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Q: I just watched a music video on youtube and it was about this couple, and the guy cheated on the girl. Can anyone tell me where I can watch all the One Tree Hill episods. It looks like a good show. And when is it on tv? (what channel & time) thanks! =D

Its on the CW for new episodes (new season hasnt started yet). But if you have Soap net then its on then every weekday at 1pm and 5pm. They are old episodes. and i believe they just started the first season last week

Q: I'm graduating on the 25th. i have no idea what to do with my hair. I'm asian so i have super straight hair down to my back. It's highlighted and layered and i have no bangs. My face is round and i have dark brown eyes. Any ideas? Thanks!

I suggest you either wear it straight with a quarter pony tail (like a half pony tail but with less hair in it) or you could try to curl it with a curling iron. Use a good brand of hair spray

Q: My bottom lashes are really blonde and you can't see them and it's really hard to put mascara on them. I need to darken them, without completely damaging them. Any suggestions??? Thanks

This isnt going to be a great answer, but there is a thing called eyelash tinting. It doesnt last too long and it costs like $40 i think. but look it up

Q: ok i blowdry my hair every night but when i wake up it's always poofy. how do i make it stay in place even after i wake up??

Oh jeez, usually its the opposite for me. Usually I blow dry it and straighten it then go to bed and its less poofy. But enough about me. You should probably either straigten it. If your going for a curly look, then i suggest maybe styling in the morning. Or when your wearing it either way you could put in frizz control serum and put into a pony tail.

Q: okay i just got my hair cut and i hate it..how long would it take for it to grow an inch or 2 bwlow my sholder..right now it just touching..is there anyway to have my hair grown faster

It will take about 2 months for your hair to grow an inch. For most people, they grow 1/2 an inch in a month

Q: wat can i use so i can have brilliantly bright glass gloss hair? like nicole richies new brunette red carpet hair? lol thankssssssss!

2nd question what can i use/do to make my lips look smaller?

and my eyes?

4th question is what can i do to be a singer someday besides american idol? lol thanks again/////

Bright hair- use color glaze like John Frieda for 3 times a week . Then use Neutragena's Triple Moisture hair mask once a week.

Lips smaller- try using nude color glosses on lips.

Eyes smaller- maybe using black eyeliner on the inner rims.

Singer- involve yourself. anything at school that involves singing do it. try going to a voice coach and a recording company. try to sing at parties and stuff to get yourself known.

Good luck!

Q: I'm not good with matching clothes.

How do you make layers look good?
I've tried doing it.. and it looks out of place.

Are there certain colors to wear together and everything?

I want a more mature look. I'm 16 and I dress all comfy. (like t-shirt & sweatpants) I want to look good, you know?

Wear low cut shirts with camis. If you want a pretty look you can use a lacy cami. Wear short sleeves together as long as one is a tad longer than the other. Things like that. It usually doesnt matter what colors as long as its not like orange and black and weird colors like that. Haha. If you have any specific questions, just ask me.

Q: 13/f

I used to have curly hair (longer then my shoulders) (its naturaly curly)
But then I decided i would straighten it. Because it looks bad curly. Haha.

But now thats its been like 6 months, straight hair is getting super borring, its teh same every day. I need something else.

I want to curl my hair.

this is me. With straight hair

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what can i use to make it curly? remeber i have naturaly curly hair!!

Wash your hair. When you get out of the shower brush it and then wrap your hair in a towel (that makes my hair curlier). I use Redken 07 curling gel stuff or this mouse stuff that my sister gave me from this special salon. It works pretty good, I have really long hair so its harder but i'm sure on shorter hair it works even better!

Q: Do you think pink or black dye would look better on the tips of a medium brown hair color?

It depends on what your looking for. Both would look fine but I suggest the black.

Q: Ok, I have REALLY thick hair and there's soooo much of it! It's course and really wavy. It also gets frizzy easily. It is currently long and when straightened it goes about halfway down my back. Does anyone have any advice on what kind of hair cut I should get? I don't want it too short. I was thinking bangs but I'm not sure...some pictures or websites would be a HUGE help!!
Thanks

It sounds like i have the SAME EXACT kind of hair as you. Haha. Mine is at the same length currently but I liked my hair the best when it was like an inch or two below my shoulders, angled, and thinned. But now i have sideswept bangs and i think they look cute.

Q: i was thinking of getting my 12 year old cousin this bag from abercrombie for christmas: http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10101&catalogId=10851&parentCategoryId=12103&childCatgroupId=12103&categoryId=12148&productId=2&langId=-1 in white.. && i was wondering if it would be to big for a 12 year old ? im buying it for her as a purse, not a bookbag. thanks!

I think that would be good. A 12 year old needs a tote for going on field trips and sleepovers and all.

Q: ok. so i bought black leggings to wear with my jean skirt. but i just dont know what to wear with them.

right now i have 2 choices.
choice 1.
black flats
black leggings
dark jean skirt
dark grey long sleeve shirt w/ white and greyish flowers on it

OR
choice 2
black flats
black leggings
dark jean skirt
light purple wife beater tank top
black jacket that has blue and purple on it

which one sounds better? tried them both on and i cant decide

I think choice one. But whatever you feel better in, go for it

Q: 16-f

ive always been unhappy about my nose. i think its kinda big and i dont know! i know i have to live with it but its something ive always been self-conscious about. and it made me even MORE tonight. you see there is this adorable kid and hes really sweet and hes always thought i was hott my cousin said. but then tonight he came up somehow and my cousin was like he said you werent so hott anymore and because you had a jacked up nose or something. this made me feel really bad about myself because i thought people were getting past seeing my nose. everyone thinks im soo pretty but i just cant get over my nose and sometimes i just think im overreacting but then when people start saying stuff i know its true. i just dont know what to doo.. =(

Don't worry about it. I am sure you really are beautiful. Try to concentrate more about your best features and your personality. That guy was an ass to say that anyway, so he couldnt have been worth it.

Q: hey guys(:

I got a haircut like, last year and loved it. But the problem is everyone copied me. Maybe they didn't exactly copy me, but whatever they did EVERYONE has it. So my point is i want a new haircut. Right now i have medium length, angled and layered hair with thick side bangs. What can I do to it to make it, err, unique?

You could dye it or highlight it. If you dont want to go that extreme you could cut it shorter or wear it different ways, curl it, scrunch it, straighten it, wear it up, wear it half up, do whatever.

Q: what's appropriate to where with flats? i just have simple black flats and i'm not sure what will look okay with them.

Anything. Just be fun and creative and wear whatever with them.

Q: 14/f

Well i'm in the 8th grade, and I dont have a best friend... is that bad??? I'm not saying that I am lonely and I have no friends, I have plenty of friends.. just none of them are actually my BEST friends. Arn't best friends supposed to be there for you when you're feeling low? and they always come and sleepover and you always share secrets with each other? welll it seems like whenever I go up to my other friends, they are always busy with 'their' other best friends. It's like they have no intrest in me anymore. My brother just moved away to college and my cousin is staying with us for a while. I have a dog, could that be my best friend? I just feel like I have a lot of depression going on in my life and I really need somebody to talk to. yes, i know.......... I can talk to you on advicenators, but I need somebody not only for talking... but to share my happy moments with, a best friend
and I know you'll say talk to your family.... but the thing is.. both of my parents are ALWAYS working... they leave the house way earlier than I do... and the next time I see them is when i'm asleep. Its just not fair. My brother is in college, and my cousin is always hanging out with his friends or finding some excuse not to be in the house. I'm really sad that I dont have a best friend, and I'm a very busy person.... could that be the reason why I dont have a best friend? cause i'm always busy and they never have any time with me????????
You might say join a school activity and meet friends there... but TRUST ME! I dont make friends easily, lets just say I get SUPER SUPER SUPER nervous when I meet new people, or give a speech to a class. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!! I FEEL SO ALONE.... I always see kids in the hallway, hanging out with their best friends, and I am really sad that I dont have a best friend there by me. WHAT SHOULD I DO????????????
OH AND IF YOU COULD: ANOTHER QUESTION= HOW DO I GET RID OF THE FEAR OF MEETING NEW PEOPLE AND GIVING OUT SPEECHES??????????????? THANKS SOOOOOOOOO MUCH... I KNOW THIS WAS LONG, BUT THANKS

I didnt have a best friend last year, when I was in 8th grade either. I had many close ones but not a best one. You have to trust me, you'll find one eventually. Just pick one friend you like the best and try to hang out with her (or him) a lot. Try not to show any annoying habits at first. And hopefully you will have a new best friend.

For giving speeches.. i hate that too. You just need to relax and remember that everyone else is just as nervous.

For meeting new people just be yourself. Try to be more outgoing and start up a fun conversation, make a few jokes, and be nice. And remember when you are meeting someone that they could turn out to be your new best friend, or a new friend!

Q: ok this question might seem a bit weird. when i do my hair in the morning, i usually straighten it & wear it down. basically, by like 11 i have to put it up. it annoys me so much. i just can't write and have it down because my hair is thick and i have a lot of it. i put it up in one of those cute little messy buns but i dont know. for some reason i think its prettier to wear it down & if i wear it up i feel boyish. im basically just wondering what your opinion is. should girls just wear their hair down all the time?? or is it pretty to wear it up too??

thanks!!

I have a similar problem as you. My hair is so thick that its a pain to wear it down all the time. I try to wear it down because i feel i look better. Yes, sometimes wearing your hair down does make you look more feminine but its okay to wear your hair up once and a while. Try to wear your hair down (all day) for like two or more times a week and wear your hair up the other days.

Q: i want some ripped lookin jeans but 50 dollars boy isn`t that expensive.
actually i can`t aford clothes so expensive at the moment..
maybe 20 at the most for jeans so do you know any sites i can look at thanks.
keep in mind not expensive..

Just buy a pair of cute jeans at a department store or whatever for cheap or and old pair of jeans you have. Then rip them yourself! Get a cheesegrater or sand paper or something if you want them distressed and get some scissors and put a small hole in the knee and rip it so its bigger.

Q: I color my hair a lot...but next week when i get it done i would like to just do it one color. Right now it's brown with dark brown, black, and blonde streaks. I don't have a picture of it but i want like a shade of brown that's dark but not really dark. I have fair skin and baby blue eyes. So what shade of brown is right for me?? Pictures would help!!!!
THANKS.

I love love love the combination of dark brown hair and blue eyes. I say a shade like Alexis Bledel's. (http://www.celebritydesktop.com/images/actresses/alexis_bledel.jpg)
If you personally don't like it, pick ot a shade that you think will be best

Q: hi :]
16/f
well me and my mom were talking yesterday and shes like i think i might know something else to get you for christmas! and im like what? and shes like have you ever heard of the CHI straightener? and im like yea the one that costs like $200. i heard its suppose to be good but for anyone that uses it does it really work good or what because i will feel bad to have her like spend so much and have me not like it!! well thank you.

I dont have one but a lot of my friends do and sometimes they straighten my hair for me with one. I am hopefully getting one for christmas too. They are really good! If you feel bad about your mom getting you one with so much money, just tell her not to spend too much on other things.

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