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do you ever feel like you dont fit in with your friends? well i do and like there all a little different than me. well me and my 2 best friends are pretty much the popularist girls in our grade. My best friend Katie is in love with a guy who already has a girlfriend of 1year and hes cheating on his girlfriend Kim with Katie and its been going on for 2months now or so and hes causing her a lot of pain with hiding behinde Kims back and shes been cutting her wrists i tell her not to do it but she says she cant help it and everytime she does it she promises she will never do it again and everytime she breaks the promise and i cant get mad at her or stop being her friend bc that would lead her into even more pain bc weve been friends since we were 7 and were 15 now. and my other best friend kristi is somewhat wild. and then theres me. were all honor students and everything but sometimes i just dont think i fit in. .. will this be a feeling that will go away? i dont have love life problems i dont get "too wild" i dk maybe im just feeling a little weird who knows .. please help!!
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I feel the exact same way sometimes. I think everyone does at one point or another. Lots of people get confused with who they are and think they dont typically fit in just becasue there not the same as everyone else.
Maybe you feel like you dont fit in with your friends maybe because you feel like you dont want to deal with what they deal with, like katie. Clearly katie has problems which she should ask a doctor/teacher/guidance counsellor about, and should stop messing around with a guy whos got a girlfriend. I can see how you would think you dont fit in with someone like katie or even kristi because shes wild. Its ok if your not wild. When i was in highschool my best friend was really wild, she was all into drugs and drinking adn boys and i felt like i didnt fit in with her but then i realized that life goes on after highschool, you dont have to hang out with the same people all the time if you dont feel that you have alot in common with them. Try to find other friends that you feel you have more in common with but remember you dont have to give up your other friends. Theres enough of you to go around and you can hang out with all different people. Im still best friends with the girl i was talking about before and we only see each other maybe once a week or less. Just because you dont see someone all the time doesnt mean your not really good friends. Seriously try to meet some other new people or hang out with other people that you already know, you'll feel alot better about it, trust me. Sorry this was so long, I hope i helped you at least a little bit. Feel free to ask me anything else if you need to.
Hope to talk to you soon hun!
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i think you should just calm down for a while.. like.. try like.. a weekend away from everything to have to yourself.. go shopping and have fun!! and think about all this drama.. and when you get back.. confrount it.. tell katie that its hurting kim.. tell kim that cutting will only hurt her.. and if she still doesnt change.. then tell her.. if something were to happen to her it would kill you.. and hang out with kirsti a little more.. she can help you take your mind off all this!
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