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i like this guy.. BUT HE IS SUCH A MAN WHORE..he always has girls around him. im a cheerleader and im pretty good looking i guess.. and when im around HIM he makes me feel special.. kind of like he likes me a little.. but when i see him.. he is doing the same thing to other girls!! so i have compitition with alot of other girls... HOW DO I WIN HIM!! 15/f (link)
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i once dated a guy like this. if he is making other girls feel special too, that means he isnt JUST interested in YOU and YOU ONLY. You need to do your best to forget about him. If you dont want to do this than just play it off like you're uninterested to an extent, boys usually want what they cant have
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ok one of my best friends (lest's call her B) broke up with this guy (let's call him A) 2 weeks ago. we all got invited to this party, but B didn't go. when i got to the party, A was flirting with me and tried to get me to dance with him. then he just kind of held me when i told him no. i guess i looked kind of sad because he asked me what was wrong. i told him nothing, but i guess i still looked sad because he tried to make me smile. then he just started kissing me on my neck, on my cheeks, and then he just leaned in and kissed me on the lips. i didn't kiss him back, but he did it again and i just stood there. i didn't push him off because for some reason, i just felt kinda weak...but at the same time it felt so wrong. then he started blowing in my ear and whispering things to me. now i feel really bad because it feels like i'm stabbing B in the back. now i can't get A off of my mind. i'm just really confused...what should i do? (link)
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it has been two week since they broke up.
he obviously has feelings for you. i think you should talk to your friend about it and make sure taht she is okay with you talking to this guy. i think that you may have wanted him to be doing these things or you would have pushed him off. talk to B and tell her what you feel, if she says it okay then go for it. Friendship is more important than romance.
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How do you get a guys (that you like) email? without being to obvious that you like him. Oh and i work with this guy. Thanx in advance (link)
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well, i think the best way is to start showing him that you want to get to know him better with out being to obvious.
I mean if you think he likes you back than it's more of the reason to just show him how you feel.
I'd ask him if he wants to hang out sometime after you two have somewhat of a conversation.
For example: If you are talking about something and than have to go say in a flirty voice, so maybe I'll see you later. If he says yes, suggest going to a coffee shop or somewhere that's quiet yet buisy where you know you'll have his attention.
hope i helped.
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15/f how can you tell if a guy is interested, or is flirting? i am really bad with guys, and desperatly need to know the difference between being friendly and flirting!!! help please from girls and guys!!! (link)
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I think that if the guy you're talking about is getting close to you, both physically and emotionally that it can mean two different things depending on the body language.
1.If he's touchy. Ya know...gives you hugs, always says hi. Flirts physically yet you talk to him alot. Then I say he's interested. Mucho.
2. If he hugs you every so often gives a few nudges and say hi to you in the halls i think it's him trying to say, I'm here and getting to know you.
hope i helped.
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I need some things I could talk to my boyfriend about on the phone. He's really shy on the phone and I wanna bring him more into the convo so its not just me talking.
Ive tried talking about ..
-school
-music
-his family
-things that happened that day
-things he likes ( skateboarding etc.)
but he's still not talking much. What should I do? (link)
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I had the same problem.
When it gets quiet and neither of
you are talking
ask him what he wants to talk about
if he says "I don't know."
Just be like, "Come on. Please?!
It works.
And once you get the started
you can't shut them up.
It'll work.
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hey~
i likethis guy but i havent gotten a chance to talk to him sence school let out, and hes really sweet and i know he likes me because he asked me out but i was with someone at the time. well now i tryed calling him but i didnt get throught. and i really dont know what to do :-( HELP!!!! (link)
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Keep calling, IMing, talking, Seeing everyting. If he likes you and you like him then there is no question. Give it a shot.
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i make such a big deal out of little things with me and my boyfriend.. he thinks kristin from laguna beach is so hot so we fight wen he watches it.. its not my fault im jealous, but what can i do? (link)
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Well, in every relationship you are going to think that other people are good looking. So, maybe you should just try to ignore it and keep thinking that no matter how much he thinks another person it 'hott' he's with you isn't he?
For the other things. Just try to realx a little. Cut him some slack and think about what if he was doing this to you.
Hope that helps.
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My boyfriend and I have been having sex since late June. Last night he asked me if i got it yet ( i got it june 30th, after we first started to) and i said no but im not worried about it im going to wait a few days because my comes so randomly. and it never comes on the same date. he is yelling at me about he knows he asked girls, but i think i know mmy fuckin period and a bunch of girls periods come different times and late. he is really stressing me out, should i go to a clinic to see or buy a test now? (link)
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With something like this I say be as careful as you can be. Wait a while and if it's a few days late don't worry about it. Periods come at different times. If it comes a week late. Go. And soon. You don't want to wait too long with this kind of thing. And if he is really stressing you out. MAKE him understand. Or take a break. Still go out but tell him you need time to realx becuase if it doesn't come he won't be the one with another human coming out of him.
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thers this guy hes a year older than i am but he is veryHOT! He suposdly likes me, but whenever i'm around him he is either totally sweet, or making innapropriate comments twodards me. I sometimes like it, but lately its gotten a little more personal. ive asked him to stop, and he does...for a little while, then its right back to the way it was. Like i said, he is soooooo hot, and i like him, and want to have a "GOOd" time with him, but i don;t know what to do. HELP ME PLEASE
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The way he is acting might be reflecting on the people that you are around at the time. If it's being going on for a long time and he hasn't completley stopped it shows that he doesn't respect you enough to not do what you don't like. You should want the kinda guy who respects you. So, i'd say talk to him and give him a little time. If he doesn't change then move on. Looks aren't everything.
Hope I helped. Send me something if you have any other questions. I'm here to help.
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Hi.. i've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 10 monthes and we really love eachother! Before we started going out, he kind of liked my best friend, but he asked me out instead. Turns out, she's liked him since before we were going out and they flirt soo much! I know flirting is just natural but my other friend told me that she wants us to break up and im really worried.. What should i do!? Thanks! (link)
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If you guys are going out and have been going out for almost a year i wouldn't worry about it. I mean he chose you over her and it's not like he wants to break up with you. Only she does so i wouldn't worry about it. I say that she wants you to break up because she is jealous. Don't worry about it. If he really loves you he wouldn't break up with you for another girl.
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My name is stephanie, and I bhave beeen dating my boyfriend for a month now.But here's the twist! My BF(Chris)asked me to hsve sex with him after a band dance. I told him no, b/c I'm not ready to sexualy active just yet! Unexpectingly he said ok I'll respect that b/c I love. I figured that excuse would by me time, and it did! But now he wants more reasons as to why I can't have sex with him. But see what gets me is is that he's telling me he wants to have sex, but when I say no he's ok with what I decide, but he asks repeating , but never makes any kind of action leading to sex. I'm confused! WHY IS HE GIVING ME MIXED SIGNALS?
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The point is that he loves you enough to want to have that kinda relationship with you but can wait also because he loves you. He loves you and is waiting because he hasen't made a move yet. So i say everything is fine and that when you're ready he'll be waiting.
Hope i helped. Leave me a message if you have any other questions.
~maddy~
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Alright well here it is..
Im 14.. I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago.. He wasnt one of the boyfriends that I actualy could see being with for a long time so I guess I was just going out with him cause I liked him..
Now.. For some reason I just really want a boyfriend. How do I get a guy to like me? what can I do to get a boyfriend or a guy that might want to date me?
I know this probly sounds greaty or selfish or stupid.. But I really want a boyfriend. I like a guy that Im afraid will never like me back.. so im trying to find someone else.. can you help me..
please..
- maddie (link)
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OKay, i'm gonna help you because you have the same name as me :D just kidding but yeah...i doubt that you need a guy tha badly, don't be desperate for a guy or they won't come. Remember we all wants things we don't have. When you show people that you don't care they come to you. T
Trust me...i know this from experience, because you want a boyfriend you see them everywhere and seem to notice that almost everyone you know has one. But the thing is that you should realize that no one NEEDS a boyfriend they just think that they do...try to focus on other things like friends and school. It might sound corny but it gets your mind off of things. And don't change who you are to get a guy, they should like you for you and no reason otherwise.
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ok so there is this guy..he is my guyfriend and i like him alot, but my other friend likes him too, and i already told her it was cool and that im happy for her because he supposedly likes her back. but really i feel empty and broken and i was wondering if this is normal and what should i do to get over this feeling, its making me feel awful, i just want to be normal again!thnx in advance. i'll rate you high if you are nice.
sincerely,
brokenlover (link)
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You know what, i have had the exact same thing happen to me! I know how your feeling and it is perfectly normal to feel this way. What happened to me was i was like best friends with this guy and then all of the sudden i started smiling at him more and trying to find was to be around him. But he liked my best friend and she liked him back, what made it worse was that he asked me to hook them up. Now i know what your going through so, lemme give you some tips...for one any guy that doesn't like you for you isn't worth it. if you dwell on your feelings for this guy and he doesn't show them back then your just hurting yourself more. I know it is hard to move on and it might not happen right away but all effort helps. You just need to believe in yourself and even though it hurts that he doesn't like you, it means that he isn't the one for you, most likely because of the way the universe works when you show him that your not interested anymore then he will come to you and you will probably have a guy that totally loves you for you buy then.
Hope i helped. Send me a message if you have any other questions.
~maddy~
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ok so there is this guy who is kinda friends w/ me and he has a nick name for me, and is always talking to me, and at school dances he always talks to me and then i ask him to dance he says yes and when we are slow dancing he grabs my ass, and he always brings up times when we had fun together.
i dont know if likes me or not and if he does what should i do should i ask him out or some thing?
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I think that all of this is flirting, i think that he enjoys spending time with you from what i hear. If you flirt a lot, he talks about you a lot, and you think he likes you and you like him then i say go for it. I mean the worst he could say is no, but from what i hear is i think you got yourself a crush. :D if you need more advice come back to me. i'm on here all the time
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i broke up with my bf of 2 months today b/c of lack of communication. he wasnt crushed at all..i dont think we meant anything to him but anyway, its the second last day of school before summer. how long should i wait before i go with his friend? we both really like each other and he actually cares about me. hes my friend's ex and im his friends ex..any opinions? tell me what u honestly think...i wont take away from the rating. thanks! (link)
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It depends on how long it has been. If it has been more than 3-5 days since you broke up with yout boyfriend and him and your friend have been spli then i say go for it and see what happens because otherwise you might not see this guy as much and not be able to ask him. So,i would say if it has been loner than 3-5 days than go for it. If your boyfriend doesn't seem like he cares then you shouldn't either.
There is only the other friend to think about now. If you think that she won't mind then ask the other guy out, if you don't feel comfortable doing this then i say talk to her about it. If she is really your friend then she'll understand. Especially if she broke up with the guy that you wanna go out with. Just make sure that she won't be mad at you if you do ask this other guys out. Consider her feelings yours and the guy you wanna ask you. The guy you dump doesn't need to be a part of this situation anymore. :) Hope i helped. If you want more advice leave a message in my inbox.
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ok so i like this guy. he just moved in before christmas. i have liked im since then. well he knows i like him. but he talks to me when we're at home. but when we get to skool he doesnt and i dont know why. can you help me? bc idk why he doesnt talk to me at skool? and i want him to like me.so yeah im confused.
confused girl, age 15.
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Well, confused...the only thing that i can think of is that you aren't the kind of person that he wants to show off to his friends. One of my friends had the same issue. He was my neighbor me her and him hung out all the time and they both liked each other and would flirt a lot out of school but whenever she tried to talk to him in school he would have short quick answers and then walk away. The best thing i can tell you to do is to talk to him about it out of school. Ask him why he never talks to you in school. Say it jokingly then get into a concerned voice. Talk about it with him tell him that it hurts your feelings when he ignored you (i'm guessing it does) or talk to him on AIM which i'm sure he has. If you think it won't work tell me and i'll comeup with something new.
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Okay so theres this guy i met on the inernet he goes to my school i see him at school and talk to him a lot. The problem is he has a gf. He always is like go to the mall with me and would u go out with me if i didnt have a gf and how far i would go. is he just trying to get some or what but i think i mite like him now. (link)
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Well, all i wanna know is why does he wanna know how far you would go with him? I mean if he really liked you then he would wait until you were ready. I would tell him that if he is gonna try stuff with you then he can forget the relationship that he is gonna have with you. Unless you want him to try stuff with you i mean...but yeah, i would talk to him about things first. Or do whatever you think feels right.
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Alright this may seem pathetic.. but I just realized I don't like my boyfriend that much anymore... I just can't dump him because I.. don't know I juust can't do it! So I was going to try to get him to dump me.. the only thing is I don't know how!! The one thing I don't wanna do is cheat on him! So does anyone have any ideas on how I should go about doing this!? (link)
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Okay, if you're having this much trouble dumping him is it because you don't wanna hurt him or you still have feelings for him? One thing that i have to mention here is that i really don't like it when people dump their boyfriends/girlfriends because of one problem they are having in their relationship. I would have some thinking time, if you really wanna dump him tell him that you need your space and need some time to think. During that time think about how it would be with out him and what you really would like to do. I hope i helped. If you would like more advice then please leave a message in my inbox and i would be happy to help :D.
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there's someone that i like. but he told me i wasn't usually his type... what does this mean? (link)
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Okay, the best thing to do in this kind of situation is to take the ahint given to you. He is telling you that he doens't feel the same way. It might hurt to give up but it is better than dwelling on the feelings that you have for this person. Move on and find a guy that totally loves you for you. Trust me, waiting isn't worth it.
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