When it comes to relationships I've been through a lot. I used to be so desperate to be in one I'd get myself in the worst situations, but no matter how bad things were I got through them and now I'm in a loving, caring relationship and have been for almost two years.
I like to give honest, blunt advice and I won't write a book for an answer that can be summed up in two lines! I don't care about my rating, so I'll tell you the truth rather than what you want to hear. So if you don't like the harsh reality of what I'm going to tell you don't ask me private questions.
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Location: England
Age: 20
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my friend has a verizon camera phone and she doesnt ahve internet access or text messageing.. the thing is, we took a really cute picture of us and i really want it but i dont know how we could get it.. anything that you think we could do?? (link)
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Maybe you can upload it to your computer? You can get USB cables for many phones and they're dead cheap. If nothing else works I guess you could try taking a picture of the picture on her phone? It probably won't look so good though.
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I was shaving my legs last night and I got to the back of my upper legs (between the back of my knee and my butt) and it hurt for some reason. It felt like a sore that you've scratched so much its like raw. Well it wasn't really hurting when I went to sleep but all today during school its hurt like when I sat at my desk and stuff and I don't even know what it is and it swelled up. It basically looks like a sore that you've scratched so much and now its in the form of a bump. But I've never scratched there or anything... (link)
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Maybe you shaved a small, thin layer of skin off? I've done that before... really painful! don't worry, it'll heal.
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whenever im at school, i dont look good and whenever im outta school i look better.. why is this?! (link)
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Maybe school is getting you down? Or you're more relaxed out of school? The lighting could be bad at school? It was always the same with me when I went to school, mostly because school was depressing and I never had enough time to make an effort in the morning.
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i wear my mother-inlaw & sister-inlaws clean & scented panties.ihave plenty of my own,& my wifes pairs just dont do it. i want to tell them before they find out that i been in their draws &hampers.i dont wnat them to get mad or upset so im trying to find a way to let them know what im doing before they find out,especially my mother-inlaw. (link)
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It's never a good idea to tell someone something like that, this is where the saying "what they don't know can't hurt them" applies. But you need to stop, because wearing, stealing and smelling someones panties without their permission is wrong. Just because you have a fetish for it doesn't mean you are allowed to do it. Leave it as a fantasy. Many people fantasize about things that they should never do like rape and incest but luckily those people have enough self control not to carry out their fantasies.
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My best friend just told a huge secret of mine. Do I have the right to be angry?
The secret wasn't that big of a deal but it kinda meant a lot to me.
Thanks in advanced! (link)
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Yes, I'd be angry too. I wouldn't tell her anything else in the future.
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I weigh 130 and I have soo many stretch marks. And I've had these huge huge huge patches on my legs since 7th grade but I gained 2 pounds since last year and got 18 more stretch marks on my sides. And its really hard because I'm trying to eat better and exercise and every time I see the stretch marks it makes me unhappy and it makes me want to give up and stop caring and I sit there and cry and cry because its so ugly and it makes me ugly. And its swimsuit season and I cant do this I cant live like this anymore but I have no options and it is really hard I feel so terrible about myself but nobody understands because nobody else I know has my problem and has stretch marks like me. When I look at them I just want to take a knife and cut the stretch marks out of my body. I know this is bad and that something is wrong and I'm not sure what to do about it because I'm too embaressed to tell my mom about my new stretch marks that are really depressing me because it means I failed.
I feel miserable, please help. I'm desperate. (link)
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Your stretch marks are more likely to be because you're growing not because you gained 2lb. you get stretch marks from large amounts of weight gain not a couple of pounds. Most women do get them, but they're more noticable t the person they're on than other people.
In time they'll fade and be hardly noticable. Try using cocoa butter on them for now. It's like a moisturiser than helps get rid of scars and stretch marks. Most people say it doesn't work but a friend of mine had burn scars and it cleared them up completly, those people probably don't commit to using it constantly. Put it on your stretch marks 3 times a day for as long as it takes and don't give up if you don't notice a difference straight away it could take a while.
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I was just wondering what most people thought.
Would you rather regret something you said or regret not saying anything at all? And why? Your opinion means nothing if you don't explain. (link)
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It really depends what's being said. Care to tell us what you're thinking of saying?
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If I get my belly button pierced soon, how long do I have to wait to be able to go in the ocean and a swimming pool for long periods of time? Summer is commming soon but I want my belly button peirced, BUT not if I can't go swimming! Also, how long does it take for your belly button to completley heal after you get it peirced? DO you suggest getting your belly button pierced or nah? Thanks for the advice! (link)
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I've got mine done, and I recommend it. It should be ok to go in after a couple of weeks as long as you clean it properly afterwards. Mine took about a year to heal completly, but I still went swimming and stuff soon after and it healed just fine.
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well i have this problem..i really hate myself i think i'm stupid fat and totally ugly! my mom always tells me i'm not and i'm soooo pretty but i think she's just saying that cause she's my mom! and well a lot of grown up's are also telling me i'm the most pretty girl the've ever seen but in my school people always tell me i'm ugly except my best friend but i think she's also just saying that cause she's my friend! and i really dont get it .. all the grown up people think i'm soo pretty and they tell me that when im not even asking! but in school everybody says im ugly and everytime i look in the mirrow i start crying! i dont know whats wrong with me! i wanna like me but i really hate me! can anybody tell me how i get myself to like me again? please!!!!! i'll rate high for good advice (link)
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Most people in school will say things like that to make you feel bad because they're so insecure themselves.
You need to start doing things to boost your own self esteem. If you feel fat start exercising and dieting. At least once a week do something that makes you feel good about yourself, get a manicure, buy yourself some new clothes, get a new hair cut, etc. Simple changes to your looks can make a whole lot of difference like plucking your eyebrows or making an effort with your hair. And if you're having a low day do something to take your mind off it like call up a friend and go out with them.
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i have a 14g in my ear now, i want to go to a 6g does anyone have any advice for gauging my ears or cartilage?? (link)
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Stretch them a size at a time, and wait 4 weeks between going to the next size.
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do you consider ppl with dirty blonde hair as blondes or brunettes?? cuz ppl joke that i'm blonde when i say dumb things, but i really don't think i'm blonde!!!! lol (link)
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Yes, dirty blonde is still blonde.
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