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[Name] Stephanie
[Nickname] Sparkles, Pimpalicious
[Screen name] x p l i s i t 15
[Birthday] 2/15/89
[Age] 16
[Astrological sign] Aquarius
[Location] New York
[Sexual Preference] I like guys, lol
[Marital Status] Not married but ive got a man
[Religion] Athiest, haha j/k. Catholic
[Eye color] Blue or green, depends on light
[Height] 5 8
[Shoe size] 8
[Parents still together] Yep
[Siblings] None
[Pets] A dog and a rabbit
[In school/graduated] High School Sophmore
[What do you drive] I dont yet, but ive got an eclipse sittin in my garage waitin for me when i get my permit!

Stephanie In a Nutshell: Im 15, i have a boyfriend named kevin who is very hot(and a soccer player *grins*) i play basketball and run track-distance only, i suck at math, i hate school, and im a huge flirt!

If ya got questions for me drop em in my inbox!

advice

What's the best way to tell a girl how you feel about her? School's over so I can't tell her there. I could get her screen name from one of her friends and tell her over IM but I'm not sure if that's a good idea. Please help. I'm 14 and a guy.

I wouldnt just outright tell her. Get her sn, start talking, ask to hang out. Tell her face to face.

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i want to ask this guy out but i dont want to ask him out directly or give him a note...i want to be creative with this...something he'll like...how do i do this??




i rate 5's for good answers

Do it yourself, im sure hed like it better if it were face to face. Its a bit more scary that way, but well worth it.

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my boyfriend said something really mean to me about the way i look earlier today on the phone. i hung up on him and he keeps calling back and i wont answer. he left a message saying "if you ever stop being mad at me call me, ill understand if you dont though" i want to call him back...what should i say?

Call him back, tell him your mad, demand an appology. If he doesnt appologize then give him hell and call it quits.

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If a guy touches your arm a lot as hes talking to you, is this a good sign?

Its a sign that hes into you, might like u more than a friend. Or he just might b a person who likes to touch people. lol, just kidding hun, its a good thing.

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Every body at my school has a boyfriend ir girlfriend.. I act myself and every thing.. What I am getting to is What do Guys look for in a girl!! and plz nothing Gross

Dont worry about it, having a boyfriend isnt always all its cracked up to be. But i would have to say that guys like girls who have some interest in sports. All the boyfriends ive had seem to have this pattern of girls who can just come over, chill and watch a game on tv. I dunno, mayb its the guys around here...but i hope i helped.

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Okay heres the thing i like this guy A LOT and were close friends and the other night he told me that he likes me too..which made me happy but the thing is right now we cant date because 3 of his best friends ( theyre girls ) like him and it would hurt them and start A LOT of drama...but he told me " i need u right here now i need u right now more than ever" and he told me i make him happy but its real hard ...and i dont know if he wants me to wait until everything cools down with his friends or should i try moving on n puttin interest in someone else....because i mean we both like eachother and we have chemistry....so what should i do!?

Ok, heres what i would do. Date him, from what it seems like hes sincere. Now about those girls, talk to em, set it straight that your his girl and you dont really appreciate how they hang all over him or stare at him or whatever they do with their little crushes. If they do interfere with you two, raise some hell, lol. I hope this helps.

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is it ok to flirt with guys if ur goin out with someone?

as long as the guy is a friend or something and its never going beyond friends.

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Can you send me your pic? whats your screen name?

first of all, why do you want it...and second of all...its xplisit15

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Hey, please help me. (14/m) I was with this girl and a friend of mine, and we were all just hanging out, the girl that i was with is my girlfriend, but she's been since Thursday. She really is kind of creeped out by my friend because he likes her, but she won't like him because she likes me, and we're going out. Now my friend (we're going to call him F from now on) is good friends with my gf. Anyways, my gf and I were holding hands and everything until about 6:15 (PM), where my dad was going to drive up and pick me up. So right before he drove up, I asked her, "Hey.. (Gf's name here)... can I kiss you?" (Well my friend was making 2 fists and showing like making them kiss, and he wanted us to, so I asked) Anyways my gf says "Uhhh no," in kind of a laughing way, not meant to be mean, but she still meant no, so I said "Ok.." In kind of a quiet voice, and then my dad drove up as I waved goodbye. My question is, how come she said no? I don't know if maybe F was making her nervous or she wasn't ready or she was scared, or other things like that. Could someone please help me out, and explain to me what I did wrong and/or maybe give reasons why you think she said no?
Thank you for reading, please help ASAP...

"F" prolly made her say no. Plus he was there making like hand motions and such, she prolly thought he was making you do it and it wasnt a sincere kiss that you wanted to give. The whole asking to kiss her thing coulda weirded her out a lil bit, dont ask just do next time. And you two havent even been going out that long, give it a couple weeks.

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do you have a pic?

Yeah, i do, just ask me if u wanna see it. Mind you i do have a boyfriend and he's in it...

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Is it ok for a guy to stay out late partying if his girl is sitting at home waiting for him?

omg no its not ok. If u know the girl is at home waiting for u then its so wrong. The girl just about always comes first, but there should b at least one day where u can chill with the guys. But make sure u dont leave the girl waitin for ya!

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hey need some help..any ideas on some good song lyrics or a cute quote or saying to put in my profile under my boyfrinds name..im no good at poetry and iduno what song or quote from a site i should put..any suggestions?? thanx a bunch

A great song to put in there is "my place" by nelly. Ur gonna have to change a few of the words tho.

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Okay, this guy asked me out and I really like him in all but he is shorter than me. Please don't leave well if you like him then it wouldn't bother you. I know that I need advice on how it won't affect me, if that makes any since?! PLease Help!!!

For gods sake, it doesnt matter if hes shorter than you! Give the kid a break!

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i used to like this guy now i dont like him any more but he likes me alot wut should i do?

Just tell him how it is, i know the truth can hurt but with some people the word hint just isnt in their vocabulary!

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Well, there is this boy in my school named Greg and he is going out with a boy named Shannon. I really like him and we are becoming really good friends and stuff. He is telling me stuff so i think we are on the right track. I have had a hige crush on him since 6th grade and we've yet to go out. I don't know what to do. Do i need to change my looks to get him to notice me?

Signed,
A girl in desperate need!

No, you dont change your looks for any guy! Never!

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ok lets make this as simple as possible.
i have a b/f..who i love with all my heart. i was at a afootball game with him tonight at the high school. he went to get food. my ex came over to me, who is now my best friend i gave him a hug and a kiss on the cheek. my boyfriend saw and is all upset. is that wrong of me? i don't see that as a problem! he is my BEST FRIEND! i hug every1 & it was just a kiss on the cheek..like i love him, hes my ex, yeah, but hes also a friend! does my b/f have a right to be so mad?! when he knows i only love and want him .. =/ thanx

Wow, well the kiss shouldnt have happened. The hug wasnt wrong! Hugs arent a big deal and he shouldnt be upset over that. After all this guy is your friend even if u two used to date. Your man should chill, especially if he knows u love him. Make it clear that u do and i hope this all works out for u two in the end.

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okay ive been going ou with a guy for 2 days now and i cant stop thinking about him..i think about him all the time everytime i close my eyes all i see is him..when we have to say bye on the phone..i wanna say i love you...but im not sure...could i be inlove??

Wow, 2 days...dont say it. hes gonna think ur a freak, trust me, ive been there. Wait a few weeks, if it lasts a few weeks. And i think ur in lust, not in love.

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this guy i like just asked me out about 5 days ago. he is really shy and we like never tlak bcuz we are both really shy...what whould i do so that we can talk more?

Start a random conversation about school or sports if hes involved. Just ask him something...shy guys respond to questions!

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ok, I just recently dumped my bf of three months. I'm 13/f, and I felt really bad about dumping him. I had thought about it all the time. On the school bus he acted fine, but I could tell he was hurt. I also heard a nasty rumor about him. (it's soo gross) But I kind of dumped him for that, and feel so rude. So at the dance, he asked me to dance, I said sorry for dumping him. We danced, and it was awesome. We're back together again. So...

1. Did I make the right decision?
2. Should I believe the nasty rumor?
3. WILL SOMEONE HELP ME?

Ok, rumors are usually wrong! You should ask him about it before you guys make anything official again.

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how do i get my gf from cutting herself?

Well first you have to understand why she cuts then plz get her some help, ask her to find a support group and make sure she goes at least one time.

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