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my shy bf
this guy i like just asked me out about 5 days ago. he is really shy and we like never tlak bcuz we are both really shy...what whould i do so that we can talk more?
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this happened to my best friend too!!
they both really liked eachother, and talked TONS online, but not really often at school. They both aren't really shy people, but they become shy around eachother; and everyone always made fun of her.. just saying things like why bother going out with him if they didn't even talk and stuff.
All i can say is, do what she did. Get one of your close friends, and one of his friends. And hang out, just the 4 of you. I hung out with them, and her bfs best friend abouut 8 or 9 times.. just doing random fun stuff.. like. the movies, go karting, swimming or just going for a walk. And eventually, because you would've been outgoing because you had your best friend there, you'll open up to him as well. Soon enough, you'll both come around and start hanging out just the two of you, she did ;) He would even be at her house til 3am sometimes!! hehe.
congrats; + good luck with your new bf sweetie :)
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Maybe find out things you guys have in common or actvitiies you both like to do and do one of them. If you feel uncomfortable hangning out with him alone at first, maybe you could hang out wit a group of your friends and then start to hang out alone. Hope i helped :)
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I think that u should come up with sum things that u should talk to him about, but if u can't think of anything then u should go up to one of ur bestfriends and ask for a topic. Then once u got that out of the way then u should just go up to him with confidence and start talkin.
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Start a random conversation about school or sports if hes involved. Just ask him something...shy guys respond to questions!
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just talk about anything that interests the two of you. books, tv shows, movies, that kind of stuff. and if you two are going out then you shouldn't be shy around eachother! there is nothing to be shy about. and flirt with him a little.
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