*tasha*'s

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Theres this girl at my church who also goes to my school. No one sits with her at lunch, and im absolutly sure she doesnt have any friends. She might have some problems, im not sure. (Mentally)
Thing is i know my friends would make fun of her because she looks different. Its eatting away at me everyday to think i could be making her life better. i rate. *Megz*

Hey!I think that you should try to talk and hang out w/ her. Thats cool that your thinkin about it! I had to do that once. Well i didn't have to but i did. There was this girl and she dressed differently and her hair wasn't always the nicest and all that...but I sat w/ her at lunch and hung out w/ her on breaks. She was pretty cool and I think i made her feel a whole lot better! So I def. think you should do it. GOOD LUCK THO! And if you do do it remember your making someones life a whole lot better by giving her a friend..

:x:o: Tasha

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well i really liked the advice you gave me but i mean i get flirty but im not until a while i mean right now hes interested in me but how do i keep him interested idk what kind of things to talk about i mean things dnt even come to mind but i wana keep conversation with him so he'll want to talk to me god i get so confused sometimes i just don't wana mess up because i have plenty of times

Hmm..to keep a convo goin just talk about yourselves or what you did that day..or people. You can always talk about people!Or sports too.Guys love talkin about they're fav. football team...(or w/e sport they are into). So just keep it simple. Also when you get to know him a lot more talk about the love lifes. See if he has a gf or if he has his eye on anyone special. That'll help ya out alot! So yea...just do ANYTHING to keep him interested,it may be hard but it'll be worth it when the two of you are goin out ;). lol. Talk to ya later. hope it helps. if ya wanna talk more im me on aim!! tashaisamazing...thats my sn. THANKS for ur question. hope it works out!!

xOXo tasha.... {tell me the outcome ;)}

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Well I met this guy we'll call him "S" and i started talking to him online about a week or so ago i met him through a friend of mine and i recently hung out with him about 5 days ago and I'm really into him but i feel like its too quick and i don't want to tell him and scare him off... i've been through some tough times with guys and i don't want to screw things up i don't know what to do and sometimes i feel i can't keep up conversation with him what do i do to get him to maybe look into me as maybe more than a friend i broke up with one of his friends about a month and a half ago too which is also weird i mean when we hung out it was obvoius we wer flirting a lot but i want a guy that won't use me for just ass i feel stupid what should i do? it seems i always find myself getting hurt

Hey!Take is sloooooow.Just wait. Flirt w/ him let him kno ya like him.BUT DONT TELL HIM! Its like a game...i kno boys dont like em but oh well.In this case ithink ya should just flirt and stuff.Wait till like amonth before letting your feelings loose cuz i do think its kinda soon.To hold a conversation just dont be shy! Talk about whatever comes to your mind. Guys like girls that aren't shy...well most do. And like thats how i get my guys. If i have to burp i will. lol and if i like a rap song when they like rock i still sing it.Just be yourself and who cares what they think.They'll get it and start to figure out that your not a high maintenance girl and he'll probaly start to see you as MORE than a friend!!!GOOD LUCK!tel me what happens!!

xOXo tasha!

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ok.. one of my best friends uncle died last nite we were all really close with him but they were like really close n shes talkin about killing herself wut do i say to her to help her try n stop trying to kill herself? help i rate high

Hey!I've dealed w/ this SO many times!Tell her how so many people will miss her!tell her how if she does do it she won't go to heaven and then that'll suck for her!Also tell her if she kills herself she'll make a bunch of people feel how she feels about her uncle dyin and they'll wanna kill THEMSELVES!So its like a chain!!GOOD LUCK!

{tell me what happends!}xOXo tasha

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Sorry I am thinknig about my life a lot today .. and well my bestest friend i love her to death but i see on like peoples profiles that omg teresa your my bestest friend and i feel like that i'm off duty of being her friend and i always tell her that and she assures me that no youre my bestest bestest bestest friend ever but then i feel like she is repalcing me with everyone else and she is always talknig about her other friends and stuff but sometimes she is prefectly fine like dana omg your like my bestest bestest friend ever but ever since she broke up with her boyfriend now like every guy is her friend and i feel like I'm the old friend getting thrown out .. somehow i don't believe her when she says i'm the most important person in her life ... like we never gety in fights so i dunno if she would cry over me i fel like testing her .. helpppp

Hey!I went through the SAME EXACT THING!But my friend is one year older than me but the same thing happend. I told my friend and i CRIED about it for like ever! Till this day she acts like she doesn't even care!!!But I moved on..the hard thing is also that SHE IS MY COUSIN. So just tell her how you feel. I think she'll care. GOOD LUCK!

xOXo tasha

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Hey..
I like this guy n i think he likes me too. Im scared to ask him out cuz my friends will maybe b mad at me well i hope it will all work out and im really scared..thank u!

Well ifyour friends will be mad at u for askin out someone u like then ig uess there not really friends..:-/. So take a chance and talk to the guy. If he doesn't like you then his loss.Theres pleNTY of other guys! GOOD LUCK! tell me what happens k?

.::tasha::.

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OMG!! I really can't take this anymore! Ok well all my friends and all are like you changed blah blah!! ANd i dont get the bigg deal it not like they havent changed either! Just cuz im turnin a lil Skater !!! I dont get the big deal and im really sick and tired of it .. what should i do and i tried talkin 2 them but it doesnt work at all !! Please Help me !! I dont kno what i wanna do and i feel like ______
Signed
FED UP!

If they don't wanna accept you then i think you should just find new friends. If they wont accept you there not friends anyways. Try findin people you have more stuff in common with. GOOD LUCK! TELL ME HOW IT WORKS OUT!

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i have a really close relationship with my friend mike he's not a boyfriend or anything and i dont see him that way at all, but he's like an older brother to me and ever since we became friends he has been. well, i USED to dress punk, and he does now too...and well im prep now but he hasnt seen me...im afraid that hes not gunna wanna be my friend anymore since im dressing prep, i mean maybe he still will but maybe he wont...i just have worries, what do i do?

Dress how you wanna dress.If he doesn't like you because that he must not be that great. Thats a really stupid reason to not like someone and I think he'll still like ya. So just be yourself adn GOOD LUCK! Tell me how things turn out!

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Well you see I really honestly don't care for her as a friend anymore. I think she is a bitch. She gets on my damn nerves now. I used to feel sorry for her and want to help her, but you cant help someone who doesnt want to be helped. she would tell me she wanted to stop and then like minutes go get high. I know that she really doesnt want to stop. I think its a shame that something is thought was just "all in fun" is now taking over her life. But, i can no,longer feel any sorrow for her, I think she is just stupid. I don't wanna be her friend. And despite the things she did, and the fact that I no longer like her, I had no problem with my sister hanging with her. I am not the jealous type. But, I just never thought that she would basically encourage my sister to do drugs when she knows that its wrong. I'm just glad that my sister is smart enough to say no. I wanna call her up and tell her " You fuckin little junky, If I ever find out that you are doing drugs around my sister or offering her drugs ever again, so help me god you won't have to worry about the drugs killing you"... thats just how mad I am. Now that you know more about how I feel, what do you think I should say?

Now that I know for sure that you don't like her..if I was you'd i'd call her up..And if you don't wanna be her friend tell her..be like... "Ya kno what?If your gonna let drugs get in the way of our friendship thats been goin on for __ years then oh well I don't need you.If you ever turn back to the old *her name* then maybe you should call me.But until then and IF that ever happends Stay away from my sister!I dont want her to end up like you" Sry..thats harsh but im puttin myself in your shoes and thats just what'd I say. Maybe throw in some other things too.lol Well Good Luck!And I hope it all works out.Drop me another one and tell me what happens k???Dont hold back either,tell her how you feel!

Mad Love
:.tasha.:

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I am 17/f. I had this childhood friend of like 8-9 years. We were best friends, but then we hit a ofrk in the orad and she turned to drugs about a year and a half ago. When I fisrt found out that she did it, I was pissed and told her that she was dumb and shouldnt do it again. She told me she wouldn't, that she was just tryingit so I gave her the benifit of the doubt. Her and I stopped being friends about 6 months ago. She started becoming really selfish,and just always pissing me off. She was telling me she was clean but I know her too well and could tell by how she wasacting that she was lying to me. Now she hangs around with my younger sister who is 16. I just found out the other day, that just as I thought, she is still using. My sister told me she snorts heroin in front of her all the time and that she is getting really bad. She also told me that she offered her soem to try but my she told her no. The fact that she had the nerve to offer my sister drugs really pisses me off. I feel like calling her up and telling her off. I have been debating on doing this for like the past 3 days. I cant seem to stop thinking about it. I understand that she is ruining her life but why would she encourage someone else to do the same? I wanna call her or so bad! I am so mad! I don't know what to do.

I would definetely talk to her...if you love her as af riend and everything then be nice about it.But i'm the type that if i wanna yell at you I will and if i wanna be a b**** about it i will.So I would probaly call her and I probaly would tell her off...not that that is right though.So just do what you feel.I have two younger sisters and if I didn't yell at her I would DEFINETELY talk to her and be like "Its your choice to do stupid things but don't suck my sister into it" Or somethin like that.So good luck!Hope she stops...

:.tasha.:

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my friend whose a girl and 14 told me a few days ago that she cutts. i was devistated wen i heard this. i asked her wat in the world wud make u so miserable as 2 kill urself? and she sed that her family was messed up and that shes ben feeling really depressed. i told her 2 think bout wat life will bring her in the future. youll have kids a husband a job and a happy life. i dont think it convinced her. wat should i do?

Keep talking to her about it.Tell her how if she ever DID die that she'd be missed so much and then she'd make the people that loved her feel the same way she felt when she killed herself.And I bet she wouldn't want that. Communicate with her though..thats the biggest thing.My friend used to cut too.She has improved so much.She doesn't even do it anymore and shes not all depressed and stuff.Well I hope I helped.GOOD LUCK! (Tell me how things work out)

:.tasha.:

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Omg ok my friend Christing is saying stuff about my friend Chantal being mad at her for no reason which is a lie because she talks about Chantal behind her back and then again I don't understand why what should I tell my friend cuz it's pissing me off the fact she talks about Chantal that way??

Tell your "friend" that she needs to shut the heeeeeeeell up. Tell her you don't like how she talks about chantal.Tell her if she doesn't stop then your not gonna hang w/ her.You should talk to her about it cuz you don't wanna end up in the middle!GOOD LUCK! tell me how things work out!

:.tasha.:

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hi. im in a group of 3 best friends. Alexa and Erin. They both tell me that they secretly like me better than the other one and wish it was just the two of us. Alexa says crap about Erin and so on. I love them both and wish they wouldnt do this and could just like eachother. what should i do?

Hi!I've been in this prob before too.I just tell them how i feel..i was in it w/ two girls. My friends were the same two...they'd talk crap about eachother. I just said "Oh well if thats how YOU feel than okay but I like her and you so I'm just not gonna say anything" and they took that and didn't really get mad or anything.They also didn't talk crap to me about one another anymore.I really hope I helped.GOOD LUCK!LET ME KNO HOW IT WORKS OUT IF YOU WANNA!{if u have any more ?'s just ask!}

.:tasha:.

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im upset because my friend has a boyfriend and i dont and she doesnt have a good relationship with him but at least she has 1. i think im mature enough to handle 1.. and i could be with someone in my own grade but at the same time i want to be with someone who is older and more mature than i am. I dont know if i should stick to where i feel comfortable or take a risk and go for the older guys. help me please

I think you should just stay w/ where ur comfortable..then ur relationships will probaly be more stronger and stay longer..lol I hope I helped..GOOD LUCK!!

*~tasha~*

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all my friends think my one guy friend is gay and i think so too..but he deny's it when we say nething about it..what do i do ??

just wait...if he's gay you'll find out sometime..when he finds a mate.lol..sry i couldn't help more...GOOD LUCK!

*much love*
*~tasha~* {plz rate...thanks!}

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--i have a friend who i seriously think is in love with her best friend! hez really sweet and treats her like gold! the only reason nothing hasnt went down between them yet is the fact that he is *20* and she is *15* i know that is a big age difference! but i was just thinkin if maybe they should try something in the future of course!?

Yeah...I think in the future they should definetely try somethin...if they are best friends theyd probaly have a great relationship...I hope I helped...GOOD LUCK!

*much love*
*~tasha~* {plz rate}

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im going to the beach soon, and i was wondering what were some good ways to make friends? (im 14)

If ya see any kids your age then just talk to them...don't be shy.GOOD LUCK!!

*much love*
*~tasha~* {plz rate}

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arite..well when i was about 5 or 6 or maybe even younger ihad a best friend and he was a boy..he lived around the block frum me but directly behind my house!! i juss used to hop the wall and go walk in his house...our parents wer good friends too....i went EVERYWHERE with them and we wer best friends...we did karate together, we juss went eveywhre...swimming lessons, soccer, erything...we wer best friends...and i had a lil brother who we never really liked to play with wed hide frum him, lock him out, nvr invite him newhere etc....and then one day we wer about 7 or 8 i think idk...but my brother n *chris* the guy friend...got in a fight about POKEMON...how dumb...and it juss caused a big argument!! i wasnt allowed to see chris and r parents stopped talking...but now r parents talk alot over the wall and chris mom juss had a baby so id use that as an excuse to go see chris but we nvr really would talk...wed say hi...but nothin else.,..and he is shy around gurls so hes nvr really had a gf...and i was his best gurl friend!!!!! and he was my best guy friend it wuld b s0o0o awesum if it was like that now...and hes s0o0 hott now and im not bad lookin either...and his mom always says she wants us to b friends agen n stuff bc we nvr really got in a fight but it messed ery thing up...it wuld b s00o awesum to hav a best friend thats a guy...who i could talk to...who lives s0o0 close wat shuld i do?...im goin over ther to see the baby tonite i think....wat shuld i say?? hes really shy...and hott...but wat shuld i do?/ plzz help!!!! i miss him!!! it wuld b awesum!! omg plz help me on sumthing i shuld say to him

Talk to him!Tell him how you miss being friends with him and everything...he probaly misses you too!I hope I helped...GOOD LUCK!


*much love*
*~tasha~*

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okay, well, I think I want to break up with my "internet boyfriend". but I don't want to hurt his feelings, and I don't know how to end it :(

Lilly

hey there...just tell him that you don't think that its working out.A lotta my friends have internet boyfriends and they say its really hard cuz you don't get to do anything "physically" and I bet it is..Tell him that.He'll understand.I hope I helped.GOOD LUCK!

*much love*
*~tasha~*

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so my friend wanted to make plans with me today but i was chillin wit her allllll week and i about had enough so when my other friend mel asked me to hang wit her i said shua. and then she called mel on her cell and found out i was with her and now she wont talk to me. wut do i do? please help me asap!

Just tell her how you have more then just one friend...*as in her* and be like she invited me to hang w/ her so i am...sorry maybe we can hang tomorrow...i hope i helped..if u ever need anymore help just ask..GOOD LUCK!!

*much love*
*~tasha~*

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