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Q: HELP!

I need Mother's Day gift ideas!

under 20 bucks : )
this is what i got at target: cheap and easy:

*nice wooden picture frame: sale $3
*really pretty bracelet: *8
*nail polish: $0.97 each!
*manicure set: $3
*candle: $10

do a combo of any of those things for under $20~

and at my target they have a dollar section which is great because you can do a combo of a lot of things that looks like a lot but theyre only $1 each!

have fun!

Q: I think my parents are gonna get a divorce? What do i stop or help to prevent that?
im sry to say i dont think you can stop it. its their decision and it may be for the best (even though it doesnt seem like that.) they just dont want to fight in front of you, or siblings. and it would make them happier probably, and it would help you/siblings by not having to see them argue or whatever they do. i hope everything works out between you and them. just be strong and brave and everything will work out for the best.

Q: well i need some advice because i've been wearin a thong for about a year now and i've kept it a secret from mi mom but yesterday she found 1 ov them and she didnt really care and wen she asked if it waz mine i said it was my friends. and my problem is i really don't wanna tell her tha truth... :( ( sould i stop wearin them??) i don't know wat 2 do if she brings up tha subject again? thanx ur advice would mean a lot to me....
dont stop wearing them, its your personal choice what to wear. its not like people are gonna see them when you wear them. just tell her that your old enough and mature enough to wear them, because it shouldnt be a big deal. just later tell her that it was your thong. i dont think she would care if you were wearing them still, because youve been wearing them for a year. and plus you need to wear thongs if your wearing tight and white clothes, or sometimes things printed. hopefull your talk will work out.

Q: im depressed. i have ALL the signs of teen depression [ i looked them up ]

i dont feel myself lately. i dont like me. i cant sleep. i cry for no reason. im really mean to people around me. this year my grades went from A's and B's...to all F's.

ugh...any ideas on how to tell my mom? i want to tell her i need to see a theripist but im scared of how to bring it up and stuff..
if you dont want to go straight out and tell her, ask her to make a doctors appt. for you (just the reg. checkup doctor) mayb ask for a routine physical. usually in those your parents arent in the room, so you can say to the doctor that you didnt really want the physical (even though youll probably still get one), but talk to them about depression. reg. doctors can help too because they know about depression. and also your regular doctor can schedule a session with a therapist without you having to talk about it with your mom. but if you dont want to do that whole route, just tell your mom you want to talk about somethings goin on in your life right now to someone. and if she says you can talk to me (which she might), just say that i dont really want it to be anyone, so maybe i can go to a therapist. sry if tht all is really confusing...i just know that if you are depressed, its best to go see someone or talk to a really good friend. i hope it all turns out well.

Q: my mom is really overprotective. she doesnt like to let me go hang out with my friends. i guess she doesnt trust me, but i just dont know why. she seems to thimk that i will get kidnapped or something. but whenever i go out its always with a lot of people, but she still doesnt trust me. none of my friends parents are like that. how can i earn her respect and trust? oh yah im 13 and a girl
ive had the same problem awhile ago...i just gave her reasons to trust me and how she should know that im not gonna do anything stupid while out. tell her you have good judgement and give you a couple chances the first time and if shes not comfortable maybe she can reconsider...hope that helps!

Q: im a 15 year old girl and ive lived with my dad for the past 3 years and its hard to talk to him about girl stuff. how can i talk to him without making both of us unconfortable.
i rate high for good answers. thank you
try talking to a friend first about it so you kinda know what your getting into...but he knows that hes gonna have to talk to you eventually about that stuff so it might as well come sooner than later. hes probably prepared for it, so just try to bring it up in a suddle convo, dont outburst and start putting everything on him at once...just kinda ease into all that.i hope everything goes good!

Q: 13/f
okwell my sister got caught sneaking out and ever sincemy parents wont let me do anythng even though i would never do that. so is there anyway that i can get them to relax, and see that im not like her?

please help!!!
just show them how mature you are...i mean just because your related doesnt mean you share the same personality. give them reasons to trust you...theyll grow outta the fase pretty quick.

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