dont like me either.. and idn.. maybe.. you oculd rite her mum a letter.. like... apoligizing.. or call her.. and try to convince her.. one of mai friends and mai mum were having a problem.. and she called mai mum and rote a letter.. and mai mum started liking her again.. so.. yeah.. :D

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alot of ppl in the grade up from me hate me...because of stuff i did the year before n they all say they are gonna kick my ass no matter how sorry i say i am they dont care they think i should pay for my attitude...?? n i dont get it i said sorry n it was from like 2 years ago shouldnt they b over it by now what should i doo???? because school starts soon n they said they are gona kick my ass this yearr...?

man.. dont worry bout it.. l0l.. same thang happened with me.. and they didnt do a thang.. so.. just ignor em.. and if they do try to start mess.. then tell em off.. if u need BeTtEr help.. IM me...

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ok my bff just stop bein friends with her old bff her old bff hates me she always puts me dowm and makes me wanna stab her she also calls my cell and says "ur ugly im pretty u need to die gay loser biotch" wat should i do??? i really need help or it will go on forever!!!!!!!!!!! plzz help.....thanx!!

haha.. l0l.. next tyme she calls.. tell her off.. be like.. uh.. listen u jelous hoe.. you can go ef urself cuz ur gay.. ! l0l.. woohoo.. !!

xoxo andie oxox

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