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i love curling my hair with a curling iron. but everytime i do it, the curls only stay in for 2 hours or less.. i put hair spary in (loads of it) but it doesnt work. anyone know any kinds of hairspary or something?
Just another suggestion to throw out there... if you're looking for really tight spirals I have the answer for you. I don't know what type of curling iron you have, but I have one with a spiral around it that gives you an awesome curl that stays in for hours. I purchased mine at walmart, it was made by conair, and im pretty sure it wasn't more than $15. Another thing you might want to try if you're not willing to buy the new curling iron is not washing your hair directly before curling because it could cause your hair to be more limp. If you're afriad your hairs not smelling completely fresh top it off with some herbal essence hairspray. that should do the trick =)
Where can u buy cute trucker hats for girls? Like Von Dutch or something.. I rate!
If you go to American Eagle in the guys section, they have a wide variety of trucker-like hats. A lot of them could really be for a boy or a girl. And they're not that expensive either.
inbox me if you need more help babe!
I am aware that this will not get an award for brevity, but humor me.
Background info: I am someone who is known to have an incredibly individual, crazy, random style. I love uniqueness, and I hate wearing things that I know what 1 million other people are wearing. This goes for anything of the sort, whether it's a studded belt or a short little Hollister skirt- BUT this question is mostly geared towards the latter (to clarify, the clothing that the so-called "pretty people" wear).
I'm really trying to comprehend how people can like clothing like what is sold at Hollister or those type of stores. I guess it's almost humorous since I know the majority of people ask the same question about my outfits a good deal of the time- what could she possibly be thinking with that outfit? But I just don't understand...and I'm honestly trying to be as accepting of others expressions as I wish they would be of my own.
What joy do you get out of wearing these mass manufactured clothes that aren't even worth taking two looks at? They are so BORING and unoriginal and so..lacking in any creativity. Not to mention, those skirts practically show butt cheeks and things I DO NOT WANT TO SEE! EW! Between the false advertising (Feefee's stupid ass coconut shack, etc.) and the atrocious amount of skin shown, I can only wonder what America's "pretty people" are thinking and if they really are so "pretty."
Can someone please help me understand?
I have to say you make a very good point, as this is a very intelligent question. I like what the columnist beneath me had to say.
I'm going to let you know off the bat that I'm one of those people who might shop at Hollister from time to time. Before you write me off, hear what I have to say. Yes, those shorty short skirts could go. I personally would feel naked if I was wearing one of those, and would not allow myself to step into public. And yes those false advertisement shirts are really a nuisance, but atleast no ones forcing YOU to have to wear them.
About the unoriginality, I'm not so sure that's true. Some people have a desire to be noticably different, while others don't nescesarily yearn for it but can still stand out in the crowd. I have to say that if you shop at hollister it does not automatically make you like everybody else. First of all, I think Abercrombie and Fitch is more overdone than Hollister, but I guess that's not the point.
Some people might just throw on a plain old polo and a pair of jeans. Where there are others who might layer and try different colors and maybe a pair of pants that aren't jeans. It depends how creative you are. There are some preppy styles that are more "daring".
And this may come off as strange, but I think the "joy" people get out of wearing these clothes is because they like them. Whether or not you think they're too common, I don't think that's nescesarily true. People can mix and match them with different clothes from other stores. That's the cool part of it. That's what makes it creative.
So maybe it seems unoriginal to you, but just like you might like to wear something a bit outlandish, others like to wear their preppy clothes.
Again...cheeky shorts or mini skirts can go die. They ruin an outfit. They scream for the wrong attention. So let's hope every girl out there that insists on wearing them gets raped by a 53-year-old transexual truck driver.
Just kidding. What I mean is, there's not really much we can do. Just enjoy your style and respect other people's even if it's not your favorite. Clothes is clothes. They're just materials used to conceal ourselves so that we're not completely naked. Where it ever got so complex with 'fashion' and 'style' I do not know. I want you to keep in mind just how a super mini skirt could attract bad attention, so can a very 'different' pair of lime green leggings. It's sort of the same. Just how you think hollister is dreadful, so might someone who saw your different style.
If you wish to be respected, you have to attempt to respect others. Which, you might already be doing. I'm not trying to badmouth your style. I know plenty of people who have the same attitude about fashion or clothes. In fact, you'd get along great with a lot of people I know.
I hope this was of some use, again, I think it's a great question.
Can anyone give me good brands of Hair Straightners? Doesn't matter if expensive, just the best brands in your perspectives. Thanks.
NaImEE ♥
Chi straightners supposedly work like gold...they are really expensive but there's nothing better out there.
merry christmas babee ♥
I wanna get the side-swept bangs hair cut and I was wondering something..
Do you personally think it's better to have the bangs on the right or left side? Like, which do you think looks better?
It'd also be nice if anyone had good pictures of the haircut (of yourself or famous person or anyone) cause I wanna see some :)
Thanks!
I don't think it matters either way, but if you have anything to hide on your face you might want to consider. Do you have a beauty mark of scar you don't like? Anything on the left or right side of your face you want to cover? Because if you do, consider that when you chose which way the bangs should be swept. That's the real beauty in having bangs! Other than that, I don't think it makes a difference. I personally like side bangs longer, they're easier to pull out of your face if needed, and there really is no such thing as "too long" because if the hairdresser starts to cut them and you prefer to have them shorter, you can always cut them shorter. However, it's not like you can grow your bangs longer if they came out too short. See what I mean?
♥ merry christmas baby
What can I do to get my hair curly/spiraled mixed? Like, what should I use?
Curl-up from Walmart/Target/CVS wherever works great. Your hair should be wet, you should put some in your hair and bend over. Then, take a towel and mess it up a little so that it starts to curl.
Hopefully that should work for you.
merry christmas baby!
heyy its me agian
i was just wondering, since you said jus abercrombie is the one for kids, is that like a seperate store??
And if they can you find them easily
i just wanted to know cuz i prolly wont fit in a&f
thanks
yep it is a seperate store. You can find them in most malls. Some malls have both of them either next to eachother or in different locations. Check the website (www.abercrombiekids.com) and see where there's stores near you.
Yeah i know this is like really random, but i was just wondering, how do you guys feel about the store Abercrombie and Fitch. I was reading about it online and so many people seem to hate it!!!
i don't really shop there that often but i was thinking of getting some clothes there for christmas and i was just wanted to know some of yall opinionss on it
Here's the lowdown. I find their styles amazingly cute. Different things to layer and dress you up or down. Cute PJ's. But overpriced. Way overpriced. I think you can get equally nice stuff at American Eagle Outfitters for a lot cheaper.
Same quality of clothing, and same type of clothing, only cheaper. American Eagle is no crappy store, trust me. Some of their stuff is pricier when it first comes out but you can get good sales there, and there clothes is worth it.
Sometimes A & F have these paperthin shirts for 50 or 60 bucks...when meanwhile it's see-through and you STILL need to buy another shirt to go under it. It's ridiculous really. Then again, they do have some nice hoodies & ripped jeans. Keep in mind American eagle has that stuff too though & their name is still respectable.
Since it is christmas, I think this of all times would be the best to ask for since you're not paying yourself. Although, if you want to be easy on the people buying gifts for you, you might want to mention American Eagle or ask for one or two specific things at Abercrombie & Fitch, or maybe ask for a gift certificate.
There is a kids version of A & F...just abercrombie. They're a little bit cheaper and their sizes run bigger so you most likely would be able to fit into those clothes too if you want an alternative.
Hope that I've made sense :)
Inbox me if you need to know anything else.
my hair is a about mid-back, and i need to get it cut. my current style is side-bangs. does anyone have any cute ideas that will allow me to keep my hair with the side-bangs, but yet cut it shorter? pictures would help also.
I'm not sure how short you were looking to go, but how bout a Reese Witherspoon look like from Sweet Home Alabama?
heres a picture: http://www.unreel.co.uk/reviews/s/Sweet_Home_Alabama/coal.jpg
it's got the side bangs and everything. It might seem a little scary but I think it's super cute and if you think you can pull it off you should! I think it's absolutely adorable and it makes a statement since most people don't have short hair...and if they do it's not always cute. But this, is definitely cute.
If you're not looking to go that short...
You can do like an Ashlee Simpson:
http://www.funmunch.com/celebrities/actresses/ashlee_simpson/wallpapers/ashlee_simpson_wallpapers_4_1024_768.jpg
It's got the side bangs and a bunch of angles and stuff. Cute as well!!
If you want a less angled-choppy look, do it like Julia Styles and throw in some side bangs:
http://multikultura.org.uk/images/tlog/dvd_5_4.jpg
Hmm all I can come up with right now. But, if you still don't find what you're looking for, tell me and I'll look for some more for you if you give me more specifics.
Good Luck !! Tell me what you decide on, I hope it comes out cute :)
easy 5's people!~~
does anyone know any good sites that have clothes. i want really different ones, sorta punk-ish. and if you know the name of a catalouge, that would be great too.
thx :D
www.alloy.com
www.hottopic.com
www.journeys.com
www.delias.com
Good Luck! :)
what are some good things to ask for for christmas ecause i want some things but like my dad asks me and i dont really know what i want i want a tiffanys necklace but i dont wanna seem like a spoiled stuck up priss so im not gonna sk but i need some good things to ask for
If you ask for more things, get smaller, inexpensive things. But if you want to get a tiffanys necklace, ask for less. I know the feeling. After all though, you don't want him to wind up getting you something you don't care for. Just tell him the truth, and say that if he can't take care of that financially it's fine.
Why do you think that punk is wearing band T-shirts and a certain kind of belt? And Goth has to do anything with blood and skulls?
Again, that was just my little summary of it.
Why, you ask? It's only what I observe. And I observe many, many people. Please do NOT flip out on me. I clearly stated that I was sorry if I was off a bit.
I will not get in some battle over music, labels, and posers and what not. I answered a question to the best of my ability, please don't judge me. I did not state anywhere that I was 100% right. I clearly stated that everyone has their own take on these styles.
sorry if for some reason you are offended. Maybe explain to me your offense?
Haha, just kidding, I've been dressing myself for years, but the problem is that I've just now discovered my fashion sense. I actually know what looks cute and what doesn't! Before I used to wear hoodies and jeans, or t-shirts and jeans to school every day,(I'm a little bit chubby, so I liked that extra padding to hide it) but now I know what looks ok. The only problem is that I'm afraid to wear it. It's my junior year of high school, and right in the middle of the year is kind of a weird time to "re-invent myself". How do I get over this fear? I want to wear scarves to school, and nice jackets, and skirts, but I'm scared! Thanks! (I'll rate high if your advice is good, which is generally the concept or rating anyway..)
Don't be afraid!!
Are you HONESTLY going to hide behind baggy clothing and T's because your afraid of 'reinventing' yourself and having people notice? Nope! If anything, now is the best time. Make a smooth transition. Like, a little at a time.
The only way to get over the fear is by knowing this much; you owe it to yourself for the time you spent wearing unimpressive clothing.
What other people think DOESN'T matter...although the only thoughts they can have are gonna be good ones. Like..."Wow (yourname) looks really cute today"
The guy I'm kinda seeing likes the "natural look"; no makeup, real breasts, and he prefers I don't shave because it's more natual, things like that. I'm at that point where I haven't quite snagged him as a boyfriend yet, but I'd really like to, so I'm willing to kind of change my style to make myself more attractive to him.Right now, my style would probably be labeled as "emo", and I wear alot of vintage-inspired clothing as well.
So here's my question: how can I achieve the "natural" look with my style, hair, and anything else?
Of course you might want to tweak a few things here and there, but don't overwhelm yourself with a new wardrobe or anything. You pretty much said it yourself, although I'm not sure you should deprive yourself of makeup. If you like it just wear it so that it creates a natural look. You cannot completely alter your lifestyles according to his wishes. Sure, you may change a little, but don't let him think he controls your life. Especially if your not exclusive yet. As for your hair, don't dye it or use anything unnatural such as hairspray/mousse/gel as long as it's controllable and not overly frizzy or too curly. Although, there is ways of creating natural looks, (if that makes sense...i mean...creating something NATURAL? ;-) ) You might wear your hair in loose curls (curling iron or rollers). Minimal jewelry if any...small pieces of either gold or silver. Solid-colored shirts, specifically white,biege, or black with ripped jeans might make it cute.
i have those kinds of body spray/perfume from gap and i was wondering what can i do to keep my body spray/perfume last longer throughout the day so i can smell good ?
please dont tell me to put a lot on
Hmm there's really nothing you can do for sure just carry some in your purse and use the bathroom whenever you need some more. Yeahh def. don't put a lot on :P. Also, you might be able to find longer lasting sprays if you experiment but I don't know of any...I think it's normal for the scent to fade.
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iknow that marshalls have brand cloths like ae and abercrombie and express and stuff like that but i was wondering if they have any hoodies from ae or abercrombie there for less money? anyone know
I don't think I've seen Abercrombie yet at Marshalls, but I've DEFINITELY seen AE hoodies there for cheaper than they sell at the actual store. Only difference is that the sweatshirts there are usually from last season--but who even cares--a sweatshirt is a sweatshirt. Actually, though, when AE's sweatshirts go on sale they're pretty cheap in the actual store on the sale rack ($15,$20, sometimes even $10!!)
okay im a girl.. wen i straighten my hair the right side always like curls out within an hour..its so annoying does anyoneee know how to fix it?
Well, try clipping the hair on the top layer up initially so you can straighten the underneath pieces easier. Take longer for each strand and give yourself enough time to do it. If this doesn't work, get a new straightener.
Every time I put on my liquid foundation it ends up looking caked and dryed out. Then it ends up wearing off an hour later. Anyways to fix this ?
Try a new foundation. Some products work better than others and remember you get what you pay for. In other words, the more you spend, the better results from the product.
Me my friend are going to start a t-shirt line that says stuff on it like random sayings, eventually we'll go into pants like sweats and necklaces or whatever. thing is we need a name for our label i was wondering if anyone had some ideas??
The sayings are going to be dirty(lol), funny, and random but we will do some design stuff too the look will be kind of punk/urban/suburbs kinda look so yeah just to give you an idea. Thanks so much!!!!
Urban Trash
Flying Colors
Fit for Utopia
Tremoring Trend/s
arcane buzz
Serendipitous liners
Ameni-T'S (the t is for tshirts)
Metallic merch.
ultra-violet rays
Autumn's Ended
hopeee atleast one of these are good. Some are very random...some more literal. Let me know what you choose I'm interested. Have fun!
My aunt passed 8 months ago. Her and I just so happen to wear the same size clothing. About 4 weeks ago, my uncle brought over some of my aunt's clothes for me to go through and pick out what I would like to keep. He gave the clothes to us, so I'm not pressed for time to decide because we don't have to return them or anything like that, but my Mom has been rushing me to look through them so she can clear them out of the basement. Thing is, I don't want the clothes. It's not that they're unappealing to me. It's that it would just be too emotionally upsetting to have them. I really don't want them, and I'm firm in my decision. My mom views it as, "perfectly good clothes", and since they're free, she might be a tad bit mad if I didn't accept them. Don't get me wrong, I've very thankful for the offer. But I just don't want to look like a total jerkface to my unlce's family. *Do you think it would be rude of me to refuse the clothing?
I honestly don't think it would be rude of you to deny the clothing so long as you thorougly explained your reasoning. Tell your mother that it is not about the appeal of the clothing, rather the emotions that it will evoke. Say your getting ready for school, and all the sudden you pull on that sweater your aunt wore this past christmas...it might take a lot out of you and make you upset. Describe it in this way and remind your mom that those physical things are not what your aunt should be remembered as...explain all the real memories are in your heart where they should be.