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hi. well, i have a younger sister. shes 2 years younger than me, and i have a problem. my bedtime this year is 10, and last year it was 10:30 [wtf..] and i even told my mom but of course all shed say was "10 is good for me..hey a bug." and whenever i get something my younger sister gets it the same year! like our allowances have been the same our whole lives, and they started when i was like 9 and she was 7. AND the year i got a cell phone SHE DID!! and i just know shes gunna get an ipod this year like i did over the summer with my own money. i hate this crap. it isnt fair that i have to wait 2 more years than her to get the same stuff she does. how do i aproach my mom? **NOTE: she ALWAYS says "because i said so" -or- "u always are complaining" (link)
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say something like...
"Mom, ____ is 2 years younger than me and do you really think its fare for her to get everything I do?"
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i think my sister is anorexic or bulimic....idk what to do tho bc every time i ask her about it, she just denys it, but all of her friends tell me she is, what should i do?! (link)
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are you gonna believe her friends or her?
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my sis just got her first boyfriend & she likes himbut im worried he doesn't like her. He kissed her a few times but he never calls her & i read in a mag that that means he's not really into her!!! can u help.plese do
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why are you worried about it?? you should concentrate on getting one yourself. it's her life.
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im a thirteen year old responsible teenager the problem with me is that my parents are getting a divorce. i dont have a problem with dat because my dad treats my mum like shit he beats her up and all all that stuff. Now i really want a boyfreind but my mum says no she says you cant have one till im 21 when i asked her why she said because in her day the didnt have boyfreinds at that age. everytime i want 2 mke my own decisions she makes them for me like wat clubs to join wat freinds i should hve what clothes to wear and im getting sick of it (i always have been) please help i also have a problem confronting her with my problems because she dups all her problems on me like im her phycatrist or sth, i cry myself to sleep everyday plse help (link)
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tell her this. straight out. i mean thats bull shit. she's full of shit. 21??? my god im 13 and my moms pushing me to get a boyfriend!!! just tell her.
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Ive know this guy since i was born and were really good friends. We were on vacation with them one year and my brother keept stealing him away from me! I dont like him as a boyfriend but he is like my best friend and my brother is taking him away from me! what should i do? (link)
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so what your saying is.. your brother wants him to?
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My cousin's family invited me to go on a cruise with them to Cancun and Cozemel. I really want to go but if my cousin and I spend at least 2 hours together, we don't get along. She will get mad at me and I will have no one to hang out with because her dad's side of the family is coming, too (I don't know them because we're not related) But this is a once in a lifetime opportunity...Should I go or no?? (link)
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yes you should go!! and oh tell me how it goes because im going to cozemal in 2 years. about your cousin.. i think vacations make everyone easier on eachother... so just give it a try.. or roll it alone if it doesnt work.
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june 2004 my cousin died from a mistake a police officer made. i cant seem to get over his death and i dont know who to talk to. i still cry all the time over him, and i htink about him a lot too. the rest of my family has moves on it seems, and they dont like to talk about him. if u have been in this situation... or one like it please shre advice. thanks (link)
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i know exactly how u feel. my best friend died 1 year ago last ssturdaya nd im still upset.
Even if you think the rest of your familys over it, most likely they arent. people have different ways of showing sadness or emotion.
You could talk to a counsler or something. At my school, they had like 10 counslers in the library because a girl in our school died. and acctually i think it helped those people. u dont need 10 counslers.. maybe 1.
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my dad hits me. and i'm really afraid of him. when he comes home from work i stay in my room. but whenever i do something wrong. even when i get less than an A on a test he'll hit me and say i'm not living up to my potential. i don't know what to do. He hits my mom to and i get badly bruised from the battles. what can i do? who can i go to? and is there anyway possible that i can get out of my house and be adopted or something? help me Please. (link)
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you should call the child abuse people. im totally serious thats fucked up.
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my sister and i have always gotten along great...until last week when she came home...shes 21 & im 14 btw..anyways, she became the first to find out about some "not so good" stuff ive been doing and told me i had to tell mom..I DONT WANNA! she said if i by next week shes going to!im so mad @ her! PLEASE HELP! i dont want my mom knowing and i dont want to loose the awesome relationship w/ my sister either! (link)
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you obviously dont have an "awesome" relationship with her.
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I have a 17 yr old nephew that I am fairly close too and really care about, yet not close enough where he trusts me enough to talk openly and honestly with me.
A couple of weeks ago he got into some trouble in school. This is the story he told his parents (my sister is his mom) and the school principal. A kid his age threatened to beat him up in sixth period, and even shoot him. Come sixth period, the guy took a swing at my nephew, infront of all the other students as well as the teacher, my nephew ducked, then punched the guy in the face. Then everyone was cheering them on when the another teacher broke it all up. Long story short, my nephew gets suspended, and since this was his third suspension, all for stupid, stupid actions on his part, he was sent to a local continuation high school. Coincidently enough, so was the bully who threatened him.
I fear for my nephew. I want his entire family to move out of their bad neighborhood, but they are too scared to face the facts. I am on the outside looking in, and I can only imagine what the future holds for my nephew and his other siblings.
My nephew appears to have no aspirations for anything. I have always been the nice uncle who has freely experienced the world. I want to help him, I want him to see that there is a HUGE world out there just waiting for him, but how? How do I help him see outside his little box? (link)
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well the school is so gay. why in the world would they send 2 kids who consistently fight to the same school? that's really gay.
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okay.. theres no topic for this cuz I dont knwo what it should be but what ever... anyways... my mom is constantly finding my money that I hide and or takes it from me as soon as I get it to go get drugs.. I dont know what I should do about my whole situation and she is very manipulative so if u say go to the police she will get her way out of it (believe me Ive tried) what should I do? (link)
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wow. you should talk to her about it, and hide your money in a new place.
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me and my sister argue like crazy.its constant.my confidence is already low as im struggling at school.shes not making it any easier calling me thick shit etc.i try not to argue cos it really upsets my mum but i cant let her get away with it can i?what shall i do.i tried talking carmly to her but it doesnt werk?plse reply swn i rate good!xxxx (link)
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bitch slap that hoe til she cant breathe
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