Theres a girl who is a complete and total slut shes trying to take my boyfriend away from me I dont like her and she knows it i have talked to my boyfriend and he promised he wouldn't go for her...what should I do?
kick her ass and tell her if she ever talks to ur bf again that she'll be in trouble.
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ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female
Just ask him and if he says no and you dont wanna look like a loser say you sure act like it and make a joke out of it or something. I hope everything goes ok.
~*Rissa*~
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Iam really outgoing and i think boys are intimidated by me... how can i tone it down?
13/f
Just try to be a little queiter and try to show your sensitive side, but they should excpet u for how you are. You'll find that right guy that likes you for the way you are.
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14/m 8th grade
im one of the most outgoing pppl in my school except when it comes to asking girls out. theres this one girl that i really like and i want to ask her before its too late but i dont know how to say it or lead her in to it. plz help
write her a note, its sexy and cute :)
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Dear Missy,
I really like this guy... he's realli cute and he likes to surf. I've tried asking him out a few times through my friends but he always turns me down. I really like him and i know that if he doesn't like me then i should go for someone else and i've tried that but i like this guy to much!!!! What should i do?
Signed,
Confused
Well the best way asking a guy out is to do it yourself. If you do ask him out yourself make sure your friends or his friends aren't around. If he says no then just ok your loss. I know its hard to get over a guy but trust me theres alot of other fish in the sea. I bet theres a guy out ther cuter than him that will go out with you. If he says no try to invite a different guy to hang with you just as friends and maybe youll form a bigger crush for him. Just remeber to be open. I hope my advice helped.
luv always,~*Missy*~
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Ok, I really like this guy at my school. In a couple weeks there is going to be a dance and I really want to ask this guy out. But I have self esteem and dont think that Im pretty enough and am afraid of rejection. All my friends keep telling me that I should go for it. But Im very very VERY nervous. What do I do?
Just be yourself, and if you get rejected big deal ur friends will be behind you 100%
Luv always,~*Missy*~
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me and ryan* have been dating for about 6 months now. these past two weeks, it seems like he's been hitting me a lot lately. i mean, half the time we're joking.. but he's been kicking me.. we were walking down the hallway and i said something to him, a joke.. and he kicked me in the back of the leg.. i couldn't walk right the rest of the day.. he kicked my other leg yesterday before algebra ended.. and today, my friend jacki was over and he kicked me in the hip (very bony) so i started to cry and all. is he considered abusive ? what do i do ?
Omg u should dump him no person should ever EVER do that to you! You can find somone even better that wont hurt you. I hope it works out.
luv always,~*Missy*~
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okay this is kinda hard, but i REALLY like this guy like ALOT and im not sure if he likes me. i have asked him out in the past but he has said no. im at a loss... i odnt know what to do anymore. i think hes shy around girls and he cares about what other people think too so0o.. i odnt know im just sooo confused. PLEASE HELP ME!
confused and distressed.
Ok what i think you should do is just build up a friendship first so he wont be so shy around. Go hang out at the mall with a group of friends and him so you guys can become closer. Once you feel you know him well then move into a realationship with him. Hope my advice helped.:)
luv always,~*Missy*~
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for like 2 months,and he wants to kiss me, but I'm not sure if I should. My mom would freak out, but i really like him. What should I do?
Well maybe if you explained to your mom that you really like him and that you would like to give him a kiss and if your mom says no then just tell your boyfriend bout your mom.
luv always,~*Missy*~
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im in 8th grade and me and my boyfried have been going out for a few months...but we dont rly talk on the phone.We talk ALOT in school but not on the phone and when we talk there is allways something to talk about..is this a bad thing that we dont rly talk on the phone?
help i rate!!
trust me i know how you feel i went out with this guy and we like never talked on the phone once or even when we saw eachother! lol The important thing is that you are able to talk to him face to face.
Luv always,~*Missy*~
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Okay. I went out with this one guy, like 3 times. And every single time, I thought he changed, but he hasn't. I used to think that I loved him.. But then everytime we go out, he acts like a jerk. At first he would just completly ignore me.. Then he would go on to throwing rocks at me and other stuff like that.
What should i do? Every time i try to talk to him..He says he will change, but he doesnt.How can i help? And he told me that IM the reason HE chews. Im about to go cut myself! Plez help!
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don t cut your self! DONT LET SOME IMMATURE FREAK MAKE YOU DO SUMTHIN YOUR GUNNA REGRET please hes not worth your time. I know it might be really hard but you have to forget about him. Cutting is a big promblem! Next time he says he is gunna change say its to late. o my gosh i hope everything works out and dont let guys make you do that they aren't worth it.
luv always,~*Missy*~
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I starting going out with this one guy from my school at a ski lodge. He called me at midnight and kept saying how much he loved me, and he only knew me for 12 hours? I dumped him the next morning becuase i found out he was going out with TWO other girls that i didn't know about, at the same time We were going out. he also told those two girls that he "never went out with me" and "NEVER would" I completly freaked out on him at lunch and even slapped him. He denyed everythingg! I also heard of all these gurls he apparently screwed. What can i say tomorrow to him at lunch to make him spit out the truth??
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I would totally ignore that kid. Hew definatly not worth your time! Wow hes so low. If he comes up to you just be like leave me the hell alone! lol omg that is so shallow.
Luv always,~*Missy*~
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How do I tell this guy I love him? I know exactly what to say but I cant do it in front of his friends and theres never more than 5 minutes to talk to him. What should I do at this point because I feel as if I dont get it out soon Im going to pop!
Please help! Thanks!
Jacki
Ok you should ask him out to a romantic dinner or sumthini where his friends won't be there and tell him and if asks to bring his friends aalong say its important and u rather not.
luv always,~*Missy*~
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ok so i dont know what to get my guy for valentines day but i am thinking that i should just like kiss him on the cheek (or lips) and say like "that's my valentines day gift to you" i mean we are only 13 so it would be big not like nothing. do you think that i should?
Omg thats the cutest idea i might use it! lol U definatly should
luv always,~*Missy*~
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I know this might make me sound desperate but here I go. Sorry if its long too. Well on Friday night me and my boyfriend got into a fight because he pretended some chick named Kayla called him and told him I was cheating on him, so I called him stupid because he wouldn't believe me. Later on that night he told me that he was joking and none of it was true and he made it up just so he could find how much I really loved him, and he broke up with me. But, of course we started dating about 10 mins after that. On Saturday he called and asked if I called him and hung up, which I didn't so then hes like ok whatever bye (Apparently he didn't believe me) & hung up. So I called him back to see what was up with that, and he was being mean so I hung up. Then he called me back and hung up, and I did the same and so on and so on. We did this for like 5 times each. Then he called me back after I hung up with him that one last time and said it was over. Does that even sound normal?? Is he an idiot or what? Also, what's a fast way to get over him. Because he meant allot to me, and if he asked me out right now I'd probably say yes, and I don't want to because it makes me look way desperate. THANKS
Remeeber there are other guys in the world that wouldnt treat you half as bad. He sounds like a big idiot to me and i wouldn't let it get to you just remember you have your friends. Let me know how it works out.
luv always,~*Missy*~
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Needless to say, I'm the beast. I'm in love with this great girl (a whole long story) but she's absolutely beautiful. When I first met her, she was a loner as I was, and we connected intellectually. Now, she's a lot more popular, and is hanging out with people just as beautiful as her. She's kinda forgotten about me. I know that looks aren't everything but it is important. I'm trying to improve myself (6' 3" - was 280lbs (used to play football) and now down to 240 lbs.) I can keep losing weight but I have other defects that would require major surgery- I have a huge underbite which to fix they would have to break my upper and lower jaw to re-align it, which means taking bone out of my hip - side effects may include loss of sensation to my lips, tingling down my leg permanent- and not to mention a long time to heal). Also, I had a bad skin infection when I went abroad for a year which left my face scarred and pitted (another surgical procedure to maybe fix). So my question- how far would you go to be more acceptable to the person you love? Thanks for your help >
U have to remember looks aren't everything. But being healthy is so i would excercise and have a healthy diet. Don't get surgery becuase someone should love you for who you are not what you look like. Try talking to her and telling her how you really feel, trust me it makes a difference. And if it doesn't work out remeber theres someone else out there thinking of you not your looks but you and if you are a nice person you will find someone that really cares.
luv always, ~*Missy*~
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I really really like this guy, and he totally leads me on and he was all over me a few weeks go but he has a girlfriend but he totally flirts. it's so confusing. he always hints stuff out like he would like me but i hear so much i hear that he thinks im annoying cause i like him while he has a girlfriend but one of his bestfriends said its not true and he talks about me all the time and he likes me alot but see i dont know if that means that he likes me likes me or just likes me. and everytime he sees me in school he like talks to me or finds a way to say hi and he looks pretty much a lot..do you have any advice on how i can tell if he likes me or what i shoudld do..i am just so confused..help me, please
singed - confused
Typical guy. Just sit him down and say you have a girl friend why r u doing this? And if he says he likes u tell him that he needs to dump hos girl friend to be whith you and if he doesnt then say leave me alone then!
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